Ahem doesn't know what Gopi is worth....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ok so its not even been a day after Kinjal's wedding and Ahem has started is rant again....."I WANT GOPI OUT"................Does a man like him really deserve someone like Gopi? I really and honestly hope that Koki now makes the decision that will be better for Gopi and not Ahem or Kinjal. She always says my Gopi vau my Gopi vau this that.............well Do you think of her as a daughter also KOKI??? I am really going to be proud of Gopi for keeping her promise and leave the Modi Mansion. As much has it hurts her......that is the best thing that can happen. As the saying goes...You don't know the worth of something until you have it no more. So maybe, not having Gopi around might be what he needs to realize her worth. I am also hoping that with Kinjal there that she too will change as a person and bond with Gopi. Making her more educated and modern like Ahem likes. Something has to change.............and GoHem's story now has to go to the next level. Because its getting really boring......

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: taral83

Ok so its not even been a day after Kinjal's wedding and Ahem has started is rant again....."I WANT GOPI OUT"................Does a man like him really deserve someone like Gopi? I really and honestly hope that Koki now makes the decision that will be better for Gopi and not Ahem or Kinjal. She always says my Gopi vau my Gopi vau this that.............well Do you think of her as a daughter also KOKI??? I am really going to be proud of Gopi for keeping her promise and leave the Modi Mansion. As much has it hurts her......that is the best thing that can happen. As the saying goes...You don't know the worth of something until you have it no more. So maybe, not having Gopi around might be what he needs to realize her worth. I am also hoping that with Kinjal there that she too will change as a person and bond with Gopi. Making her more educated and modern like Ahem likes. Something has to change.............and GoHem's story now has to go to the next level. Because its getting really boring......


@Bold he doesn't deserve a wife like Gopi, to him she is fulfilling the duties of a servant and not a wife and he feels she is not capable to be a wife to someone like him. Let him get a modern wife, who will be complaining and chewing his ear off for not attending to her rather than work work work all the time, he thinks Gopi is too maidish...he will be yearning for a passive soft spoken wife when he has the alternative.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ taral---Ahem is gonna crazy......i could be wrong....but unknowingly even Kokila has instigated dislike for Gopi in Ahem 's mind...Kokila wants to make her Gopi vau ,the prefect vau....but for someone like Ahem who had never felt anything for Gopi.....it was a big task to accept her when day in ,day out he only hears about his good for nothing wife.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran15

@ taral---Ahem is gonna crazy......i could be wrong....but unknowingly even Kokila has instigated dislike for Gopi in Ahem 's mind...Kokila wants to make her Gopi vau ,the prefect vau....but for someone like Ahem who had never felt anything for Gopi.....it was a big task to accept her when day in ,day out he only hears about his good for nothing wife.


yes too much shouting at Gopi by Kokila, and why they don't spoil her a little, they have Mani and Kamla in there employ instead Gopi get milk in the morning (5am) doing all the maid duties like they are not wealthy. instead her time should have been filled getting her educated or making her what Aham wants modern type girl, instead treating her like a servant and always shouting at her too, like they are paying to perform those duties.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I prefer Ahem to accept Gopi the way she is.....such a pure hearted girl...yes education would be a bonus.... 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran15

I prefer Ahem to accept Gopi the way she is.....such a pure hearted girl...yes education would be a bonus.... 😊


Simran she is good, innocent pure hearted soul, if i was a guy i would like that too in a wife. 😆

But Aham doesn't want a maid as wife, he has maid already, mani. He wants a partner who he can talk current events with, go out and enjoy etc, Gopi her stay home persona is not appealing to Aham. They wasted time not getting her to educated all these months.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran15

I prefer Ahem to accept Gopi the way she is.....such a pure hearted girl...yes education would be a bonus.... 😊



I agree I want Ahem to except Gopi the way she is.......but I want her to educate herself to...because that is something she will have no matter Ahem is there or not...it will always help her........
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@ nafisa--i certainly agree education is important for Gopi.....during my internship,houseman posting we come across lots of uneducated married girls in the hospital...face to face front desk.....I have heard some mothers,ladies say that if only we were educated..this would have not happened..many indian girls are still not educated due to circumstances....but they are still emotional n passionate like any educated girl.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do agree that Ahem should accept Gopi they way she is, but she does need to get educated. Not for Ahem or anyone else but for herself. For her own self confidence and to better her own life. Maybe then she can learn that not everyone in the world is as good as she is. Maybe then she might be able to recognize Rashi and Urmi for what they are.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran15

@ nafisa--i certainly agree education is important for Gopi.....during my internship,houseman posting we come across lots of uneducated married girls in the hospital...face to face front desk.....I have heard some mothers,ladies say that if only we were educated..this would have not happened..many indian girls are still not educated due to circumstances....but they are still emotional n passionate like any educated girl.


Hi Simran, those Modi's have the money and servants already why should they sons marry to provide more maids for them, why can't the women before they have children study and find a job too. I know when kids come along the wife will stay home and see to the upbringing of the children but meanwhile why do they remain at home doing tasks when house help is already there. If as in Gopi's case, she is not trained to do anything other than house work re-train her, what's the use of money? Some of the worldly matters Rashi and Co are hoodwinking her with could have been learnt at school when she was small, learning social skills with people her own age, now that she is passed that age.

Her mother in law also never speaks plainly enough for her to understand how much Rashi and Urmila are using her. When Urmila told her to get Dhawal married to Kinjal, Kokila found out and shouted at her, what she should have asked Gopi is why do you think Urmila asked you to do this, when she answered, because you will likely listen to me than Rashi, Kokila should have explained to Gopi what Urmila wants from the marriage (money) explaining to her Dhawal would get a dowry and likely request lots of stuff from us, you wait and see, then keep going to her to tell her, do you see now what i was trying to tell you, how manipulative Urmila is. But they has been no-one to take her in hand properly and teach her properly, what can harm her.

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