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Hello friends, thought of sharing my views of how Suhana's scene in the latter part of the week and my oh my!! How wonderful was Suhana and her scrifice for her "pyari si family"?
I loved the way she started her little speech. With slightly broken voice, a lower tone and a slower delivery which aptly dipicted her regret for the initial stages of her marriage. Yes its true, she did not take to the Kashyaps at the beginning and she did not accept her marriage to Ishaan. However, looking at how she has grown to love them purely out of deep care and affection is truly remarkable and very beautiful.
She used to engorss herslef in shopping, partying and having every materialistic objects that money could buy. This was her happiness and joy as her father was busy at work and her sister was too young for her to share her inner most feelings with. Having servants carry out her smallest whim of course meant that she did not need to focus at all on domestic chores. However this did not fill the void of not having someone there as and when she needed. She herself said many times that she used feel very angry and very lonely and yes it was though to go through majority of childhood and adolescence without a mother. With no motherly figure for guidance, it is difficult for any girl to completely understand values of tradition and family bonding, which clearly lacked in her earlier life. Of course we all know retail therapy doesn't solve the real issue because it only acts as a temporary ointment of the deep cravings but it did make her happy and that's what was most important.
The life outside her own palace was fully of joy, fun and merriement.
She believed that to be her real happiness until she became a Kashyap, the "choti bahu" of a middle class family.
To her amazement, she found the same joy in playing with Meethi and gossiping with Rajni and Disha. Spending time with her new family is giving her a deeper satisfaction as now she feels important, valued and loved. For her, the feeling of being a part of a big family was certainly new but very fulfilling. Everyday she's learning more from the very small things to the very big and important issues such as sacrificing for your loved ones. The more she's learning through her daily experiences, the more contentment she is feeling and the more beautiful she is becoming. Her new life certianly has taught her a lot about life, family and marriage. Never did she think that one can have happiness without luxury and she certainly never thought she herself could adjust to the alien lifestyle. She was so unaware of her own strengths and capabilities.
Finding her new family, she has found herself, she understands her own feelings, her own qualities. She now knows she's Ishaan's wife. She knows now to put her family before her. She knows that now it is her husband who loves her dearly, takes priority above everything else.
She now undestands that the beauty of life lies within yourslef. By giving and caring for others is much more gratifying than thoughtlessly taking.
The Kashyaps and her dear husband have been pillars of strength for her through the recent trumoil. She's acknowledged how much they have done for her and appreciates their kindness, love and support. Fot that reason, she was willing to give up her one real passion, SHOPPING! As she declared not to go shopping for a month, she actually destroyed her credit cards with weepy eyes. You can tell that was hard for her but still she feels its nothing compared to what she has gained from them. She's realised it's time to do something for them, its time to give back and one way was not spending any money for a month!!
What sacrifice!đ
Honestly, it may not be a big deal for many people but for someone like Suhana it is a very big deal. I personally found the scene to be very poignant and touchy.
I think her journey so far has been incredible and how she explained true happiness through very simple and apt words was brilliant. Her metamorphosis is becoming more and more wonderful and its truly a delight to watch on screen! đ
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