Hope for change in characters or better story??

Time after time, we are seeing in every scenario, the characters behave the same way...Is there any hope for seeing a change in characters ????

Kinjal - So selfish, she still does not realize how she let her whole family down by rumors of false pregnancy
-Needs to learn to be nice to people who are nice to her (like gopi)

Ahem - Arrogant and Rude to all but mommy dear; cares for no-one's feelings...
-Needs to learn to respect others too..and learn the value of his wife

Hetal - Ever ready to get insulted by all...including her devrani and bahurani; Cannot take a stand being "mota bhabhi"
-Needs to put people in thier place when they yell at her unnecessarily

Chirag and Parag - Rarely speak...and rarely speak against the women of the household
-Need to be the "MEN" of the house and correct the arrogant characters like Ahem and Rashi

Gopi - Always a doormat to all...cannot even realize how mean her sister is to her
-Needs to develop some street smartness...come on, atleast she should stay away from Rashi instead of falling all over her and trying to help her all the time...

Jigar - Thinks the world of his good-for-nothing, money-minded wife..
-Needs to realize what his wife truly is and be smart with her...try to change her to becoming part of his house

Koki - Sometimes unnecessarily mean to mota bhabhi - come on, be nice to her..
This has been the best character with respect to putting rashi and urmi in their place but she has been getting a lot of blows lately, especially from her own children...
Please show us the strong Koki who intimidates Rashi and Urmi

Rashi - Cunning on one side with everyone but so stupidly following her mother on the other side...Needs to realize that her mom is ruining her married life and needs to realize the value of the love given by her saas or husband..

Urmi - The greediest and cheapest character...Always scheming and mostly winning at her schemes...we want to see her schemes backfiring and her muh kala...

CVs - Are we ever going to see a change in the story line with Ahem respecting Gopi and Rashi valuing her husband and sasuraal and Urmi's muh kala ?

There is so much scope for this serial...but instead we keep watching the characters exhibiting the same behavior again and again...It is frustrating!!! I am losing hope for it..