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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why is gauri agreeing to all this? Is she not scared of her family..........I thought she is very sensible girl..but this shows that she is blind in love.....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i too don't want anandi or gauri to get jagya. because he is not a nice husband. he is a 🤬
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Posted: 14 years ago
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They both deserve each other as both of them are hiding their truth from the childhood more of Jagya then Gauri at fault, at least she cannot be blamed for what happened and should reveal the secret to Jagya, but this two faced evil guy is an idiot, who is hell bent on ruining 3 lives. He accepted Anandi after 5 years staying apart( even though he was a victim of the child marriage like lot of his friends, but who stay grounded and loyal to their wives) and just because he met a city girl who is modern he fell for her, ridiculous...
And Gauri being educated she doesn't think twice before going into a live in relation ship after getting not so good feed back from Bade Papa who she respects a lot more than her own parents, and she doesn't have any idea about Jagay's family except from what ever she has heard from him....I sill don't understand how can a girl so educated and especially who went through a major trauma earlier in the life can be so stupid....now don't tell me this is blind love, its simple stupidity

And Anandi is another candidate the less said about her the better, Don't know why the main lead of the show should be shown as larger than life personality with all the sacrifices and forgiving natured...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: RBO_Addict

They both deserve each other as both of them are hiding their truth from the childhood more of Jagya then Gauri at fault, at least she cannot be blamed for what happened and should reveal the secret to Jagya, but this two faced evil guy is an idiot, who is hell bent on ruining 3 lives. He accepted Anandi after 5 years staying apart( even though he was a victim of the child marriage like lot of his friends, but who stay grounded and loyal to their wives) and just because he met a city girl who is modern he fell for her, ridiculous...

And Gauri being educated she doesn't think twice before going into a live in relation ship after getting not so good feed back from Bade Papa who she respects a lot more than her own parents, and she doesn't have any idea about Jagay's family except from what ever she has heard from him....I sill don't understand how can a girl so educated and especially who went through a major trauma earlier in the life can be so stupid....now don't tell me this is blind love, its simple stupidity

And Anandi is another candidate the less said about her the better, Don't know why the main lead of the show should be shown as larger than life personality with all the sacrifices and forgiving natured...



Sadly a child marriage tends to have so many side effects and these effects differ from person to person........however, I did not blame the channel for showing Jagya becoming infatuated with Gauri as this is quite normal for a boy who has led a sheltered insular life being thrown into a big city with its attractions. BUT where I find it objectionable is the way this infatuation has affected Jagya's entire personality............that is strange........many people from all walks of life and status be it a love or arranged marriage have sometimes fallen out of love that is an unfortunate reality...........but the strange thing is that most of those who are unfaithful tend to become very good actors, not showing their true feelings to keep others from guessing..................here with Jagya it is not just the opposite but he has become an insufferable boor, unkind , cruel and unfeeling not to mention a constant liar.

Gauri has not lied to anyone she has just not shared her past........unless you call it lying by omission............that is quite different.......and I am sure she will come out with the truth but certainly I would not equate her silence with Jagya's behavior. She is in love and love makes you do strange things, maybe she is being blind and hasty but that I find quite normal specially amongst love marriages...........I am not about to blame her for her actions because to me that is more acceptable as reality than some of the other characteristics I have seen in this serial.

I totally agree with you that values and right from wrong is taught by parents and Jagya obviously has not learnt anything from his family and that is why he is what he is today. As for Anandi...............yes I too, am fed up with her acceptance but unless her character gets some backbone from somewhere..........she will be miserable all her life and that is where I feel this serial should show something proactive and positive to ensure parents DO NOT get their daughters married off hastily.😊

Edited by groucho - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: groucho



Sadly a child marriage tends to have so many side effects and these effects differ from person to person........however, I did not blame the channel for showing Jagya becoming infatuated with Gauri as this is quite normal for a boy who has led a sheltered insular life being thrown into a big city with its attractions. BUT where I find it objectionable is the way this infatuation has affected Jagya's entire personality............that is strange........many people from all walks of life and status be it a love or arranged marriage have sometimes fallen out of love that is an unfortunate reality...........but the strange thing is that most of those who are unfaithful tend to become very good actors, not showing their true feelings to keep others from guessing..................here with Jagya it is not just the opposite but he has become an insufferable boor, unkind , cruel and unfeeling not to mention a constant liar.

