Mistis thoughts 27th april 2011

Phuljhari-Radhika

Bumbum-Dev

Chirkut-Rohan

Kabutarni-maheshwari

chadalika-shanti

Chunnu munnu-creatives

So what do we have today...

Ahh Chandalika comes and as a result phuljhari cannot post her love letter......At the Purohits Chirkut stops Mohini and asks her what happened at the rituals......and Mohini with a very sarcastic tone says...you have been asking this from everyone...😳...don't worry everything was fine...... Phuljhari is also fine (I refuse to write your Phuljhari here...Phuljhari is only Bumbum's so there..my thenga😳)...and also says that she is happy......and she is eagerly waiting to come to this house...... and Chirkut is happy in his own world...Bumbum hears all this and says good I became a chicken and did not go...🤔.now Phuljhari will forget me and will accept this truth...😆...Bumbum what forget...😆.Phuljhari is after you.....I don't know when you will understand that...anyway do carry on dancing your chicken dance...😉...and at Phuljharis house...she is in deep thought that since she could not post her love letter through kabutaro ka mail...😉😳...I mean pigeon mail...😳...she will now have to go...😆...and Kanha gives her the permission...😳..I mean there is shankha dhwani in the background...😳...oh yes and then she takes out the idol of her best friend...I mean kanha and tells him to give her the straight so that she does not succumb to society...🤔...Chunnu munnu is using the world society...arreh wah! ...👏..By the way chunnu munnu I thought all the family members sleep in one room so Phuljhari is doing all these secret conversations when the others in the room are sleeping? 😳What is someone overhears...😳Oh yes...Kanha will make sure that they do not get up from their ninni...😉😳..okkk...chunnu munnu...got it...😳...Anyway Phuljhari gets up and leaves...😲😲...arreh ...😲😲...she is leaving in the middle of the mnight...😲😲...iss ladki ka main kya karu......will she walk the entire night from Rawal to Mathura......

Anyway at Purohit bhawan...Phuljhari has her head covered and 🤔...on my...there are guards on the door...😆...not mushtandes...😉😆...oh my Chunnu munnu...😉😆...and Phuljahari calmly lies that she is with someone else and then seeks in behind some other people...😆...and the guard is left scratching his head as to where the girl disappeared...😆...guard bhaiya...🤔...don't worry...this girl comes and goes...😆don't try to find the reasons where she is going, what she is doing and why she is doing...🤔..it's much better to move aside when she wants to do something...😉...trust me it will save your energy and time...😉.now only if Bumbum will listen to this......but ...all I can say is bhugtoh! I mean to Bumbum...When people can touch their nose directly you are one of the special ones who will touch his nose in a roundabout way...😳..mera kya hai...😳...so Phuljhari is now hiding behind a pot...😳...I mean a pot with a thin plant in it...😳.and then she sneaks in...Inside Mohini is having a conversation with her MIL and she is not happy that coins are being distributed for Chirkuts wedding and MIL pats her head that don't worry we did the same for your marriage too...😳...and then a panditji lands and tells them that this is not the good time for Chirkut's wedding......if the ceremonies are taken forward then there will be rukhaawat ke leeye khed hai signals from the planets...😉😛...and kabutarni says...so what no body can be a better rukhawat than me...😆...so if I am ok then it is ok...😳...ok ok she did not say that and Padma...😳...is now a tap which has been turned on...😛...I mean she goes nooo...😉...and crying,..what will happen...there is already rukhwat...🤔...and its chirkut...we shouldn't do anything which might harm him...🤔...and then they ask for a cure...and the pandit puts on his wise cap...😳...and then chunnu munnu scratch their heads😉...put their hands in their magical hat...😉.and come out with a cure...😆...that the marriage will take place not in front of any witness...😆😆😆...the bride and groom will be locked up somewhere...😳...where they will do the round and round around the fire thing...😳...and the pandit will sit on a dias outside...😳...with a mike in front of him...😆...and broadcast this marriage...😆😉...so that not only do they get married but others in Mathura who also want to get married can do so...😆okay...😉..all this is part of Mistis imagination, he only said marriage with no witness and he will be sitting outside chanting the mantras...😳. and kabutarni says fine we will do that ...and says in this way CB will enter ...😆...excuse me please kabutarni...🤔.mmm...the CB has already entered...😆😆...

