Hickory Dickory Dock

Please spare me the criticism on the topic heading😳. It's just that my blank mind seems kind of stale today with no ideas and no light bulbs going ping over my head... 😕

Basically, I just felt it was a long time since we had something like this .. something that would get the members closer. I did see that we had a couple of AWOL visitors 😡 over the weekend. So thought it'd be best to have something like this...

In this thread, Please express your IF journey through the members you have met here.

I am sure when all of us came here we were new, shy and felt skeptical about posting stuff on the forum.

I am sure that all of us faced what is commonly known as the 100 view-1 reply syndrome. I am sure there was at least one member that actually made it up for all that, helped you pick yourself up and make IF a truly memorable place to be, post and have fun.

Once you got the hang of it here, you got to know many more members one by one and you realised that these members may seem a little intimidating at first but are actually darlings-at-heart and you strike it up.

You get involved in your own group of friends and you eagerly wait forward to meet up with them at IF every evening.

You have your low days and bad days and sad days and these friends help cheer you up. Occassionally you might have had the odd-bad experience at IF but it is because of these friends that you survived IF.

Please let us know about that first special member who made you feel welcome here, the first member you warmed to and the current members you are closest to. Please dedicate a few words to your close friends.

Any confessions that need to be done, any dedications (not too long poems) any arguements you want to settle, anyone that you would like to become friendly with, any member that you have admired but never let know - basically an out and all friendship thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please dedicate this thread to original words, sentences or dedications (Something from the bottom of your heart) not proses or poems from the internet.. the poem could be crude but atleast it would be something from the heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😛 and dont keep the names of the members anonymous - remember this is a confession thread.. 😃

and ahem ahem 😛 NO CHATTING....

Awwwwwwww, just the kind of thread that would make me go all mushy-mushy!!! 😳 Well, the person who first became my friend and helped me get over all the hooplas is mia at the moment, so I will write my dedication to her when she gets back 😳

In the meantime I want to tell you all about my first intimidating experience with an IFian - I was a newbie and didn't know that you should start a thread to introduce yourself. So I just posted my first message on a normal thread. No sooner had I done this than I got a thunderous - "Who are you? Introduce yourself!!! 😡 " I went gulp gulp. I imagined a dada type girl glaring down at me. And me a poor fresher, shaking in my boots, prepared to be ragged!!! Can you guess who that was? Our dear little Buffie, who used to call herself Buff then!!! 😆 I guess the tables have reversed now, what say you Buffie??????? 😉

loooooooooooooooooooooool hansa.......... oh no i am rofllllllllllll...

btw i said no anonymity 😡

and priya you said taheera had done stuff for you during your crisis.. let us know a bit about what she did.. this thread is to help us appreciate such qualities in other members who we may not be as close to.... so let us know.. 😳 😛

Originally posted by: Buffie

di, when did i do that 😕

On the 13th of Oct, 2005 😆 And the brilliant archaelogist that you are, i'm sure you will be able to dig it up 😆😆

Oops, sowie lashy, forgot - no chatting!!! 😛

anything to nail buffie hansoo anything to nail buffie - even chatting 😛

Originally posted by: lashforever

anything to nail buffie hansoo anything to nail buffie - even chatting 😛

heeee 😆 i second that... 😉

ok, my safar(i hate the word safar...after that SS ka safar....some teased me calling me a doctor, the mods warned me and some hated me)....anyways, this is my safar 😛 ....

i actually landed at IF when i googled JJKN.......infact, i used to watch jjkn from the beginning but only sometimes in august 2005 did i google as (OMG, i feel so ashamed to confess 😭😭😭 ..i googled coz i wanted to know more about MandA; both of whom i loved 🤢 esp apu 🤢🤢 ).......thus me landed at IF

i registered as buff and my first post was about p'lal, a must read😆....and the first one to reply to my post was mikagurl....my first post has 103 views and 6 replied, 4 of which were "THANX for the article" 😆

My first friend at IF was jotique a ka JK_5...YES, she was my first friend..though lashy PM'ed me welcommign me, i actually didnt realize that PM's existed and thus never checked mine..thus the first welcome message i read was by enigma.......

my first tiff was with malks, jk, sid, and lol, practically the whole IF.....guess for what???yes, for calling mona fat 😆 ...there was a pic where ss was wearing a short skirt..people were like"what is she wearing" 😲 ....I commented saying that"she's atleast thin, nlike mona"...OOOOOOOOOOOOOPPPPPPPPPPPSSSSSSSSSS
now never did i know that i would be BRUTALLY BASHEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD LEFT RIGHT AND CENTRE FOR THAT...... 😭

