Originally posted by: lilsasha
I agree with all Maaneet crazies views especially Nandita... My view is... they both should be sorry for not communicating & for not realizing that whatever they did is only out of love & concern for one another... Geet forgive Dev for Maan's mental peace & Happiness... Maan once said to Dev that neither he will forget what he did with Geet nor will he let Geet forget... He still hasn't forgotten all the pain Geet had to go through cos he has seen her going through all tortures with his own eyes...
To justify Maan's anger i would say Many a times the victim's wounds heals n so does her bad memories but its hard for the person who religiously loves that victims to forgive & forget the guilty one ...
Yes he was wrong when he said all that in front of 3rd person... He should have expressed all this in private... But there was no such a big thing to leave the house just like that... Geet is behaving immature i think... If she can choose to be kind to a person who once deceived her bigtime, why cant she be lil big hearted to the person who is love of her life???... just because Dev convinced her that he wants to repent?... Does she have any idea what a guy feels when he sees his wife with a person who has seen her undressed?... She expects Maan to understand the reason for forgiveness?... It's not so easy yaar...Maan can once forgive someone who did wrong to him but will never wholeheartedly forgive someone who played with his Geet's izzat...If he does! let go, that too will be again for Geet's Sake... Cos Maan's love is unconditional... this is my POV & not an attack towards Geet fans...I am a Maaneet fan myself 😊
Shabnam.
@red...
OMG sasha....i love u yaar....u just wrote the exact words that i wanted to say for this entire last week...but cudnt say because i was feeling a little inhibited....
of course how can maan forget the fact that she was seen undressed by someone...and if that someone is his own bro it is even more difficult because geet will always be related to that person thru him....
and to see that same person dev touching geet even for just to play holi...it is a torture for maan....
maan once said to dev that no third person can ever create problem between him and geet....of course maan meant those words....but dev is the only person on earth who has the potential to destroy maneet's relationship...
and maan himself has proven that....since the day maan has seen dev in shimla...maan has never been the same....maneet's relation has been going thru a tough phase....
maan always reacts wenever he sees dev with geet....
wat happened in the kitchen was the outcome of all the suppressed emotions that maan has been feeling since coming back from shimla...and seeing dev always interfering in their life....
i agree maan's words were too harsh and humiliating....but i see them as reaction to everything he has been seeing....
another thing is that maan has loved geet selflessly and wholeheartedly....only because of the profundity of his love...a possessive man like maan cud accept geet with her past....it is even more difficult for a lover who is possessive to live with the fact that his wife has once slept with his own bro....but he accepted that and even the baby he has loved like his own....
and if that man causes pain...says a few humiliating words...does that negate the love he has for her....does that become so big that the wife has to leave the house knowing that maan cannot live widout her....
if she can forgive dev who played not only with her trust and innocence....but also with his body and soul...then is it too difficult to forgive maan who by hurting geet is himself dying a thouand deaths....
and maan did not say those words because he suspects geet....but as u said seeing dev and geet tog brings out the frustration that he feels on seeing his wife with her former bed partner....and this geet must understand....she must understand that maan can never be comfortable with dev and geet both in his life....
this much understanding is expected from geet because she too loves maan unconditionally...
i wish and i wish geet wud realise where she has been wrong....i dont deny that maan needs to apologise for wat he said....i feel maan was wrong more because he said those words in front of dev rather than the words themselves....those words may be harsh but true....
no girl hving self respect will forgive her rapist...who slept with her just to satisfy his lust keeping her under the false notion that she is sleeping with her hubby...
yes...maan needs to say sorry but not alone....geet must also apologise for provoking him to such a point that he cud utter those demeaning words....
i know the future track is that maan will accept dev in his and geet's life...but then it will be a huge compromise on maan's part....
for me maneet relation will never be the same again knowing that maan has to forgive dev whom he hates so intensely only for geet....
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