Then they show dance going on...and Phuljhari sneaking in...😆...oh haldi is going on...Phuljhari goes in one direction and sees Chirkuts haldi and she turns least interested.😃😆good girl...don't look at Chirkut continue your search for Bumbum...👏...ahh by the way Chirkut is today wearing a shawl like thing so he is not that adha nagu pangu...😉...anyway the dance starts and Phuljhari hiding and then she sees Mohini coming and she goes...aiyooo...😉...and then she hides......and Mohini goes and joins the dance...Phuljhari is looking around for Bumbum ...😃...but nooo...why did Mohini stop dancing...😳...why can't family members dance?...😳..uffo chunnu munnu...😳...anyway Phuljhari gets to know about Bumbum's room and she sneaks into the room and checks it out...😆...and then looks at the picture of kid bumbumbhole and while leaving ...🤔...excuse me please...😉😆...oh that's not me...the letter that is tied in her pallu...😆..I mean the letter is asking her to leave it behind and she leaves it in front of everyone...😳...and then comes down and finds Bumbum pushing Chintamani I mean the old man's chair...and she is pushed to take pranam...😳...Chintamani raises his eyebrows when he sees her...😆..she smiled sweetly at him and then Bumbum...who is stunned...😆😆😆...see Bumbum you thought that you will escape from her😆...and the Kabutarni pops up from behind saying who is this...😡...and Phuljhari looks with her pleading little girls eyes at Bumbum. 😆😳Oh yes I forgot Chandalika is looking for Phuljhari and her father is protecting her but is worried.

Precap-Chirkut has become bhasmasur...oh by the way is he wearing Bumbum's red kurta pajama...😳... ahh he is wearing red to show that he is a mad bull now who will be running amok......ahh or bhasmasur......well asurs always wear red...😉.and Bumbum is facing the Spanish inquisition......this is not fair chunnu munnu Chirkut is now also stealing Bumbums clothes😡.

Ahh the fire is the fire in relationships...ok...Chunnu munnu will Bumum finally do dhishum dhishum...and become bholenath...please chunnu munnu...

Comment-

Today two dialogues of Radhika were a bit interesting...,when she prays to Kanha to give her the strength to not succumb in front of society...that was followed by her going to the Purohit house...and then leaving the letter ...which from the precap seems has been discovered by the wrong people (if the precap is true)...so most probably that was a prelude to the drama involving society which might be presented in the next episodes...or is society here just to signify her entering the future in-laws house before the accepted wedding rituals...then Radhika in Devs room saying that now I know where your room is...why would she say that? What significance will that room have in future for her? Her father has most probably guessed that something is wrong and he is protecting her...but what will he do in front of society if this truth regarding Radhikas travel come out? Chirkut will now probably come to know what was happening...he is throwing a tantrum...will he join the dots?...so is the fire a result of what will happen as a result of this tantrum...I mean fire in relationship that does destroy people involved and the bonds between them...but fire also makes a person strong...so who will become more strong and who will succumb...thats the test of anyones character isn't it.

Liked Mohini today...her sentences to Rohan were dripping in sarcasm that Radhika is eager to come here...and then when her MIL explained that coins were also distributed in her wedding ...Mohini actually did not care...she nodded her head but her expression has "I don't care look...By the way the badi bahu was looking different. Padma is now getting worried about Rohan getting harmed...will she blame someone for that?

As for acting or expression liked everyne but special mention to the smile that broke out on Phuljharis face when she saw Bumbum and the look of utter horror on Bumbum's face was priceless.

So the grihapravesh of the CB has already happened...looks like we are in for a high voltage drama which if handled well can be interesting.

Todays episode reminded me of this song...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJntsHBkFKM&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: why3

Misti, I knew the commentary would be just great today.

Thanks Angie.

