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Posted: 14 years ago
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Just wondering about the future...because this could be a powder keg of an issue between the families....

Someday, when things are better between our two lovebirds, and they will have their first new born, whose religion will the little tyke be raised in?

Will Mona's family want the kids to be able to visit the Gurdwara with them?

Will Anu's family want the kids to be able to visit all the sacred Gujarati religious places with them?

Will the kids speak Gujarati or Punjabi, or both?

Maybe the kids will decide when they grow up which religion they like better, although both families will want them to go through the ceremonies from their own religions...

That will be tough, how will they choose?

Will it cause a rift between Monakalp?

Will they tell their respective families to back the heck off and let them decide?

Interesting scenario, huh?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think most probably they would follow the Gujarati side since their father Anukalp is...and most probably Ambaji would control the whole scenario and want the children to follow the Gujarati culture...

But knowing Anukalp I think he will make sure that they follow both the cultures Punjabi and Gujarati 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: happygirl123

I think most probably they would follow the Gujarati side since their father Anukalp is...and most probably Ambaji would control the whole scenario and want the children to follow the Gujarati culture...


But knowing Anukalp I think he will make sure that they follow both the cultures Punjabi and Gujarati 😊

good point he would make sure that they have both sides
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think they will follow both
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It does not matter what culture the kids follow, the best will be to follow both cultures. Anukalp will make sure the kids will follow both cultures. There is only one thing I would add is that I do not want any trace of Ambaji or Baa or the aunt in the kids.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kids should follow both cultures but that's way too far right now...both Mr.Jhalla and Mrs. Jhalli needs to confess their love to each other pronto.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anukalap has no voice. He just watches when everybody in the family is saying horrible stuff about Mona and her family. In our extended family no man will tolerate his mom, sister and bhuai abusing his wife..he will not allow his family to abuse his wife.

I have trouble understand the sanskar and culture in which it is okay to berate girls family and abuse the girl and then pretend to be very civilized.

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