Discussion Of The Week

Hi frenz .......this topic is of sunshine1983 but she is facing sum problems in posting so i m posting on behalf of her.

Hi all... we're back with discussion of the week.....

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Discussion of the week:

Whom would u select: somebody who loves u or whom u love....

rules of the discussion are as follows:

1)It is necessary to back up whatever you are saying with reasons and situations. This is not an opinion thread, this is a debate thread.

2)Indulge in giving all your possible theories and reactions to a question and make sure that you believe in what you're saying.

3)This will be an open debate, and members can post as many times as they want to, having a heated and two way debate about the question or discussion of the week. Kindly stick to one opinion. No jhulufying between two.

4)no name calling, or profanity please.

By the end of the week, that is by next Thursday a winner will be picked. The winner will be based on the arguments presented by that member.

The member will get the opportunity to specify the question of the next week and judge the discussion of the next week. We will try out best to come up with interesting a innovative discussions. Hetal, kindly make this a sticky topic.

Thus on with this week's discussion.

You can understand the facts of life. But facts of love are much different. To love you love someone or someone loves you..

Which is more important to you??? Happiness that you get when someone loves you or the happiness that u get by loving someone?? Whom would you chose if given a chance ????

"Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

I hereby declare this discussion open..... n please follow the rules

it is totally agreeable that a person is more happy with some1 he or she loves and also who loves her/him back.

there are many times in real life that the person we luv doesnt luv us back,or care for us more than a friend whereas we r totally in luv with him or her.
but deep in our heart we do kno that the even tho the chances of him or her falling in luv with us are there,they r quite less.
yet,we try and try to make him/her to fall for us,if all is gud,then its great..but if its not,we need some luv cuz we r lonely and in search of 1 true luv.
i believe in god-send jodis,u kno and that every1 has some1 in luv with them in this world.
neways,we look for soothing and if there is some1 we kno who does luv us,we feel great by his/her caring and lovingness for us .
so basically,if ther eis some1 to luv us and some1 we luv,i would always go for the one who loves me cuz this way,i wont be hurt cuz some1 will always care and bcoz he love sme,slowly i will forget htis other guy,who i may have never loved....

hope i followed the rules,cuz this discussion thing and debating,me not so gud at it..
luv
geet

a very good topic shiny 👏

practiaclly, if the person dont luv u then u cant be happy with him. to lead a happy life there shud be a mutual love and understanding. one sided love dont work in any relationship. if i love a person i will definately expect him to love me tooo.
in anything u do, whether its love or something else,to make it work u need a good response to it........if the person does not reciprocate the same feelings then there is only hurt and sadness nuthing else.
and when sumone luvs u ....u feel the feeling of being loved and automatically u will fall for tht prerson seein the intensity and luv in his eyes...
every person in this world needs luv and wants luv but the important thing is to recognise it.
and in my opinion , if anyone truly luvs u ...u can say thts the gift of god coz very few ppl get it and can recognise it and accept it.
so i will definately go for the person who luvs me insted of the person i love.

good topic shiny....

its hard to choose from one...its really important that you love someone and that person also loves you back...people say tali ek hath se nahi bajti...in order to stay happy..both should be in love, one cant push the whole relationship alone....love is mutual decision and it has to be both sided..

but if i have to choose one than i would choose the person who loves me! if i wana be happy than other person's contribution is important...I'll say if that person really loves me and can do anything to make me happy then as time flows i would fall in love with him too....

awesome topic shiny...its a tough situation but there's no meaning in one way traffic the one whom u luv shud luv u back if he doesnt love u then there's no use in loving him...so i prefer choosing the guy who luvs me coz im sure i'll eventually fall in luv wid him..its definetly better than going for the guy who doesnt care for u or love u.

he/she luvs u ! that's really important .. to lead a happy life ..

Well according to me it is really important for you to feel loved. At the end of all the blindness of lust gone away, what will survive is the amount of dedication you have to someone or someone has towards you.

This is an age old debate, one to which an answer seems impossible. But for me I think, someone who loves me, I'll come to love them in return too. But someone who I love, might never reciprocate my feelings- heard of crushes?

Thus its probably better to be with someone who loves you, cause your happiness with that person won't be bound by rules or regulations.

But then someone you love is also something that you can't give up. Gosh, I'll come back with a reply next time.

the discussion is closed n hetal it the winner...
congo hetal 👏