My brief comments for now:

You were right. Everyone is pagal in PF pagalkhana. Amma should be banished to the storeroom as her purpose is just to nod her head. Padma is getting extremely worried and seems to be looking at these signs seriously.
I have stopped commenting on amma...if she ever wakes up from her rip van winkle dream then I will write about her.As for Padma...its her son...so if someone comes tells a mother that there will be problems for her son...the mother will be worried...even if the mother is not conservative and liberal, the fear will be there because it is her child. Since its a conservative family they have used rituals as a justification. This psychosis has been building up in Padma...she is a widow and the badi bahu reminded her that not to send her jewellary because of bad luck...she did not believe that...but then slowly one after another there has been hindrances...and now the pandit directly telling her...its a mothers heart speaking here. No one is listening to her...so she is getting more and more hyper.

Phuljhari - what to say. She is one gutsy person. I thought Dadaji looked very surprised to see her too. I guess her picture has been shown to him. So when she enters as Dev's wife (or somebody else), would he know that she is CB and more than a match for Kabutarni. If only Kabutarni knew about Radhika's shyness (writing letters, chasing Bumbum and coming to his house), she would be begging Shanti to give her Chanda instead.
Will the channel and PH not think about the wrath of the audience if Radhika gets married to someone else? As for badi bahu...she will be begging for Chanda if she ever gets to know about any of these roops of Phuljhari.😉

Don't know if precap is coming true or is it after the marriage fiasco ceremony. If it is true, then Chirkut is going to go ahead with the marriage regardless of what Phuljhari feels and Padma is going to let him go for the ceremony knowing that Radhika is already considering herself married to Bumbum. Why would any mother want to do that? So only sense is that it occurs after the fire scene when the marriage doesn't happen.
Lets see what happens tmrw...I want to see what happens before commenting here.

Was thinking that Bumbum doesn't deserve Phuljhari at this moment and so the marriage between him and Phuljhari should not happen. He thinks that he has become successful in persauding Phuljhari to marry Rohan. But instead she comes to his house and is openly standing in front of him and challenging him. Now if he still go ahead and force her to go through the ceremony, then he is entering that murky water where he has become extremely selfish. There is a girl in front of him who is pleading with him about not marrying Rohan (marriage to him is secondary) and she is taking all these chances. Yet he wants her to marry Rohan. This is called playing with 2 lives. He is playing God with Radhika and Rohan's lives and it is morally wrong. So to me depending on the episode, he would fall from the grace tomorrow if he still rebuffs Phuljhari and acts as if everything is alright.
Yes he is playing with lives here...and not only Radhika and Rohan, he is also playing with his life...and morally he is wrong...but Bumbum here is not a perfect human being...he is flawed, he is full of insecurites and he has a strong sense of duty. So he will take wrong decisions...he thinks that Phuljhari is obsessed about this childhood marraige and this appearance of Phuljhari might hammer home to him, that she really is obsessed. If he accepts this marriage then being a person with high sense of duty he might think about accepting Phuljhari...but then he will have to make a choice...to fulfill his duty to his dadaji and to see that dadajis dreams come true or to fulfill his duty towards Phulhari who has suddenly told him of marriage...will he choose a relationship that has nurtured and protected him since he was a child or will he choose a relationship with someone whom he has just met? To me the only way he will choose Phuljhari over dadaji is if Phuljhari is in any danger or she is being harmed. He also has insecurites...but he feels guilty of betraying Phuljharis tapsya...so for me on the basis of his character, he is ok...I am ok because he is feeling guilty...but I hope that the creatives do not push Bumbum much because he might loose public sympathy. So if he again rebuffs Phuljhari I hope they show him feeling sad and sorry...I mean I want some emotions fromhim showing him being pulled apart in two different directions.

