hi guys......
hmm going to make the longest most post ever...do pm me if it should be sent for record book entry ..lolz
so i get to what my li'l brain & heart understands better......'feelings' ...meanings & symbolism are not for me .....
Since its feelings i'm talking of ...sure it does not develop or pass with every passing frame right..
its tree....which has its root in past ...in the 'today ' that passed on to become history ...in our last action
& the new leaf sprouting is but a consequences of the stuff that we did in that 'gone-today' , the past
.......Friday 29th October.
lets move frame by frame .....(plz don't take it literary .... i 'm referring only to important scenes alone )
& before you start reading its my duty to say ** my post might sound..no will sound defensive , cannot help coz max i read were offensive
and Newton's law sure applies to me too..i'm no alien right **
so read ...At Your Own Risk
1> what do we have here.....?
okay Geet yelling..no correct me if i'm wrong .....'pleading ' Right !
pleading 'bacho!!! mujhai tair na nahi aata'
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plz remember this scene ......when she tells Maan at the bar counter
'Mujhai aap ki madad ki koi zarurat nahi....Main apni madad khud karsakti hunn'
ya sure saw that girl ...... this is what is called EGO !
or as my friend called her here...'aisan faramosh'.....
2> Oh! He comes to her rescue...hey why not her group of friends ... why dint a loyal friend like Adi
who had claimed to Maan 'dosti kai liye jaan bhi de sakta hun' & Pinky who stood upto him to defend Geet
....why not Romeo...the evergreen lover , or Manishaaaa or Pandeyji who cannot bear 'atyachar' on 'abla naari'
by the 'dust insaan' ..who readily jumped to her plan to get the Boss insulted infront of client..risked their jobs
...why dint they jump...?
answer - i'll give them all free pass..benifit of doubt that they all ...yes all don't know swimming ...
OR ...again Time and nature that we earlier 'awwwd' on for binding them ...PROVED...that whenever
its she in trouble ONLY THIS MAN & THIS MAN ALONE RISKS HIS LIFE.....He DOES NOT SAY ALL THAT..COZ HIS ACTIONS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES
be it as a stranger or here .......
(oh plz don't jump on me that he dint risk his life here...he did many times & i'm writing this in respect to his being there for her in such times)
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3>'Hum pehli baar bhi aisai hi milaitai'......oh my my girl i thought you suffered from partial memory loss..oh no ! may be 'in need memory loss or gain'
'Yaadein' the term sounds romantic when memories are pleasant ...... NOT FOR HIM....unlike you & few of my fellow members Maan still remembers 'The Friday'
and why should he not ....
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4> He carried you .....dint drop you as he had last time as stranger...& put you down on your feet ....isn't it!
why dint he drop her ......i mean she was reminded of their first similar meeting ....but he dint repeat himself
as i see <i> unlike what few would love to believe ..HE DOES CARE FOR HER PREGNANCY ...
<ii> unlike her he has come long way with his emotions for her ...
<iii>recent past is enough to fill his mind with .... ne needs more pain to add to it
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5>The Push.....
sigh! this is a push????? plz don't mention it coz the Friday Push wont erase out of my memory ....
Geet my girl..you reminded him of your first meeting as strangers & he remembered your last meeting as his love, his life when you pushed him away from u
public wahan bhi thi...yahan bhi hai ..... how come it is your 'baizati ' now ..did you stop to think you did insult him then....how convienient .!
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6>'Circus ka show khatam hua hai...toh party shuru karai'
did he call her a joker ......? NO if he did sure his saving act makes him partner to the joke ..... then why is it assumed ?
why it cannot be that His comment was in reaction to the claps ..... to stop them
as in past when all stared at Geet when he announced her as his 'mangaitar' dint he yell then that no 'tamasha ' is on.......
& if i remember well......dint Geet call his attempts to make her stop and listen to him a 'tamasha'....tamasha means showing tricks ....mostly like 'Circus' right!!
how come then it was not a term used to insult & now is....
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7>She remembers 'Main tumsai nafrat karta hun' & his dragging her out from the KC.....
all his 'at fault' moments for her........again why forget moments that led to these moments ...was he wrong there ...No!
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8>'Ab main unki zaadti aur bardaast nahi karsakti....Jab mann kiya bezzat kar diya aur jab mann kiya bhagwan bann kar aagayai'
Have you not been doing same .... make promises - break promises, get into a relation- break ties, trust him- break his trust all 'jab mann kiya' right
so why blame him alone...its two can play the same game that is going on..if he is one who is wrong, you are not saint either ....
