Nivi-woman of substance??Yes Of course!!

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akhilha

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Posted: 14 years ago

i dont know how she is the woman of great moral strength if she can love one brother and marry an other irrespective of any circumstance!!!!! IT is autrocious!!!

I dont think this is going to happen!Its just not Nivi to jump from one brothers arms to another!! she might willingly sacrifice siddharth to Divya but to give herself to his brother is totally unlike her character!!

I am just thinking fOr NIvi here and neither of the Sood brothers!Her character has so much depth so much strength and i feel she will not be made to do anything against her will and conscience!! she has and will take steps to make sure that Divya gets her happiness but not at the cost of her self respect and become bahu of jwahar chanchal!If they make her do that then will lose all respect for NIvi and god knows how any one can claim that she is going to evolve as the woman of substance! Thats the most ridiculous thing!😆

They are really confusing us with all these twists and turns and i reaallly hope Nivi doesnt compromise on athing like marriage which is the most sacred of all relationships!!

I really do hope it goes Parineetha way !! It was such abeautiful movie where a womans moral strenghth was shown so beautifully!! Her love and faithfulness was so inspirational!! I think really such awonderful character like NIveditha should not be reduced to amere puppet in the hands of circumstances and should be shown as a really strong woman!!!

why is it not obvious to anyone that if Nivi marries or accepts Virens proposal it again shows that she is giving in and not fighting it out! again she will be the victim of circumstances!where is the justice in this kind of situation! why NIvi has to be sujected to this kind of unfairness when already she has suffered soo much! Do you all really think she will happily get into a marriage with Viren at this point of time!

Nivi has Chosen Who she wants to be with with yesterdays precap it is amost sure that she honors their relationship and Sid is the only one for her!! This post has been updated just now !! It was an old post of mine where i had doubted Nivis Decision in future!! but now i am really happy!!

Whether Sid Nivi marriage happens or not atleast She exactly knows What she expects Sid to do now!!!😃

there has to be abetter way of bringing out the best in NIvi please !! i would definitely want to see her really free and happy for once!!

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Naveen Arshad

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Posted: 14 years ago

If Nivi marries Viren, it would be because of cirsumstances and not because she is jumping from the arms of one brother to another.

Isn't it in our own society and culture that lot of times, due to circumstances, after husband's death, a widow is married to her Devar ? Does that make her a woman of loose morals ??? Is she not a woman of substance ??

Also in Parineeta, Vidya and Saif had consummated their so called marriage. but here in Sid & Nivi case they took pheres but that too incomplete !!!

Gosh in wat century are you girls living in, judging a woman, if she has any substance or not, just because she might have to marry the other bro ? You don't see her other sacrifices, her loyal and fierce dedication to her family and loved ones !!!

Also if Nivi is not a woman of substances, then even Sid is a looser, because he maybe marrying Divya, but he is also doing it out of circumstances, he is also jumping from one sisters arms to the other sisters !! Doesnt that make him a looser as well ?

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akhilha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: xaviara
If Nivi marries Viren, it would be because of cirsumstances and not because she is jumping from the arms of one brother to another.

Isn't it in our own society and culture that lot of times, due to circumstances, after husband's death, a widow is married to her Devar ? Does that make her a woman of loose morals ??? Is she not a woman of substance ??

Also in Parineeta, Vidya and Saif had consummated their so called marriage. but here in Sid & Nivi case they took pheres but that too incomplete !!!

Gosh in wat century are you girls living in, judging a woman, if she has any substance or not, just because she might have to marry the other bro ? You don't see her other sacrifices, her loyal and fierce dedication to her family and loved ones !!!

Also if Nivi is not a woman of substances, then even Sid is a looser, because he maybe marrying Divya, but he is also doing it out of circumstances, he is also jumping from one sisters arms to the other sisters !! Doesnt that make him a looser as well ?