I am not sure why Radhika would fall for such a person at this time. Even her actions today indicated that her softness is for that childhood KK whom she sees as Dev. So she is still calling herself the wife of KK and not the wife of Dev. Her tender feelings are a result of her connection with childhood KK and her good memories. There is nothing in adult Dev that should attract her at this moment. His first two meetings were good with her but now his selfishness (this is what it is when you just think of your interests over other person's choice) is not endearing.
Radhika has not fallen for him...she is not interested in Dev, she is only after KK and her reaction to the photo of the kid Dev indicates that. For her to fall in love with Dev she has to mix with him ...she has to know him...she has to know how the family treats him...she has to know the person who is inside this human being...and my guess is she will fall in love...not because she has to fall in love but because she will see the person hidden inside...

I am not sure if Dev would be the one to cancel the wedding. He may rescue her but would he be the one to stand up for her at this time? His actions so far don't suggest that. If the precap is true, then it is more than likely that Radhika's truth would come out on its own based on some accidents (Kanha's miracle) and Radhika's actions.
The promo shows Dev being shocked so he might come to her rescue but Radhika said today to give her strength to not succumb in front of socitey...so if both are true then it will be Radhika who will face society...lets see if Dev supports her or not.

So Dev is being a coward now and deserves Rohan's bhasmasur behavior. It would serve him right if Phuljhari marries Rohan, but Phuljhari doesn't deserve Rohan. So until Bumbum becomes Bumbumbhole, Phuljhari should stay away from him in a mental sense.
I won't say Dev is coward...he is a flawed character and so his judgements might also be flawed...as for Rohan, yes Dev is one of the causes for his becoming mental if he becomes that, but Rohan is also responsible...because he knows Dev...he knows that Dev will do anything for him...he knows that Dev has always protected him...so if he becomes mental and does not think about what Dev has been to him all his life, then that is because of Rohan's nature. Infact badi bahu and Padma are also responsible...Badi bahu knowlingly spoiled him so that his character will not develop...and Padma stood while the spoiling is going on.

Originally posted by: misti73

Originally posted by: why3

Actually Padma's reaction is now appropriate. It is her son and she has to worry about it. Hence my comment about precap not happening tomorrow because it won't make sense for her to let Rohan go with this marriage unless Rohan doesn't want to listen to her. Forget about the childhood marriage. Maybe nobody accepts that, but Padma has to want to cancel this wedding when she gets to know that Radhika only considers Dev her husband.

Radhika and Devs childhood marriage will only come out to Padma if Dev lets it out...so thats why I want to see like you whether they actually show it tmrw and if they do what exactly Dev tells her. As for her saying yes...that depends on how strong she is as a mother. Until now they have not shown as a strong one... will she again take a step back after being bullied by the badi bahu or will she take a step back after falling for her sons unreasonable demands...or will she stand strong. The cycle until now has been...Rohan making demands...Padma saying no...him throwing tantrum...badi bahu saying yes and Padma bowing down. Will she be able to show some other reaction.Earlier she used to stand up because the father in law was there...also what will badi bahu tell her to convince Padma of this marriage?Lets see how strong Padma is.

I do want to see a confrontation scene between Padma and Maheswari when this marriage blows up in their face. Padma has asked her to postpone it several times but she overrode Padma's concerns. Now if Rohand and Radhika's marriage doesn't happen (it won't happen but it also should be clear to everyone because audience won't like a no-witness marriage where one person starts claiming that the marriage did happen) and Rohan gets hurt, then Maheswari would be responsible in Padma's eyes. If Padma can fight for Amma, then she can fight for her son too.

Yes thats why I said that lets see how strong Padma is...she has asked for the marriage to be postponed and badi bahu has overwritten that...she could have stayed strong and stuck to her decision ...so in some way Padma also might need support. As for one person starting to claim that marriage did happen when it didn't...thats CB1...if the creatives show it again here then it is repeatation...and in reverse does not mean that it is new or is a twist...it is simply in reverse.

I hope they do think about that. The audience already know that the marriage is not happening especially as they have shown Radhika challenging Kanha. But even the appearance of fake marriage between Rohan and Radhika (Rohan claiming the marriage as there are no witnesses) would be intolerable for audience because nobody would like to see Radhika entering PB as Rohan's fake wife.
Yes...and there are other avenues through which Radhika can enter and she has already entered as CB...

