I remember only one reference from the episodes i saw back then that i think Daiba said was when i think after the deeyavatu happened and said Paanbha is not losing her son, but look at it this way Gul will be kinda like Yashodha maiya to Kesar, which back then seemed a right thing to say judging by how it all was back then esp how Gul was and Kes was, he was naughty and all that, and the one he look for and to was Gulaal and Gul use to care and tell him off alot, hold his ears and what notgreat post lennie ! but me disheartened lttle bit somebody from this forum told me that during vasant and gulaal marriage panba asked gulaal to take care of kesar like a surrogate mother and she said yes she is like mother to kesar ............is it true.............i didnt watch the old epi so really dont know 😲