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9>Maan at the bar counter ..... replaying everything he said to her since they last met, last night
'tumnai mujhai aaj tak siwaye takleef kai diya hi kya hai!' .... 'Hum dono kai beech koi rishta nahi hai' & today when he pushed her away from him
& what does he do......hurts the hand that pushed her away..breaks the glass, punishes himself
coz he is living with double hurt ....... one the wound that she inflicts on him & second the wounds cozed by tears in her eyes in reaction to his reaction to her given wounds
'tum bhi auro jaise nekli'..... he locked his heart from the rest of the world ...but she seemed different & thus made her way to his heart & like 'others' ended up hurting him
more severely than they all put together ever could .....
Did we see Geet regret or get hurt at having hurt him.....No ! not atleast on her own ..if you plan to count her taking the medicine ..coz t was not self realization
it was Dadi's words that made her do that
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10>'...ya fir mere bezati karna hi unka kaam hai aaj kal'
i really hope against hope to believe that atleast all agree he called her to get her jealous not to insult her....hope i'm not hoping too much
To Geet ..do you hold that right alone to insult the man who saved your reputation infront of media ...supported you infront of law ....
insult the love of the man who defending & protecting you from the world .... standing with you against his own family , his blood
insult the boss with your co-workers , who provides for your & theirs bread & butter (you earn it ....he provides)......
hunn!
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11>'Unka aye jaana bahut zaroori hai , kai unkai alava bhi duniya main logon ko gussa aasakta hai..logoon ko dard bhi ho sakta hai'
i only want to say preach only what you apply to your life ..... your anger & hurt justified ...not his!
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12>'Geet ghar jao' .... why he said so?
he forgets about all his plans & reason to get her here & asks her to go home why?
coz she was all wet.....& as always he remembers her Pregnancy when she readily forgets.....
dint we go 'awww' mode when he asks her to stop sitting there in snowfall , when she was sitting their sulking over her anger at Maan....not thinking about the baby breathing in her
haa!
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13>'mujhai yahan kyun bulaya'......'Agar tum abhi tak aye nahi samjhe ho toh aab kha samjho gi'
Maan not all read eyes & understand unsaid emotions as you do .... dint you understand it yet after Friday ...when she never understood your reply
to her question as to why you want to marry her ........ isn't it same now tooo
she dint understand .....
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14>'kya samjho ...kya sabit karna chatai hai aap es tarha sabkai samnai bezat kar kai'
and again history repeats itself .........'aap kai iss inkaar nai mera jawab mujhai dai diya'.....same Friday mistake of assuming & wanting to see that suits only you
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15>'katai bougii toh kaatai hii paogii'...
i've nothing more to say ...u said it
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16>'Aye ho kya raha hai?'...
phew ! chalo this ends the talk that Maan knew that this girl has been insulting Geet yet was fine with it...its crystal clear here from his confusion & query that
he has no idea about their issues ..... & as always Geet' s reply 'aap kai jaanai layak kuch bhi nahi'........ it reminds me of the scene when she saves Sasha & Maan says
'Tumharai naa batanai wali aadat sai main tang aagaya hunn' .......
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17>'Mujhai aap ki madad ki koi zarurat nahi....Main apni madad khud karsakti hunn'......lolz what i should say to this ...refer to point 1
thank you
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18>'Aye merai liye itni important nahi hai , naa hi mere zindagi main mein ahimiyat rakti hai'
Maan said it .... never meant & that a blind too can see ...but you not just said...you went ahead to prove it by breaking the bond, walking out on him, moving on with life
but he is still there where you deserted him ........yet you forget the wound you cozed him & feel that he has hurt u instead!
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19>'Kyun aisai kaam kar rahain hai jiskai liye ap ka mann apko kabhi izazat nahi dey sakta'
you know what his 'mann' wants..how come you know that now & had forgotten about back then when you accused him to have played with your emotions
why ...only coz the memory of the dance , the dance step ...you felt you have your right alone on it & now having seen him do same step with a other girl stirred you up
what about his emotions when he saw the ring that he put on your finger going down on his knees infront of the whole world , missing ...
he has no right to emotions
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20>'Sab kuch galat hai' ......
where is the start to this 'galat' ....your actions...your misunderstanding, your lack of trust , your nature to get judgemental & jump to a conclusion
...you are the judge , you are the jury
always ...always
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21>'tumhai problem horahi hai na kai tumharai hotai huai bhi main kisi aur ko kareeb aanai dai raha hunn'
he is shattered to do this to you & you fail to admit it.......it kills him more
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22>'bolo Geet tumharai saath dance karu ya.............'
