serials do reflect real lifes feelings

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi everyone...
I read this forum everyday, but never commented on anything...
Today i felt like sharing this to you all because what happened in todays episode and precap for anandi happened to me in different situation... i used to think serials are hype, also it wont happen in real life and feeling or crying for serial is height of madness... but serials do reflect real lifes feelings..
I cried in the same way as anandi cries in the precap when my boyfriend left me... many people says anandi is so dumb and not questioning jagya... some times we cant question our loved ones since we know that it might hurt them and they ll go further away from us...
As jagya and anandi me and my boy friend loved each other so much for 4 years and he left me because of his mom, i was not able to question him or force him to be with me...all my friends scolded me badly for being dumb to him... i din want to be aggressive... love should be natural and it should not come on anyones compromise or recommendation...now i moved on with my life... here the situation is different but pain is same... dadisa, bairon might force and bring back jagya but he ll be not the same jagya playing flute aroung anandi with so much love😕
And also many says that anandi should dump jagya and achieve, but people anandi never got anything she wanted, as a child she wanted to study but din get education then she made up her mind to settle down with jagya happily now she din get that too... what happiness wil anandi get by achieving... sometime we never get what we need😕
I wonder how many wil feel like me for her,because many are in rage and wants anandi to achieve... even i do wish the same...
I know this is just a story but was not able to stop feeling for anandi...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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sorry to hear about your experience.

I think every fan of BV understands human emotions and appreciates pain, when shown right. For instance, i am sure most of see Bhairon's pain and his reaction. I am sure everyone understands Anandi's pain as well.

What is frustrating is not that human emotions are shown the way they are. Its the way these creatives stretch and create convoluted situations that are unnatural and have nothing to do with reality. For instance, someone pointed out in other topics that how come Jagya's parents never went to mumbai to find out about him, they dont even show up for his graduation.. how come gauri's parents do not know where she lives. how come she suffered from typhoid and her family has no idea. most families in india are very protective of their children and make sure that they are safe and usually check on them frequently. how come anandi promised to study for herself and then nothing happened. these are few things that the director and writers should pay attention to. BV can improve a lot.

Its ok to grieve for your loss but its not ok to give up living. these serials should serve as a social message to masses, instead they show misery and darkness.

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