First of all i am married woman with 2 kids and know all bout marriage and commitment!! I am definitely not siding siddharth at all! i am just talking about Nivi being pressurised into circumstances like this!! She herself has claimed that PYaar sirf paane ka naam nahi khone ka bhi hai dene ka bhi hai!

She is all set to lose out her love to her sis but make her giveherself to his brother and that too soon! i feel its height of unfairness!! How much should agirl take! and Sid is still alive and they will be forced stay inthe same houseToo.

Its not just the physical consummation of love!! Dont u think in her dreams a girl like Nivi would havre thought only of Siddharth to fulfill her desires!! u can also think from her characters point of view for a change!

i am believe in a womans rightt to justice and freedom!! If thats what is being taken from Nivi due to those so called circumstances i abhor this storey line completely!!

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: akhilha
First of all i am married woman with 2 kids and know all bout marriage and commitment!! I am definitely not siding siddharth at all! i am just talking about Nivi being pressurised into circumstances like this!! She herself has claimed that PYaar sirf paane ka naam nahi khone ka bhi hai dene ka bhi hai!
She is all set to lose out her love to her sis but make her giveherself to his brother and that too soon! i feel its height of unfairness!! How much should agirl take! and Sid is still alive and they will be forced stay inthe same houseToo.

Its not just the physical consummation of love!! Dont u think in her dreams a girl like Nivi would havre thought only of Siddharth to fulfill her desires!! u can also think from her characters point of view for a change!

i am believe in a womans rightt to justice and freedom!! If thats what is being taken from Nivi due to those so called circumstances i abhor this storey line completely!!

That's what I'm trying to say, women these days even marry their devar, because of circumstances, which is usually because of family reasons, and these women have not only dreamt about their husband fulfilling their desire has, but have fulfilled them too, and Nivarth havent even shared any physical initmacy yet !! So if she has to marry Viren because of certain circumstances why is character being questioned ?

None of her sacrifices for her family, none of the hell she has been through for them count !! The fact that she might marry Viren discounts all the sacrifices she has been made and is not a women of substance ? What stupid hypocricy !!

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Naveen Arshad

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Posted: 14 years ago

Also why the topic only on Nivi ? Isn't Sid doing the same thing ? Should't there be a topic with the title 'Sid - A Man of Substance ? Why did you target only Nivi ?Why not Sid ?

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akhilha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: xaviara
Also why the topic only on Nivi ? Isn't Sid doing the same thing ? Should't there be a topic with the title 'Sid - A Man of Substance ? Why did you target only Nivi ?Why not Sid ?

We all know this is the the story of Niveditha and not Siddharth or Viren!! I also know what u mean when u say Why Sid should be let go so easily and why Nivi should be Questioned!

Both Sid and NIVi are not going to be happy with these alliances!! let us face it!! MAy be time will heal!But do u think Siddharth is happily going to jump into Divyas arms!! he is also a sincere guy!!and i feel Sid will also suffer alot in the bargain!!HIs punishment has already started!

BUt NIvi has already forgiven him!! i am talking about her Here! It is really questionable as to how one can claim that sheis going to be happy and fulfilled with Viren who happens to have just enterd her life and is all shady and cannot be really judged at this point of time!! Why in the Hell should she be made to enter such a marriage at all!!

If sid compromises it it is his penance but Why Nivi ? why doesnt she deserve something better! than a mere compromise due to some stupid circumstances!!

Some how i am not at allconvinced that she can be called a woman of strength if she unwillingly accepts this proposal just for sister or dadaji or whatever!!

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akhilha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: xaviara

That's what I'm trying to say, women these days even marry their devar, because of circumstances, which is usually because of family reasons, and these women have not only dreamt about their husband fulfilling their desire has, but have fulfilled them too, and Nivarth havent even shared any physical initmacy yet !! So if she has to marry Viren because of certain circumstances why is character being questioned ?

