What is love?

Originally posted by: tvrasika

@ Jessica
Very nice post.

Yes, I also think the CVs are addressing the 'trust' issue but in a round-about way.... we will get ther eventually... just hope it's powerful when that realisation happens for Shaan!

For ex, that line by Shaan- pyaar ek ehsaas nahin, ek zinmedaari hai is such a good line... but i think it got a bit lost ysterday....

Hpe that doesnt happen again.

Originally posted by: AzaraA

nice post jessica personally i don't belive in love but i know when i get married i'll be in love with my partner and i think trust is the base of any relation if my partner dosen trust me that means he don't loves me......

A marriage without trust has no existence!!

and its really important that shaan realize that he did a mistake and he have to pay for it .......

luv zara

Originally posted by: -SYS-

I was thinking about this alot.

On one hand I believe that love cannot exist without there being trust.Responsibility comes into play a bit later.It comes with wanting to sustain the love.

On the other hand aren't humans emotional creature when it comes to love?Love can lead to irrational behaviour, it can make you do things you wouldn't normally do.It makes you stop thinking with your brain and makes you lead with your heart-not exactly the organ made for thinking. True.. very true, log dil se sochte jab apne pyaar ke baarein mein sochte hain.. When situations like these arise it can make that trust-which you thought you always had-fly out of the window.Because in the end humans can be very insecure creatures.Whether they don't feel worthy of that love or don't feel secure of it in some tiny part of their souls, that niggling doubt without which we wouldn't be humans at all, it rises and just takes over.

See it quite complex. Hence we ask the same question what is love? it is felt with the heart, but the brain is forced to interrupt here. The brain forces the doubts, but then the heart takes upper hand if the love is strong. Forces the brain to think that the heart has a point. Here probably Shantanu's heart lost to his brain not because his love for Khanak was not strong. He loved Khanak, but probably his male vanity took a blow. He thought Khanak loved Suraj more.. He did not want to beilieve that but his brain over powered his heart and made him react the way he did..

So yes love is about trust but love is also about having doubts taunt that tiny insecurity somewhere inside you, and about that feeling taking over and dominating.Your brain knows you're being irrational but you fall helpless.

Yes love is a war between the heart and the brain!!

The song Saaz mentions-just reinforces the fact that love has unlimited capacity to hurt.And as long as we're humanly emotional and as long as we love passionately, we leave ourselves open to all sorts of hurts.

Humans were never meant to be saints, never designed to be perfect.

No one is perfect. If shantanu has faults then even Khanak has her own!! But here love is the one who wins. In the end, Shantanu will make ammends, Khanak will forgive.. Love wins!! Heart wins as well as the brains!!

Even if he makes amends for doubting her fidelity, even if he matures through this experience, who is to say he wouldn't make another mistake in the future?

Sigh shak ke liye koi tod nahin hain!! Doubts and love don't go together. Her comes the important role of the heart, where the heart pacifies the brains and thus wins. Even is Khanak fogives Shantanu, her trust will become stronger as the next time Shantanu will not make the same mistake and thus love emerges to be stronger.

See I believe that god makes pairs. They were made for each other.. (Lolz I mean RBO made them to be together😆😉) So God also tests their relationship to make it more stronger. Else they would not be together!!

Okay I have no idea what I just wrote.In my defense, it is 4 in the morning.