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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms
You know I have a family member like Aham, he has this attitude where he will pay for outsiders bills, buy house for them, buy a car for another one, if you ask he will say or that person was getting evicted, the other person I found with a broken down car on such and such a place so I bought them another, but when it came to family spending he was a kanjoos, that's how I see Aham as being too, also if you want to spend and ask for the money he will talk a extremely long time that he works really hard for the money and you aren't etc etc, so yes I can relate, the best thing for such people is to educate yourself and go and live your life and leave them with their money to spend on the outsiders since it makes them happy to throw they money that way...afterall he probably thinks if he throws money to outsiders it's showing them what a mighty man he is and with family they is another way of showing how macho and mighty he is apart from spending money on them.
I don't think so ... I don't think that ahem really does anything to "show" people that he is nice/mighty/macho etc etc ... and i don;t think he gives as much importance to money (like koki or kinjal)
We keep evaluating ahem based on his attitude with Gopi ... But remember, he hates gopi ... She represents everything that is wrong in his life ... she is a reflection of his broken hopes and dreams ... He is frustrated ... there is no one who understands him not even his own mother ... You can make force someone to marry saying "tumhein meri kasam" "agar tum apni maa se pyaar karte" and all that nonsense ... but you can't force someone to love ... the CVs need to give ahem a friend ... someone he can talk to .. someone who will not lecture or emotionally blackmail but help him sort out
But with everyone else, he is pretty ok ... barring one or two incidents here and there where he might react in anger, he is pretty normal and helpful with everyone else.
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