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vasundhara78

@vasundhara78

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Posted: 14 years ago

if gulaal tries to push that irritating talli towards kesar, thats a huge injustice towards him.

thing i dont like about gulaal, she making decisions on behalf of others all the time and trying to force them on.

this has happenned one time too many when it come sto kesar.

i think she was wrong to promise talli to marry her to kesar without even trying to find out if this was what kesar liked in the first place.

looks like the guy dsnt seem to have any say in his affairs.

kesar is set to explode big time when he finds this out.

its obvious to him his marriage to gulaal stands as the ultimate truth for him. if due to some twist in the story he ends up accepting talli, the decision shud be his and not gulaal's.

i hate when people are "forced" to decide.

i dont know how the show would shape up if vasant returns , then obviously the man for gulaal is vasant.

but if not , gulaal has the responsibility to give kesar his right ......... it is not right to use an innocent boy , however noble gulaal's intentions were , when she married him. but along comes the responsibility to keep him happy always. and if t means performing wifely duties if kesar wants that , she should. she owes it to him. every choice has a consequence. and gulaal should have been aware of this rule while marrying kesar. he was not a pawn to be used and discarded at will. he was a human being.

Edited by vasundhara78 - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree about Gulaal's one-sided decisions. She may have taken decisions for young Kesar because he was still a child. But to take a decision about his future about his life-partner is something even parents don't have exclusive rights on...so Gulaal should be careful about pushing that relationship. However, if Gulaal doesn't interfere, Talli and Kesar might be something that could happen naturally. And if thats the case, Gulaal should stand back and that would be best for everyone. But if it is not something Kesar wants then Talli and Gulaal and everyone else should understand that too.

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Posted: 14 years ago

nice post dear ! i even think gulaal has always enforced her decision on kesar first she married him (ofcourse to protect him) then she send him to boarding school then she wants him to be vasant (no identity of his own ) and then she promised to marry kesar to talli ..........seems gulaal is treating lhim like hand puppet ..................i think kesar is doing right .....anyone will go crazy with so much interference😉

Edited by arti07 - 14 years ago