I love you bolne mein aur nibhane mein... - Page 2

kabhi kabhi pyar kisi ke adhoore sapne pure karne mein bhi hota
kisi ke thake hue kadmo ko sahra dene mein
kabhi kisi ki haari hui umeedon ko hosla dene mein hota hai
kabhi kisi ki unkahi baaton ko sunne mein
aur kabhi kisi ki kahi baaton ko un sunna karne mein
kabhi baarish mein ghumna, aur kabhi baraf mein khelna
kabhi jhulsati hui dhoop mein saath chalna

and yes sometimes roses and chocolates too😉

well, I think that people go through various stages in love.

Originally posted by: Sana_SGP

nice post 😊

love is not only about getting lovey dovey.. its such a strong beautiful relation in which understanding,care,respect,importance n value for 1 another occur. luv is not only abt saying i luv u.. its abt feeling the intensity behind those words n feel....

luv can b seeing by d reactionz n actionz taking by a person even without words...but expressing 1 self is always important in every relation(i can say that,coz am not gud at expressing myself...like ishaan u can say),but 1 should say only if he/she truely mean that...

i totally agree with suhana "I love you bolne mein aur pyaar karne mein bahut farak hota hai"

coz many of d ppl say that they luv u.. but they didnt mean that in true sense 😊

sorry for the late response !!
I agree to what you have said that luv can be seen w/o words but expressing is impt. in any rel one obviously knows whether you are loved or not, but saying is also impt, not equally but almost, because sometimes you really want to hear it and sometimes situations are such where you act otherwise but that doesnt mean that the love is lost..Situations make you behave in such a way.
The movie kabhi kushi comes to my mind where later AB tells SRK that son i love you a lot, just that I could never say. And I think indians generally are less into PDA and fathers more so.

Nice one..i wish i could write an incident on this bit..hoefully weekend.

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

Some young minds think to see a couple in love .... seeing them together in HM.... seeing them in arms.... they saying ILU to each other ..... or some eye-locks r true love....

Sam keen says...."You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly."

Accepting those flaws unconditionally..... loving the person in him/her... in totality.... for life is LOVE.....! For Ishaan..... it did not drew him closer to Suhana because she is beautiful..... it was because he was in love with her that he found her beautiful.....Yest. they made a beautiful vow outside the church to be together always..... It was a wonderful scene.... which shows 2 minds have become one....their paths r one..... their destination is one.... they just need to walk together to face and overcome those hurdles on the way..... with so much depth to the concept of love....

if a woman is flattered by hearing those 3 words..... can she assume her man is the one who is always the one to hold her hand..... not quite sure.... those 3 words hardly matter.... but the emotions do matter....Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. ..... the strength and courage shud go hand in hand to make a life live worthwhile..... then a marraige can be successful....

Thank you Lax..
Ishaan tells in the next episode that when the journey is so beautiful, who is bothered abt the destination. and I think the destination is not in ones hand, but hte journey and companion is to an extent
In one of the movies I had seen saath saath which says
Love does not mean looking at each other, it means looking together in the same direction

Originally posted by: zak_ris

Yes it is right for Suhana but I guess she doesn't have to explain this to Ishaan....as Ishaan has always loved her from his soul....

Knowing that Suhana will leave from his life any day still his love for Suhana remained intact..He has always loved her unconditionally..He stood by her and always gave her the freedom to make decisions..

From Suhana's point of view, yes she has to understand and learn from Ishaan about true love....

Agreed that ishaan has kinda proved his love, but they are both young and have a lot to learn from their experiences. Suhana's life exp showed her that ishaan is a better person in all respsects compared to ishaan ..
So I would say that suahan wasnt trying to explain to ishaan or teach him waht love is, she was sharing her views and I wouldnt say ishaan is a guru in love,,,hopefully he will have a lot to learn from suahan abt love..😃

Originally posted by: iruaG

well, I think that people go through various stages in love.

The first stage is when you believe that saying ILU is more important than meaning it, when you believe in PDA (Public Display of Affection), when you can't keep your hands off each other, when you do all those cheesy things for each other etc. Basically at that time you are immature and so is your love

Then the second stage is when you become more subtle in your expression of love. It's not puppy love anymore, but something more meaningful, something deeper. Now you don't need to hold hands all the time to feel that you're together, now you don't need to say " Tujhe dekha toh yeh jaana sanam, pyar hota hai deewana sanam" to prove that u r in love with the person.

The Third stage is the 'Companionship' stage where you have truly realized the meaning of love---that love goes beyond mere physical attraction, when you learn to give selfless love, when just waking up with each other in the morning itself is romantic. When you don't need to say anything and your partner can just get what you want to say by looking in your eyes... things like cards, valentine's day etc have become redundant

I think each one of us goes through these stages. At each stage of your relationship, you experience a different kind of love.

iruag, you are absolutely right in saying that everyone's relation goes through phases and you experience a different love at each stage..no doubt abt it.
Ishaan and suhaana are are the first stage and uncle aunty at the last one.
Maybe the rest of the kashyap gang is in the 2nd stage.

But the point which the serial was driving is that in many cases, the love doesnt move from 1st stage to 2nd and 3rd..It stays in the 1st stage, what moves /changes is one of the parties in the relationship😉
And no matter how mature one gets, all the 3 stages are important, just their degree varies.

Btw, these are just my guesses...i am no pro 😉

Originally posted by: poshah

Agreed that ishaan has kinda proved his love, but they are both young and have a lot to learn from their experiences. Suhana's life exp showed her that ishaan is a better person in all respsects compared to ishaan ..
So I would say that suahan wasnt trying to explain to ishaan or teach him waht love is, she was sharing her views and I wouldnt say ishaan is a guru in love,,,hopefully he will have a lot to learn from suahan abt love..😃

Ya of course..Sushaan as couple are very young and inexperienced..they have to learn a lot about living a happy married life...😊