None of her sacrifices for her family, none of the hell she has been through for them count !! The fact that she might marry Viren discounts all the sacrifices she has been made and is not a women of substance ? What stupid hypocricy !!

there is no hypocracy here at all ! u are taking me wrong! i feel she should be free to make her decisions especially ones regarding marriage!i dont think agirl like Nivi will get over Sid so soon as to marry his brother and if she is forced into it due to circumstances and she gives in where is her strength here! she has lost out on the biggest decision oof her life!! marriage!! everything else becomes irrelevent when she has been forced to take a step like this!! where is her progression then??

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Bani

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Posted: 14 years ago

Nivi, being a woman of substance, should not be judged just on the basis of her decision of marrying Viren, even if one has a question in mind. There are lot of other factors to it. If Nivi's decision of marrying Viren brings happiness to everyone, then that is enough to prove her a "woman of substance". And I feel, in the show except Naintara dadi, noone even comes close to being "woman of substance". There are other qualities of Nivi, that actually make her "woman of substance".

I also object to certain decisions of Nivi, but still can understand as she is a young girl andis unable to judge what is for the best interest. Like, I do not wnat Nivi to go and solve every problem of Divyaand would never like her to lecture or mentally force Sid to marry Divya. Today, she heard that Sid not only loves her, but takes Nivi only as his wife. In that case, she should either stay completely away from Sid or accept him, not just hang in between. Whatever happened between them on that day of family feud, cannot be forgiven by Nivi and thus Sid is a strict no no for him. So, she should not mess up with anything about Sid, even if it concerns Divya, as Divya is Sid's fiancee. She should just rest by saying to Divya to keep faith in her love, thats all.She should not make any effort to talk to Sid also, it gives a totally wrong impression that being totally aware of Sid' s feelings, she is just trying to convince Sid by emotionally blackmailing him.

Nivi will marry Viren, probably to completely free Sid and to close the door. But in that way, she is doing wrong to Viren, as the guy, if not faking, will be badly hurt. And if he is faking, he will be made silly badly, when he says that "i married you for revenge"😆 and that he will know "how stupid he had been as Nivi does not love him, and married him due to some other reason"

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akhilha

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Posted: 14 years ago

She has chosen!! The monent she wore that chain She has chosen Sid!!

This shows that for the first time ever she has acknowledged her love fearlessly!! i only hope Sid understands how much he means to her and wht their love means to her!!

I am sure there will be wedding bot not Sid Divyas !!

When Sid saw the locket Even Chanchal and yashodara were tright there!!

And viren will do sometrhing now to get Sid out of that tight spot!!!😃

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zarmeeno

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: akhilha
She has chosen!! The monent she wore that chain She has chosen Sid!!
This shows that for the first time ever she has acknowledged her love fearlessly!! i only hope Sid understands how much he means to her and wht their love means to her!!

I am sure there will be wedding bot not Sid Divyas !!

When Sid saw the locket Even Chanchal and yashodara were tright there!!

And viren will do sometrhing now to get Sid out of that tight spot!!!😃

Yes Akhliha u r absolutely right she is the women of substance still crying for the guy who insulted his father. U know what amazes me that u r married and have 2 kids of ur own and still u don't realise the importance of insult of a parent.

Every relationship demands loive but it also demand commitment and repect and effort. If the latter 3 r missing from a relationship then no matter how much u love each other life becomes hell. If only love was good enough all the love marriages would have been a successful Arrange marriages r the biggest compromise but if there is understanding, commitment and respect love does develope in those relationships as well and that's y arrange marriages r more successful. So even if Nivren and DivSid gets married I know rite now there will be no love in their relationship but if there is respect and commitment or even if they make an effort for these things love will develope. Coz it is always on the couples how they want to go forward in a relationship, whether they want to live in past or whether they want to welcome what life has to offer them in the present . As there is a saying that past is past u cant change it, future is future u don't know so take the life as it comes coz it is a gift and that's y it is called present.

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