do you think it was necessary to bring a third man into kumud's life or should matters have been solved between kshitij and garv since she truly loved both of them at different parts of her life and both of them loved her and both of them were great supports for her?
There was absolutely no need to bring a third man in her life, especially when they didn't show any sort of chemistry between the two of them or them falling in love. The second generation was all about GARV and his KUMUD and it should have stayed that way. Nasir played his part well, but it wasn't convincing, and the relationship that they shared did not call for a wedding, I thought friendship was enough between the two of them. Garv's reentry in the show was definitely the planned thing, but unfortunately he made the wrong decision, about which I am still mad.
What could Kumud have done to prevent getting stuck in such a situation? Was it really fate or did kumud loose her love(s) because of herself.
Well, on this one I think that Kumud's fate was to be blamed, the first time when she didn't believe Kshitij but the second time, she should have learned from her past experience and should have learned to believe in her love, which was Garv. You can't blame your fate all the time. Kumud very well knew that the true love of her life was Garv Sachdev and the last time she did say I love you was to the love of her life Garv. So yea, when she lost Garv, she was to be blamed.
What is the role of "misunderstandings" in all thing? she lost both Garv and Kshitij because of misunderstandings. did the three of them jump to conclusions too fast? if they thought about it, could they have prevented their relationship from failing? (this is kumud and kshitij relation ship or garv and kumud relationship you can talk about 1 of the two or both of them)
Yes, all three of them jumped to conclusions too fast, but Garv was the one who jumped to conclusions the slowest among them. Kshitij was a moron not to make sure whether he actually had cancer before taking such a drastic step. I actually liked the Kshitij and Kumud jodi earlier but the moment the real track began which was obviously Garv and Kumud's they blew me away with their mesmerizing chemistry and I fell in love with them. But getting back to the topic, Kumud misunderstanding Kshitij was justified when he came to the wedding mandap to tell her that he didn't have cancer, especially when all the evidence went against Kshitij. I mean this dude comes on her wedding day like a minute before the wedding starts and tells her the truth, I wouldn't believe it at all. To me, frankly speaking it wasn't Kali who created the misunderstandings between Garv and Kumud I believe it was Kshitij. Kshitj was the one who created misunderstandings between the two of them and pulled the innocent act by blaming it all on Kali. Kali was surely evil at times, because she loved Garv, and she wasn't a hypocrite, she did what she wanted to openly and Mr. KShitij Oberoi took full advantage of it. Kshitij never really understood Kumud, if he would have he would have known that the man who Kumud's heart yearns for is none other than Garv. Kshitij "was" by her side but what was the point of it all? He didn't learn anything out of it, he was with her coz of his own selfish reasons, and I agree with those who said that he was attracted to Kumud's beauty that was it. Garv's misunderstood Kumud which led him to the one nightstand with Kali, which actually didn't happen, so basically Garv's goodness his nobility became his biggest enemy. Kumud misunderstood Garv, she could have rejected KShitij's proposal and frankly speaking there wasn't even a good friendship between Kshitij and her it was all an act. If it was true friendship then Kumud could have easily told him that she loved Garv, coz probably one tends to be most comfortable telling the matters of the heart to their best friend, but Kumud didn't feel the connection. Garv misunderstood Kumud in the end, during the wedding day between Kshitij and Kumud that Kumud loves kshitij and I guess his misunderstanding her was justified coz if someone really loves u, they would confess the truth and marry the person they love, Kumud was an exception. She loved Garv with all her heart, but didn't make the right decision, Garv misunderstood Kumud thinking that's what she really wants.
and finally...Who was the PERFERCT HUMSAFAR for Kumud? Garv kshitij ya that new guy (i forgot his name). Guys i dont want this to lead to any sort of fighting if you are a k-k fan great of you are a g-k fan great we are all entitled to our opinions and noone will critisize the other's opinion. and one more thing..i dont mean looks wise. forget aaksha amit and chehtan think of the 3 characters and their personality and their actions and stuff. based on this, decide which man was perfect for kumud and why?
