A discusion : avni's mariage

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Posted: 14 years ago
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avni is not ready for mariage owing to the responsibilities she has to fulfil....why blame the conditions and our society or the guy's family? bhaskar is not shown to be from an afulent family. he too needs a helping hand like any other middle class couple (who work together to suport their family)
mariage requires 100% comitment. if a guy wants that comitment then nothing wrong in it. the entire situation shown in the show is such that both family are middle class.
only thing is that bhaskar is a bit beter than avni.
n if at all he desires his wife's suport then he is right in his own way.
however, avni has tonn of responsibilities to fulfil and totaly oriented towards them. she isnt ready for mariage.
we all know that Avni is a responsible daughter, loving sister who has just one thing in her mind : family's welfare. her dream n aim of life is to give a luxurious lifestyle to her family.
she wants nothing for her ownself and is ready to give selflesly. However, with such resposibilities to fulfil and without any helping hand she shouldnt get maried at this stage. she has a lot to do for her family and is totally oriented towards that. even her sisters arent working. her brother is a total lazy.
i guess she should not get married to any one...she isnt ready for mariage 😕😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi
I think avni should marry Bhaskar....she is not one to take care of her family..I know she is responsible, dedicated n loving daughter but she has her own life to lead...Two sisters r quite big enough to start searching job atlist abhaa can do that, I always both the girls sitting at home n Manu as a boy n bro of avni he should start taking responsibilities at list he can try searchin job n help his mom...he is so lazy....In this case Avni has her own life too....
Bhaskar is not at all negative only miney minded..I am sure slowly n steadly bhaskar will love avni truely n not her money......Now it is pretty long time all avni's bro n sisters should know their responsibilities...phir aisa na ho jaye Avni responsibility leti rahi aur abhaa, aditi or manu ney shaadi kar lee....they can do it😕😕😕......Avni should get marry to Bhaskar sooner
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Posted: 14 years ago
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even I feel she shud wait... specially with the kind of expenditure this marriage itself is incurring... and she is not able to keep it under control ...how will she manage giving her entire salary to her mother and siblings ... they need her financial help...
specially after marriage the other family also becomes her family and if they need money and ask her to help she will not be able to refuse ... and the way Bhaskar is talking about taking loans ... how will she manage to pay back loans ... its going to be a tricky situation and Avni will get trapped big time between helping two families...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes , She should wait until the other sister get a workplace. It is not actually her who wants to get married it is her mother who wants her to get married. So I think it is Avnis choice if she wants to get married now. A bit stupid from her mother.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -DE-

Yes , She should wait until the other sister get a workplace. It is not actually her who wants to get married it is her mother who wants her to get married. So I think it is Avnis choice if she wants to get married now. A bit stupid from her mother.



yes... even I find it stupid ..... the mother doesnt even realise the kind of situation she is creating for her daughter... I can understand that she is booged down by society norms and wants her daughter to settle down in life... but the current situation is not hidden from the mother... she shud have been more practical than this...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: cjs369



yes... even I find it stupid ..... the mother doesnt even realise the kind of situation she is creating for her daughter... I can understand that she is booged down by society norms and wants her daughter to settle down in life... but the current situation is not hidden from the mother... she shud have been more practical than this...

yes, she is geting maried only bcx of her mother's presure. mariage doesnt come in her priority list. in the yest episode also she told bhaskat that her life starts with her ayi n ends with aditi...she never had time for llove or romance. i gues she should not get maried only
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Posted: 14 years ago
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avni could get maariied, but not to cheap bahskar and bhaskars greedy family

bhaskar is moneyye trickster

i dont think so he is going to contribute the 40000 share also rightly as thought by avinis sisters .

i am not sayng avni should not get married as there will be no one to care of her useless brother and mother and sisters. after all that is not too possible in praaacticla owrld, lest u land up with someone who says ok to all tose avnis nataks and then turn out themselves heavily dependant like bahskar did.

bakwwwaaaas hai yaar, i mean avni bhee kya rubbish naa somehelp is always ok to your parents side and also if the inlaws side is too rich chalo chal jayega but all the time it is not possible

even the mother also kees asking money for everything
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gublu

Hi

I think avni should marry Bhaskar....she is not one to take care of her family..I know she is responsible, dedicated n loving daughter but she has her own life to lead...Two sisters r quite big enough to start searching job atlist abhaa can do that, I always both the girls sitting at home n Manu as a boy n bro of avni he should start taking responsibilities at list he can try searchin job n help his mom...he is so lazy....In this case Avni has her own life too....
Bhaskar is not at all negative only miney minded..I am sure slowly n steadly bhaskar will love avni truely n not her money......Now it is pretty long time all avni's bro n sisters should know their responsibilities...phir aisa na ho jaye Avni responsibility leti rahi aur abhaa, aditi or manu ney shaadi kar lee....they can do it😕😕😕......Avni should get marry to Bhaskar sooner

WELL SAID.👏👏👏
LUV YA DIDI
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Avni should marry Bhaskar that's all. Bhaskar is a sweet n cute person...give him time yaar...he will change...abhi story shuru hua hai...bhaskar is not at all negative..plssssss love him......Bhaskar will shine n hit starplus tom....loving bhaskar each day 😳😳😳😳 round applause to Rohit/Bhaskar 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Avni n Bhakar will rock together😉😉😉😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ummm... i guess avni shud marry...
......avni's family is entirely dependent on her ALONE.. which is not good... if we can see now, her sister decides to do part-time job so tht she cud not only contribute for avni's marriage but also b a helping hand once avni leaves.... this is actually good 😊, coz sumwhr or the other, she is now realising her responsibilities towards her family...👏 not only this but avni's brother, the most vella n carefree member of the family 😆, he too does FINALLY decide to work... isnt tht good?😉 if avni's marriage is making her siblings realize their responsibilities towards their family, i guess thts nice... coz seeing the scenario, al i cud judge is tht if avni wud stay un-married, earn for the family n ful-fill their requirements al her life, then these guys wud hv never thot of taking such a step....😡
wht else i feel is tht avni too has her OWN LIFE... its good tht being a daughter she supports her family...👏 but even she knws this FACT tht she can not sit at her home al her life and take care of her family.... more-over her mother, who has NOTHING else to bother her but AVNI'S MARRIAGE wud herself not like her daughter to sit back home coz of the society kya kahegi blah! blah! blah!.... 😕
m strictly against this society kya sochegi type blackmails... 😕😕 but guys we aaaaal knw this FACT... serials me society ke according hi sab chalta h...😆😆😆
so lets see wht happens whn avni gets married to bhaskar....😉 m sure avni is not those types who will supress herself with her in-laws pressure.... ( well she had the guts to walk off in todays episode whn she showed her dis-agreement to wht bhaskar's jija was saying )😉👏
by far m enjoying the show n i like al the character.... 😉

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