Discussion of the week-Romance in office

Discussion of the week-Romance in office

In a bid to outdo other forums in terms to matter and acitivity, and to boost our own level of it, a bunch of us got together and thought of this idea. Thus presenting to you, Discussion of the week.

Every thursday activity hits rockbottom with nothing there to discuss. Thus this hopefully will help us overcome that hurdle. There are certain rules to this aspect though.

1)It is neccessary to back up whatever you are saying with reasons and situations. This is not an opinion thread, this is a debate thread.

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3)This will be an open debate, and members can post as many times as they want to, having a heated and two way debate about the question or discussion of the week. Kindly stick to one opinion. No jhulufying between two.

4)no name calling, or profanity please.

By the end of the week, that is by next thrusday a winner will be picked. The winner will be based on the arguments presented by that member.

The member will get the opportunity to specify the question of the next week and judge the discussion of the next week. We will try out best to come up with interesting a innovative discussions.

On with This week's Discussion.

Kamini Khanna thinks that Chandni and Aditya's love for her is distracting him. She says that Chandni is a big distraction to Adi's concentration, and Chandni agree's.

But can your love being in your office cause Distraction to your work? Or can they provide support. Most of our Mills and Boon have Boss and secretary romance, and it sounds all so romantic and amazing. Out of this world. But can your loved one really cause distraction? Or can they help you out?

Give your opinion.

See,here there are two different things to consider..whether the romance has being going on for a while,or it's a pehla pehla naya pyaar.....I think that a loved one can distract if you are you in a kind of naya naya pyaar and there's a kind of pehla nasha and khumar over you....in that case,if that person works in the same place,I think you'll be concentrating more on the person and his thoughts rather than your work,as we have with Adi and Chandni......but,at the same time,if a person does love a person he/she works with,for a long time,then I think the person is more of support to the person.Suppose like a situation when there's a crisis at work,the person looks for support and help from the other person...and in this case,then we have a support system in that person......But in Adi-Chandni's case,I think a loved one can be quite a cause of distraction....

ADI ROCKS!!!

I think that an office romance can be a great distarction no matter if its the first time or an old thing..... when you have that person in front of you for most of your day, you are bound to be distracted and keep looking at that person or try to find ways to speak to them thru some excuse or the other. This way, you tend to not concentrate on your job and take work lightly in the same way how adi is doing.

No doubt that it can be a support system too but more than support, it can be a distraction.

It depends upon the novelty of the affair n also upon ur perception towards ur partner.if the relationship is naya naya thn them working together in the same office can cause distraction.one wud find opportunities to spend time with tht person n one ends up neglecting their work.but still i think it differ frm person to person.if one knws well how to distingush between work n personal life thn such things may not occur.now if the novelty has worn off,then i dont find any reason for distraction.tht time one knws his priorities well.In fact one(mostly always a female) can b the inspiration for the other towards his\her success in career.eventualy again i wud say it differs frm person to person.
btw good u srted the topic....
pple comeon replyyyy....atleast give it a start.
with luv....prajakta

yeah,I think Prajakta's right,it also depends upon the person,and his or her attitude towards work and personal relations,and also as she said,one person,usually the girl,is the more inspirationnal,more samajdar one,and she can make the other person realize the importance of work,but once the novelty of the feeling of being in love esp.for the first time,wears off,I think u find more support and realibility in the person,u get the feeling that ,someone is there for me......


yeah,gr8 topic.....cmon ppl,post ur views.....


ADI ROCKS!!!!

Great topic riddhi as usual 👏
well i think working in the same office is a great support.
sumtimes ....the main reason of a break up or ..fites between the couple is coz of the time they cant spend together coz of working hours. if 2 ppl r in different proffession thn it bcums highly impossible to adjust and moreover to understand each other's work and timings.
if u r i nthe same office and same proffession, u understand ur partner's point of view and his work responsiblilites and can share the same if they increase in anycase.
the couple can help each other in tehir work and can spend sum quality time togethr too.
but ya ....as previously said it ddepends on novelty of an affair and also person to person.

I feel luv can never b a distraction on the other hand its a big support 2 hav ur luver near u.i feel ven a guy n a gal r actually in luv its not all abt looking at each other its abt understanding one other n helping each other in difficuilt times.for eg Adi n Chand r in d same office so chand can understand Adi's erratic work schedules n can also offer him help like she did in tuesdez epi(She helped him 2 complete d file fastly.)as both r in same office there ll no communication gap which is a big prob. amongst d couples.2 ppl working in same field in fact in same office can understand each others situation n there ll b no fights over d issues like u give more time 2 ur work n not 2 me.There r breaks in between d working hours n a couple working in d same office can utilise dis time efficiently.In all i think luv can't distract u all u need 2 do is maintain a balance n i think which is not so difficuilt.

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good topic to discuss...since its very common these days that love takes place in place and it goes on for while...
personally i think loving somebody in office is quite easy to fall for it since you spend 8-9 hrs with your co-workers and about romance in office i think, it depends how see yourselves in office. if you're comfortable in front of others, but end of the day its important that you're not avoiding your work cuz of your love! little romance in office is no big deal but when it comes that your assignments are delaying cuz of that romance, you better know that you should stop there...also people who work with you, might will not like your romance+work at same time...they are putting 100% and you're not then it can create conflict....