I can proudly say that I WAS THE ONE WHO STARTED THE REPEATING CLOTHES THREAD, THE INCISCORS AND GUMMIE mention and the SS threads 😈...YES,I treasuredddddddddd my repeating clothes thread but now its lost😭😭 (as the buff ID has been banned in the name of deactivation and i feel so embarrassed as i havent done anything wrong but yet buff is banned ...it was my fault as i pm'ed vijayji asking him to deactivate my ID and deactivation ke naam pe mujhe ban kar diya gaya and my priceless repeating clothes thread is lost..now i have pleadedddddddddddddddd vijay to un-ban me....)

yes, till then, none spoke about the gummies, inciscors and canines......and none spoke about SS' chipkooness, bragging(if memory serves me right, it was me who first mocked at SS for bragging about her most good looking hubby😡)....my shaitans devil associates were sheenz, monique...we called ourselves the freaks along with aishu and we were the only shaitans then....yes, me, sheena, moni 😆 ..now the shaitan gang has become slightly big with piggie, khush, moni, me, sheena, limey, abs,JK,ammu,.......

now about my friends...almost everyone is my friend and me is not going to name as i am sure i will forget names....but i would like to share the wonderful times i have had with a few(not that the others are not close to me or my friends but only that i interact with these comparitively more)

moni, sheenz, lashy, ammu, hansa and piyu and aishu

moni:OK, this woman hates flattery but this is not flattery😉😃....i really have no words for moni..she is by far the most awesome person i have met and she can turn the most serious thread into a comical one 👏👍🏼 ....she is very sweet and i'm not saying this just for the heck of it...moni really iS SWEET..moni really is a sweetie pie...she can never be rude to anyone but VB and SD 😈 but those freak everyone out🤢
moni is the most livliest person on the forum and she is very brainy too..as she equally bashes as much as we do but never gets warned 👏😆 .......

sheena:..where do i start.....now we started with a fight... A REALLY BAD ONE 😆...but i really dunno when we patched up and went on to become the best of buddies........i used to say that she is my alter ego but i was wrong..sheena is very different from me and me got to realize this after we started chatting on MSN.... but we do think congruently when it comes to certain issues..but only certain 😉 ...we fight on MSN more than i do on this forum .....but we do make up the very next moment and we make it a point to stand up for each other when a third person bashes either of us 🤗 ..she is really a true friend and one of the most wittiest persons on thi forum....posts less these days but her posts do have quite an impact....i indeed am quite lucky to have a friend like her...she is juvenile, and has certain shortcomings but there are other traits for which i can overlook a few shortcomings 🤗 ....and vice versa....me too is not perfect and i am too impulsive and enforcing and sheena does put up with me

piggie🐷:now i know piyu through sheena...all i can say is that THIS GIRL IS TOO MATURE FOR HER AGE, talks like a 25 year old, but is ONLY 15(hehehahahahhaa 😉 )....a sweetheart and the biggest badmash 😈 ..she and moni make one helluva pair especially when they decide to get besharam...they really come up with horrifying pics(like the morphed apu pic in a pink chaddi ) and horrifying observations(erection 🤢)..but yet are the cutest duo 😳

ammu:again, i know her through sheena , ammu is again a sweetheart but is quite misconstrued and can be really vindicative .......loves apu and eijoo, but loves the latter like crazy.......... 😳

aishu:now we share a love hate relationship...i am extremely fond of her 🤗 but she is absconding offlate because she is engrossed in her kaam and i hateeeeeeeee her for that 😡 ...aishu was my second friend after JK but we became the best of buddies...there was a time when aishu and me used to drool over apu, but thankfully both of us have gotton over it👏....aishu , again like moni, can never be rude to anyone.......we shared the best of times and the optimist inside me yet thinks that she will be back ...she used to reply to my updates everyday and used to post her SSS after each episode of jjkn...and dont we all miss her fanfic 😭

lashy:now lashy most of the times keeps pulling my leg but again is someone whom i loveeeeeeeeee.....i really think we need clones of lashy to run the forum 😳 ....lashu is someone whom i look up to, and respect alottttttttttt......she is witty, at the same time her remarks are the most meaningful....and as a mod, she is impartial and rocks😭👍🏼 ....

