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Runjhun seems to be an orphan and the only people who love her unconditionally are her grandmother and her fiance. She is constantly harassed by the neighborhood goons, and the 3 witches who are her Maamis. The Maamas are in league with their wicked wives as well . This girl is constantly tortured and you would expect the Maamas to come to the rescue of their niece. But that does not seem to be the case.This is all that the show is about? Are we this desperate to watch shows that depict constant abuse of a defenseless person, a young woman who is manipulated by all, even up to a point by her Naani? The young woman has no recourse but to silently shed tears. This is a person who has no one to call her own and suffer mistreatment from all. Her own Maama/Maami are shown to go as far as burning the poor girl for their own benefit and pretend to get her help and let her suffer the burns?It broke my heart watching Runjhun shedding tears and no one to ask her why and hold her close. What if this were to be one of own children? Our daughter? Is Zee acting responsible in allowing such shows to be broadcast day in and day out?This show replaced another show that went off air. It only showed the MIL torturing the DIL day after day, using the vilest of means and the foulest of language. There was no substance to the show.As women watching these shows do we have a responsibility to protest such shows?Your comments?
To begin with if we actually protest the show, what are we actually protesting to? Are we protesting that how can the show depict the torture of one person at the hands of another, some especially their relatives? - I think that Zee time and again depicts their female lead as an "abala", someone who is so weak that people can walk all over her. There are rare instances where the female protagonist is shown to have inner strength to fight back or has some support system in place to help her fight back. Here the female protagonist is shown to be completely helpless and she is surrounded by people who feel they can abuse because she is shown to have no support system. Is the message here that it is OK to do atyachaar - emotional and physical - if the person is in a "weak" and "needy" position in society, an orphan? Everything vile done to her is acceptable? Are orphans that detested in our culture and society? Are they such a burden? Their worth is to be everyone's punching bag and it is ok to use them as such?At least that is the message that I am getting. Women have moved on and this is a laughable and yet sad, sad depiction.This is not the first show that has depicted an orphan girl being pushed to her limits or silently accepting her fate at the hands of her relatives. Heck Disney has Cinderella. I agree that the dramatization of it all leaves you appalled that such a thing can occur, but even if you take the dramatization it has been done before, and honestly I've seen it happen in real life. Not in exact proportions but similar (some not so bad, and some worse than what's depicted). - Very good points, Wafah, but Cinderella was a fairy tale written in early1700's. Women have come a long ways. Even Orphan Annie days (I hope) are gone..... though Orphan Annie spoke up and fought back. Why Runjhun, who is aware of what is happening around her, is not allowed to say one word and is so accepting of her fate? Why is she not allowed a fighting spirit to fight her adversaries? Do people really enjoy such dramatization?Watching this show I know many people have complaints that Runjhun's character is such a doormat, or annoying that she doesn't speak up or fight against the atrocities committed against her. Others complain that how can the "supposed future hero" be so negative and insult the heroine, and then later be accepted as the hero. - That is the other issue I have..... She will be "married off" to an anti-hero who is making her life hell on earth right now. He has not left one stone unturned in his means to abuse her and she will HAVE to accept such a b******d as her husband and keep her head held high in society? Where is the fighting spirit in the female lead?
Honestly when watching something fictional we either identify with the character or we don't. You either like the show or you don't. It depends with what you identify with and the reason you watch it. To some it might be desperation, to some the reason is the same as to why we watch any kind of generic disney movie or love story. The whole damsel in distress and the knight in shining armor while trite and overused is still appealing to some, and for some that concept applies here. - The whole damsel in distress and her knight on a white horse is very overrated in this day and age (I fail to see it in this show) and the current dramatization is sending such a bad message. All I see is a VICTIM!
I honestly watch it for the characterizations of the actors and the interactions. I would be lying if I said I didn't have some romantic notions tied into the show, but I honestly don't take it too seriously. It's much more stressful than watching dramas that depict real life and show atrocities that happen much worse than these. I'm not condoning what happens as being okay, it is never okay to abuse anyone be it man or woman, and in real life I'd like to think that I'd stand up against it. So while Runjhun doesn't really a strong role model for women, I don't think the show depicts anything harmful. - I am not a reality TV watching person but I do like to watch a show for strong characterizations. I too watch (occasionally) for some of the reasons you mention. I liked Himanshu Malhotra in Aap Ki Antara as a grey character and was sad to see him replaced then. Rita Bhaduri was one of my favorite characters on Choti Bahu. Both are doing a fine job as actors, but the portrayal or characterization of a woman as an "abala" (or a *itch in case of Maamis) and abuse and treatment of an orphan as a third class citizen is jarring on my sensibilities as a woman and a mother.Wafah, thanks for expressing your viewpoint so well. My response is embedded....
Originally posted by: tehzeeb25
i agree wid wafah ..
Wat ever i wanted to explain she wrote it
To b frank its just a fictious show some like it some dont .....
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