well as again we are great with fill in the blanks ...to each their own .....i don't want to get at what i read few others fill it up with ... it makes me sick they think of Maan in this light
same people who were 'awwing' when he stopped the RTM sequence coz he dint want to head their relationship even a step without her full consent ...
its the same Maan .... situation change ... character of a person doesn't ..... if it did then character could not be called the best & strongest point in a person
if Maan had gestured so or insulted her character ...i can trust Geet to get to attempt to slap him as she tried to do in the outhouse sequence or at his HP house
where she had visited him at nite to ask for land brokers no.
if i'm to fill this blank or pause to me it was a question...' tumarai saath dance karu ya..(go back to her) ' .....
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23>THe Dance on the Dance Floor
all i want to say here is the dance Maan did with that girl is sure an insult to 'Kurban Hua' memory as is Geet's walking away from the dance floor an insult to the 'Lets go Party' memory
if she had not expected Maan to share 'their' first intimate most dance moment with anyother girl...he too can expect that she will repeat herself & drag him away from any other girl
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he waits for her..walks to her ...only hoping that she will stop him ..drag him away from this darkness
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24>DANCE.....
I wont justify Maan here ...
i don't justify his action...but i do justify his anger ...his pain
Newtons Law......again proves itself ......
He was FORCING HER TO DANCE , NOT FORCING HIMSELF ON HER .....there is heaven-hell difference in it so careful .......
Rape .....!!!!
'kurban hua' that was a forceful dance called same nay!
there too he had forced her to dance
but we call it ozzing with intensity & passion ....why ?
coz Geet dint cry then & played along ...danced along ...
if you feel her tears ....feel his pain too .........be fair then say its not about taking sides .....
.Rape!!.........any idea what a big sin & crime Rape is guys that this term is so losely used .... i'm not shocked but feeling sick having read
the dance being called 'forcing himself on her ' & 'Rape'
i'm sure i don't need to supply the dictionary meaning to the term....use words carefully friends ..they just don't make or break images, thoughts, heart but lives too.....
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25>The Slap
Some feel deserved ...some don't
What did Geet feel about having slapped him?
going frame by frame to capture right expression for caps is not my hobby , but passion ......max know me for the pictures i post or creations i make ....
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& this frame shows me fear & regret at the action ...not satisfaction at having punished one who deserved it or hurt at having to do it to a man you once loved , or love
but regret yes .....something like 'Aye kya hogaya ' again i'll quote my self .......
slap - another of Geet's bad Reflexes ..
first near the fountain..she throws water on his face
second the push at the office
now thapad....not ment but happened .....
Creatives i loved the way the slap was executed .....it was well balanced.
Her Pregnancy ..... are we not same people who once cried for abortion/miscarriage ....... are we not the same people who were always into confusion about her actions in her state of health
& Geet herself has scared us to core with her disastrous self maintainance ways ...but how conveniently we remember her state of health now to rub it on Maan's face ...
do refer back point 12
Pride & Prejudice is rightfully said 'a book of characters' & for me also a guide to life & love....& who better teachers than Darcy & Eliza who have humbly learnt from life itself the value of individualism and togetherness & love
hence i would love to quote from the classic.....as its apt as i see to Maan's present action & our reaction to it
"And this," cried Darcy, as he walked with quick steps across the room, "is your opinion of me! This is the estimation in which you hold me! I thank you for explaining it so fully. My faults, according to this calculation, are heavy indeed! But perhaps," added he, stopping in his walk, and turning towards her, "these offenses might have been overlooked, had not your pride been hurt by my honest confession of the scruples that had long prevented my forming any serious design. These bitter accusations might have been suppressed, had I, with greater policy, concealed my struggles, and flattered you into the belief of my being impelled by unqualified, unalloyed inclination; by reason, by reflection, by everything. But disguise of every sort is my abhorrence. Nor am I ashamed of the feelings I related. They were natural and just."
Thank you if you read .......
I don't care NOW if i'm called fool to have taken all this trouble , esp in my state of health to just 'prove my point' or make my point ...that too over a thing as trivial as a serial ..work of fiction
well i'm not one who will spend hours here discussing the show & then call it waste of time ..its not about a show but about the thought, emotions & at times awareness it evokes in you ....
BYE !
Nandu
Pati Patni Aur Panga
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