hansa whom i affectionately call DI 🤗 :firstly, WHEN O WHEN did i intimidate you 😕🤔 .....secondly, she is the one whom i love, respect and look up to the mosttt....though she is older, i have always felt that she is one among us(meaning us shaitans)... a friend, philosopher and guide.....i have often confided so manyyyyyyyyyyy thoughts and opinions in her and she has been so kind to actually patiently listen to them 😆🤗 ...and not only listen but she has also promptly replied to all my pm's whereas i yet have to reply to her last two pm's 😆😈 .......someone whom i can always trust and someone who means quite alottt to me.....

me lovessssssss eveyone here.....and since me cannot name all(as i am sure i will forget names and make people feel miserable), me just says all my jjkn family members🤗 .....

well....I'd like to say something to two friends of mine...

I: someone whom I had a fight with when I first got to know coz I WAS a Mona Singh fan a loonnggg time ago and she was/is not...but now we both BASH mona together..lmaooooooooooo...
we fought over mona's weight..lmaoooooooo..the memories make me laugh 😆 ..

but pretty soon i discovered that this girl and I have a LOT of the same likes and dislikes even though we are not as similiar as we thought and we are quite different

i LOVED her humorous bashing and admired how she said what she thought and stood by it REAGARDLESS of what happened...
we'd connect through so many threads that eventually turned into chat threads about how we used to like JJKN and used to like AA and how we hate wessap and looweeeee Baby B 😳 and had lashy run after us...and we got into trouble TOGETHER for making fun of AA and we got into trouble for mocking SS...

whenever I read a post of hers it makes me smile..I am always eager to see what she will say when a new SandA intvw/article is posted....she never fails to make me smile....

we have bonded over soooo very much more over the past months and my day is NOT complete unless i talk to her via PM or msn and we tell each other what we did and what happened...

YES...my fellow shaitan...my favouritesstttt person on IF---->Buurrffiiieeeeee aka anusha aka nushie aka Buffie 🤗 🤗 🤗

II: PIYU!!piyu and I talk quite a bit and she has become a really good friend of mine...she is one of the most intelligent, well-travelled and well-read people I know and we share a lot of laughs, good and bad moments, sad stories, "parents' lectures" stories, and she patiently listens to me drool over my new love aka eijoo😆 and we bash chipkoo part 2😉etc on msn...thanks for everything piyu, what would I do if I didn't have you to talk to😃 thanks for putting up with me🤗

good one lashy👏.

as hansa says, brings in a rush of words and feelings as you think of the early days..

for me it was 10000 views and 1 reply😆 😆 😆

i am sufficiently old to forget my first post and whether anybody replied to it.... it was not important.... i was just sending messages into empty space.... that too only when i was sufficiently provoked to do so...

but i remember getting quite upset when opinion in one of my posts in the debate mansion was carelessly set aside😕. then it was like what one of our friends has recently decided to do.... keep quiet and watch. (god help us sensitive people🤢)

i remember mentioning about newbies finding it difficult to fit in and got plenty of negative vibes for that, though that was how i really felt at that time... (ok lashy you said it is confession time so🤔)

then i got this wonderful pm from LR, love runveer....

it said that it was veerappen's death anniversary that day...... and if i forwarded the message to someone special it would bring me good luck 😆.......(or something like that, now i remind you that those grey cells are getting old😆) so i promptly forwarded it back to her.😆 and we had a good laugh over it...😆

we know she was unfortunate to be at the wrong place and at the wrong time during the delhi blasts and we got pretty anxious about her safety.

some one who was also inquring about her was chatterbox, meena for most of us... and this was a good reason to get very close to meena. i know i am not the only person who will connect to meena because she has this exceptional quality of being there for you. i have called her mother hen in the forum and i can still visualise her spreading out her wings to take in as many chicks under her wing as possible. i do not think she likes that expression a lot but that is the image i get in my head when i see her into her act😆

i have come a long way, made many friends along the way.... though i remain shy with words.... very slow with pms.... now you know guys so just excuse me😭

hansa, neelamji, anjubala, prachi, nishtha, sharila... and of course LR and CB..... and not the least ... lashy😆

jjkn has lost its charm on the tele for me, but the forum has kept its..... thanks to the lovely people i have found here....

LR....who is surely reading these messages.... its ok buddy if you do not want to write, but i know you are not far from all of us. thanks for everything.

CB.... you are the best😳