[Color=Blue] This is my favorite question, Jas! Garv has the PERFECT HUMSAFAR written all over him for Kumud. The second generation was the story of Garv and Kumud, and their track was what kept the story going. It was intended to be their story right from the beginning, and one obvious evidence is when the title track of Kkusum used to play in the beginning it was Kumud and Kkusum with Garv in it too, smiling at Kumud. Now what was that all about. Once Garv left the show, or the track of Garv and kumud ended or when KShitij Kumud married, that marked the downfall of the show. Kshitij and Kumud's marriage was just a twist like other Balaji shows, it was a track that was going to show how Kshitij was just attracted to Kumud and didn't really love her the way Garv did. Kshitij just loved Kumud, but Garv loved the people Kumud loved the most, her parents. Just like Mr. Bajaj loves Prem and Sneha, coz he knows they are Prerna's world. Garv went against Kumud because he stood by her father, he considered Abhay his father, and even when he got divorced with both Kali and Kumud, Abhay confided in Garv and Garv continued to call him Papa. It was not a name sake relation between Abhay and Garv. Garv was the son Abhay never had. Kshitij never cared for Kkusum, when she was lost before Shilpa came, Kumud went to Garv and asked him for help and told him to find her and take care of Abhay. Now why would Kumud do that, why wouldn't she ask her "husband" Kshitij to do that. Coz she knows Kshitij doesn't care, he never did. Garv always strived to keep the Kapoors happy, he try to save their house from the auction, which Trishul had planned, Garv went to the court to get the stay order and when he arrived their late he was disappointed and tore the stay order apart. Kshitij sees that and tells Kumud that if he had the stay order why didn't he present it, basically he was trying to create a misunderstanding, but kumud knows Garv's love for the family and says that he must have been late and goes to his house to comfort him. When Kali and Garv married there wasn't any sexual intercourse between them, coz both Kali and Garv knew that he still loves Kumud and always will. Garv was the perfect package, right from the beginning he was a good friend of Kumud, who won her the case against Nakul, the moment they shook hands, I knew that there is track ahead for the two of them. Then he proved to be an even better friend when he decided to marry Kumud when she was pregnant with someone else's child. He continued to love her when she left him, in fact when they separated they realized how much they loved each other. Garv was a perfect humsafar for Kumud coz Kumud easily forgot Kshitij when she married Garv, but never was able to erase Garv, who resided in the core of her heart. She never said I love u, to Kshitij or Karan who were her husbands, I guess the moral of the story is first love may not always be the true love, but the love from the first marriage is everlasting. Garv and Kumud loved each other so much. Garv thought Kumud's happiness is with Kshitij so he let them alone, Kumud thought Garv's happiness is with Kali so she let them alone. But the truth was they were each other's happiness. Another thing is that, Kshitij and Kumud had sex, but Garv and Kumud supposedly didn't. Despite Kshitij and Kumud sexual intercourse, their love wasn't as strong as the love between Garv and Kumud, heck I don't even call kshitij and Kumud's love, LOVE. It wasn't love. Garv and Kumud didn't have to be physical with each other, their eyes did all the magic. All the emotions poured out when they both were lost into each other's eyes, their eyes did all the talking.
Abhay and Kkusum were the first story and history would have repeated itself with Garv and Kumud, it did. Kkusum married Sid, Sid died and she went back to Abhay. Kumud married kshtij, kshitij died and it was gonna be Garv who she would have returned to. By the way, Sid was by far better than Kshitij. Abhay and Kkusum were friends when they got married and so were Garv and Kumud. Misunderstandings took them apart.
Chetan should have come back as Garv, or some other handsome guy should have come to play Garv. But as Jasmine said, there is no other actor who could play Garv, he was perfect for the role. Garv was made for Chetan. The fact that they didn't show any chemistry between Karan and Kumud also is significant coz that shows that kumud didn't want to fall in love again, she wasn't able to, even in her relationship with Kshitij or her marriage with him. It was so bland. It lacked the emotions, kShitij showed his true self after marriage, now that he got Kumud and ruined the relations between Garv and Kumud, he had her forever so not only did he acted rude to Kumud but also to her parents. He proved he was a nautanki. And the part where Kshitij dies and Kumud, and his bhoot that comes out, that part was what Kumud thought of him, it wasn't him in reality, he was so mean to Abhay, I guess Abhay did the right thing. Garv would have taken Abhay to the U.S. and got treatment for him. Garv was the support for Abhay and Kkusum. He always helped Kkusum. Garv and Kumud are truly made for each other, he is was and will always be her perfect humsafar, no doubt about that. [Color=Blue]
Garv and Kumud 4eva
Edited by Garv_Kumud_4eva - 19 years ago
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