Well, even though he is playing with his own life, he has a right to do so as it is his life and if he wants to destroy it nobody can stop him.
Since you mentioned playing God thats why thats why I included his name and yes he can do whatever he wants to do with his life but he has no right to play with others.

Rohan is also a selfish person and it is on his own if he goes crazy. Dev is losing his love too but he hasn't become destructive. So, Rohan's destructiveness can not be excused and should be a learning lesson for Dev about his mistakes when he was forcing Rohan on Radhika. But Dev is playing with Radhika's life. He knows that she is miserable about the marriage and yet not doing anything to stop it. His monologues are definitely needed. Today they showed him trying to assure himself that Radhika has accepted the wedding and is moving forward. But tomorrow he should know that Radhika is still stuck in her past. So he should feel guilty that his actions are hurting Radhika and that he is doing it because he thinks it is good for Dadaji and also Radhika would be happy in the long run.
I will like it if they show Dev learing and growing from this mistake of his...

I understand that if he is torn between two relationships - Dadaji vs. Radhika, then Dadaji would win as it is the one that has been there longest for him. Unlike Radhika, he hasn't lived with her memory for 12 years. So that is realistic. Unfortunately, he doesn't have a mentor who can set him straight. So he would pay dearly for his mistakes. So in that sense I agree that if handled right, it could be nice drama. But nothing unpalatable to audience should be shown and that includes blatant copying of CB1 where Radhika enters PB as Rohan's wife even if she is not married to him.
Yes Dev does not have a mentor in that sense...amma has always told him to sacrifice and thats what he is doing...Radhika entering as Rohans wife even though she is not married to him...I hope the cvs and the channel have thought carefully about this.

Originally posted by: neerjashingla

Misti your starting comments were funny , was laughing while reading them, .When i read your comments wish nobody should be around...

Thank you.😉...can't help it if the creatives show such utpatang rituals...and scenes...I means Rads leaving a night ...and then directly in Mathura...

.Rubina has written in FB that God helps those who help themselves, has taken this proverb too seriously so is not leaving everything to Kanha ... I always wanted her to fight her battles herself not leaning to Kanha for every problem ...I like her attitude , stubbornness, trying her best to convince Dev...

She has a one track mind and people say that she is shy.😆😆

Now a days Production Houses are expert in innovating the new rituals every day as if there is lack of these rituals in India , and again according to their convenience discover something new...Then where is the need for all the Taam zhaam,Its a good idea.. People should go this way to marry.

They have a magical ha which gives them never ending rituals and types of marriages...they just say abacadabra and it pops out.

..Do not trust Creatives in the matter of Promos or precap ,you never know what they are going to show next .

Yes they can change their decision.

.I liked Angie ,s track..But how come Dev was shown standing at the time of Feras in Devdas mode..

Maybe thats Radhikas imagination.😉

.Letter is not going to be discovered in near future as the secret of their marriage is going take some time, hope should not hurry to disclose the secret...They have shown her entering the RP house with rituals so no marriage is in the near future..

Lets see what they do here.

.Liked Rubina when while touching RP,s feet she looks at Dev with smile and Dev,s expressions were worth seeing.

Yes ,....😆

.. Misti Jagjit singh ghazal is very good as always...

Thankyou.

Originally posted by: bvs7691

Loved the commentary as always Misti... Thank You 👏

You are welcome.

Your chunnu munnus are def taking us on a roller coaster ride...😕 Pata nahi round the bend kya hone wala hain type...😆 Never heard of this wedding...😲 Interesting... they are trying to portray kanha/radha divinity and indian culture through the serial... and then they come up with such crazy situations. Chalo... never mind. Lets see what tomorrow brings... I was thinking the letter will find its way to chirkut's hand and he will get dev/rad married in this no witness marriage. But precap shows something else...😲 Chirkut acting pyar mein pagal deewana...🤪

Chunnu munnu are definitely taking us for a ride...discovering new rituals, marriages and what not. Rohan is a big question mark...he is either acting or really throwing a tantrum because his favourite toy might be taken from him

Oops almost forgot to mention... luv the JagjitJi track.😃

Thanks.😉