female torcher and TRPs

Many times we ponder why females are always at receiving end in these shows? Its a TV show such things are going to happen, and remember this show is about women, named as let me be bourne as daughter in my next birth. (torchering women brings more TRP then torchering men, afterall most of the persons watching this show are females, and females have enjoyed torchering females from the time unknown, Saans and bahu story is more feuled with cruality then husband wife!)
Some time even it seems males commit crime in reel life or even in real life and get away with it, but before reaching any conclusion please give your thoughts to these questions
What is the correct place of hindi? hindi deserves to be national language as it is spoken by more then 50% of indian, but it is merely our official language ! Why it is so? Because the ego we all have, those who speak hindi feels letdown because hindi didn't got its due, but those who speak other language also feel letdown when bollywood is treated as synonemous of indian cinema (by world press and audio-visual media)! Its human when your brethern gets special treatment you feel he do not deserve it! There is a proverb in hindi "ghar ka jogi jogada ,aan gaon ka siddh".
Do we need foreigners as coaches for sports? Out there, are some crazy people who think that National squads of cricket and other sports should be coached by foreigners only because indian always try to form groups among themself, like a maraathi speaking coach would be judged as partial against tamil speaking player, even if he speaks just 5 mins with a maraathi player in maraathi! The foreign coach is believed to be impartial as he/she would speak with every player in english! I tell you by this logic we should be goverened by foreigners! Do you think British Raj was better then the current system? What is better, some people getting princely treatement and few others treated as slaves or under a foreigner everybody getting treated as a swine? In reality no foreigner can bring with him pride to represent India, playing for your country, fighting for your country, is a matter of pride, Yes under his/her coaching you will be a professional just like him, but often pack of inspired amatures beats professionals in sports arena! Beyond that only an indian would be able to understand help you with what cultural and personal problems you are facing, a break up is the best example here. Along with glamorous life and stardom of being a champian sports person, breakups come as side effect (once again too much ego is the root cause), in india a break up may result in dpression, but for several of foreigners it is routine affair!
(from another thread with some edit for general forum readers)