Persauding Shaan To Agree On The Baby Issue...

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-Veena-

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Posted: 14 years ago

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--I have a bit of differed opinion:

I agree with you May.... ShaNak need time on having a baby.... but i disagree on the 'immature' part regarding Shaan.

No parent is ready for a baby .... regardless of perfect planning. Maturity as a parent comes only after you have a baby.

Regarding Shaan's immaturity on the whole.. he is still young.. yaa ok he is in his late 20's if you say.. but at that age we are still learning and seeking. Women mature sooner than men.. Men regardless of what age they are they stay boys at heart so in saying this... I would say it is too soon for ShaNak to have a baby this early but no .. i wouldn't say it is because of Shaan's immaturity.. i would say because they need to enjoy their marriage more as a couple!😳

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May

@The_May_Rose

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Veena-

--I have a bit of differed opinion:

I agree with you May.... ShaNak need time on having a baby.... but i disagree on the 'immature' part regarding Shaan.

No parent is ready for a baby .... regardless of perfect planning. Maturity as a parent comes only after you have a baby.

Regarding Shaan's immaturity on the whole.. he is still young.. yaa ok he is in his late 20's if you say.. but at that age we are still learning and seeking. Women mature sooner than men.. Men regardless of what age they are they stay boys at heart so in saying this... I would say it is too soon for ShaNak to have a baby this early but no .. i wouldn't say it is because of Shaan's immaturity.. i would say because they need to enjoy their marriage more as a couple!😳

Valid point Veena....Once you have a child you do learn....I have seen it with many of my colleages and relatives....

I agree ShaNak need more time a a couple....I think that is also the reason Shaan is behaving so negatively....Just his reaction to Sunil's advice yesterday, proves this....

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-Veena-

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Posted: 14 years ago

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^ Thanks May.. I feel how Shaan reacted would be EXACTLY the same i would (being a woman) in his situation!! 😃 Very valid.. very real!

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Simi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Great post May!!

Of course, the decision to have a baby should lie with thebaby's parents and not anybody else! But at the same time, I hope that Shaan takes the responsibility for the family planning, coz he's at least old enough to know the consequences of his actions, isn't he?

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Krishna

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Having a baby should be a mutal decision indeed....one shouldn't ahve a baby to please someone else...

And Veena compeletely agree word for word with all that you said....my sentiments exactly...😃

Shanak need time to themselves to enjoy married life to really know one another ...thus am not for them being parents...

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adeelaanwar

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i 'll support shan ..i understand madhvi sunil feelings.....but they should not persuade them for anything.....i guess after honeymoon it will be a right time bcz now they are newly married......i know khanak wants to give a happiness to her in-lows......but no pregnancy for now.....