Gauri has not lied to anyone she has just not shared her past........unless you call it lying by omission............that is quite different.......and I am sure she will come out with the truth but certainly I would not equate her silence with Jagya's behavior. She is in love and love makes you do strange things, maybe she is being blind and hasty but that I find quite normal specially amongst love marriages...........I am not about to blame her for her actions because to me that is more acceptable as reality than some of the other characteristics I have seen in this serial.

I totally agree with you that values and right from wrong is taught by parents and Jagya obviously has not learnt anything from his family and that is why he is what he is today. As for Anandi...............yes I too, am fed up with her acceptance but unless her character gets some backbone from somewhere..........she will be miserable all her life and that is where I feel this serial should show something proactive and positive to ensure parents DO NOT get their daughters married off hastily.😊

Jagya has always been a good liar in front of others but i found it amazing he had no guilt at all even after he saw how angry gauri got at his 'imaginary friend with wife and girlfriend' episode.He was calmly planning his ambitious mumbai life and romancing gauri the very next day without a second though on what all gauri shouted at him..Its like he lives just for today-what happened yesterday or will happen tomorrow just doesn't bother him at all 🤔 ,unless it's anandi coming to mumbai..
Yeah gauri has not lied and its more of an omission at bade papa's prodding .But i expected her to be more cautious especially when bade papa had warned her after meeting jagya and clearly told her 'this guy seems to be hiding something ' .A person so tormented by what happened to her early on in life would have been more careful -that's what i feel ..'doodh kaa jalaa chaach bhii phookphook ke peetha hai'..
Anandi O anandi, what do we say about her-maybe a posterchild for a life wasted at the altar of child marriage...😳 This should be a wakeup call for her as she wasted all her life expecting jagya to be with her forever..
Now she has to face the fact that jagya may actually be in love with somebody else and may not come back to her ever.She has little education and no identity of her own other than jagya's wife tag and dadisa's bahu which are of no value when there will be no jagya by her side..
Now she has to face the reality of being an abandoned wife ...Hope she realises what a mistake it was to give up on education ..Hope she rethinks her priorities and focus on what SHE wants in life,not what jagya or dadisa wants .
Maybe all that negativity from jagya may bring forth a positive, self respecting anandi..🤔
Edited by pjyo - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Jagya is such a loser. even after he grew uop he loved anandi, but after meeting gauri all that love changed direction towards gauri. what an 🤬
Edited by susan88 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divmath


thats what came to mind when I watched the episode, that you won the bet...😆 predictions came true...didnt I tell you...Jagya will definitely marry Gauri...coz there is no way Gauri would have agreed, if she knew the truth ! and this was the only option CV's had to pave the way for parpotha....thats next in line (uspe bhi bet laga lo)...wait and watch.....picture abhi baaki hai 😆 but after two back to back boring episodes...this one was good....I am also waiting to see what will happen to Phooli, coz something is just not right there.....and Jag-Gauri scenes were sooo cute....I was like awwww when Jag was doing grocery shopping....wish this was just a normal Ja-Ga love story and Jag wasn't such a snob/swine whatever.......alas thats not true, ...anyways...humein kya...just watch the show and enjoy 😃 as long as there is no rona dhona.... who cares..😆



@bold- Agreed.


Anandi's perpetual tears and whining in almost every episode has put me away from the show. J and G look cute together, they made me watch the show again, after a long time. And while I don't support Jagdish's free-wheeling relationship with Gauri while he is already/still married to Anandi (it is cheating), I cannot blame him for falling in love . nobody can control who one falls in love with, it's how you choose to act upon that love and your conduct, that maketh or breaketh the man.

And I can sort of understand why he fell for Gauri...


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