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I think this may be early dayz to start critisising the KRIYA track.
I think that the story line is shifting towards Kriya now. The family have made Krish to look like a looser a good for nothing (Wife praiser)Isn't this something that has been discussed on the forum many times? Baba is nothing buy Pratz's pet. Now the cv's have very nicely incorporated it once again into the story, coming from the mouth of the Thakurs. and this time Baba has heard and aknowledged. Putting Bigamy aside for a while, the reason they have shown Arushi getting married into the family is so that they can make comparison's between two real sisters. (Although - yes I know that Arushi is only acting).
The old Baba, was the one who said that he wil not ditch his friends and treat wife as a wife only, but Baba changed and became all husband instead, the man who didn't give much thought to women's samaan, is now standing strong always fighting for his loved one. He is always fighting Pratigya's battle. Many people on here also said that Pratigya the main pratoganist doesn't fight her own battles and needs Baba's help. This fight is between to sisters, so should Pratz need Krishna's help or do you think the Mahan Pratigya should fight this one alone. So here we are seeing Pratigya going about this one alone.
Baba's blind support towards his wife always, always looking for his khushi in her khushi, People said that he hasn't got a wajood of his own, the old baba knew what he wanted and got it, uff that attitude he once had. Yes he lost that as he is too busy trying to please his wife. SO YOU WANT TO SEE THE OLD BABA? Then wait coz I see the old Baba emerging and will start looking for his own happiness, where his wife is standing there for him and caring for him the way his brother was looked after by Kesar and also his dad by his mum. He may take on the words his parents and find his own wajood. His place in the society, the house, and in his wife's life. Coz at the moment he is just a lil Baba to the whole family. One that they can all just make fun off willy nilly.
More Kriya time? Well yes we will get that, You wanted to see them sorting out some serious issues together, wanted to see them having serious conversations. Wanted to see the relationship side beyond the jokes and romance, problem solving etc. Then here we go, the issues of employment and everything else will follow on from here. It will not happen overnight, It won't happen by the end of the week but it will happen.Baba needs to sort Pratz out first before he can go back to his family now and say that here my wife is doing no different for this family then Arushi, and then if they start on her he can SHUT THEM UP! But until then...... In life all marriages - face issues, whether it is family problems, housing issues, work matters etc. They have to face these together. At the moment it's just showing Pratz being all 100% involved in other matters. She needs to realise that she is married and needs to focus more on her life rather than her mummy papa's.
So this is another element that we will be seeing. Pratz you are not a social worker, you are a Bahu in a large family, You have to learn to fulfill your duties here. We need to hope that this is the direction we wil be seeing. Yes continue your right and wrong Bashan's no problem. Coz we all know you walked in this house not with your mother's sanskars but your dad's education!
At the moment the Shakti fool is looking really good - sitting there with 2 perfect wives, under control (on the surface at least). He is not half the man Baba is - even if he is working and baba isn't all because of his wives. He has been given such high status in the family because of his wives, Even SS is happy and proud of him. It is his wives which make him look good. They maintain the ideal BAHU role and it is Shaktia who looks good infront of the family.
But when it is Pratigya who lets things down that automatically reflects on the husband, Baba at no fault of his own looks bad.
It is the woman of the house who maintains respect for her man in the society and she is the one who either makes or breaks the house!
(The above red statement isn't made for those who have rapist, murderers, criminal husbands, it is a statement for normal couples).
Anupamaa
