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@chatterbox

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Posted: 15 years ago

ok all r creating topics and this has been in my head for too long

time to put it all on u girls😉

lets see the reality here

a girl adores a guy who is totally opposite of the guys she sees in her home

she doesn't know a thing about the guy except that he is very nice and not a mcp

fantasy one
we all want a guy like that to take care of us and love us

reality one

all dreams come crashing when u find out all is not well.
enemies within the house and outside the house

the sher is lamb in the house

the girl leaves everything to be with the one she loves

is it love or infatuation

how does any girl deal with this situation

forget arpi and avdesh for some time😳

and lets think

life is not all rosy

whats ur take on how u as a young girl wud deal if ur dreams come crashing down like this

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@chatterbox

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+ 15

Posted: 15 years ago

oops wrong timing kya??

lagta hai sab gaye
chalo koi nahi wud bring it back later

now me going do post in ur views girls

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@prcns

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Posted: 15 years ago

no, CB di, i was out for some time.............

hmm, interesting............i m reminded how bhauji sarcastically said to arpi tht urs is a 'hawai ishq'...........d love story was sure rosy till now, but thorns have started appearing........n in d story arpi is only 18! n thts wht just a start........well, one gud thing tht avi has turned out to b exactly wht she thot of him to b. just he is not same in front of tht bhauji😡.........

to me, life is thorny but might turn rosy for d couple if only their love is true, coz w/out it they wont survive all this......so, any ordinary girl wud just b w/ d flow of situations as long as she has d guy w/ her. coz she cant go back, there is no way going behind.......only choice she has is move forward......i wud do d same.........i wud fight, coz i really love avi n hate pappu to death, never marry him.....i hope i made myself clear😕

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MONY

@MonyP

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Posted: 15 years ago

its going to be thorny for sure but I would have done the samething what Arpi did because her life with Pappwa would have been even worst . She felt nothing but disgust about pappu. If I am in loose-loose situation, I would go for the option where chances of loosing are less. If I am with someone I love will make a huge difference, it gives you courage to fight with odds and also gives you hope that one day everything will be fine.

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 15 years ago

hmm thanks for ur views

see its not abt avdesh or arpita

its the young girl in us
who has to take steps in right direction

at 18 a girl has loads of dreams and she dreams of a prince charming who wud come and sweep her off

but when she faces harsh reality
all dreams r gone

i m sure most of us have faced that situation in reality

thats why i thought i wud ask u girls here

u wud be able to fight back if u hv someone u loved or adored to support u

alone not easy
wud wait for others to have thier say

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MONY

@MonyP

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Posted: 15 years ago

Once the reality hits, all the dreams and love go with the wind. In the situation where girls leave everything behind, there is no other choice but give the relatioship a chance. It also depends on person to person. I would try to be patient and knock some sense in my hubby's thick skull if possible. If he doesn't improve I will kiss him good bye....sounds harsh but true.

Actually these type of situations make things so vulnerable that its hard for the love to sustain if there is any. Its either break the relationship or spend your life doing lots of adjustments and compromises.

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Gaurishah

@Gaurishah

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Chatter di, I feel that both the girl and the boy have to have strong faith in each other. It is their trust and faith in each other that will help them tide through the difficult times in life.

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tanisha

@tanisha997

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Posted: 15 years ago

i am not 18 years old i am 16 years old but i think that ki agar mai kisi se pyar karti hu to pehle to mai arpi ki tarah bina soche samaje sab kuch chod ni dungi i mean iss show me usne sirf uske baare me paper ma padha aur usse pyar ho gaya wo usse ek baar mili tak ni hai aur usne uska papa aur family ko kitna hurt kiya phir bhi wo uske saath chali gayi mai aisa kabi ni karugi aur agar aisa hua to wo sirf ek attraction hoga pyar ni aur ye sirf ek show hai reality ni .reality mai aisa kuch ni hota .koi bi ladki apni family ko itna hurt ni karegi chahe uski family kaisi bi ho . mai to aisa kabi ni karugi phir chahe muje uss ladke ko kyu na chodana pade

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@chatterbox

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Posted: 15 years ago

gauri and tanisha thanks for answering
and yes reality is different a girl has to think of all the consequences before stepping out of the house.. this is what i think i wanted to hear..
and as i said a young girl has dreams in her eyes and she wants a prince charming

but then dreams crash and the worst sufferer is the girl here

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Suraya

@Ruya

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Good topic CB
Now what would I do????
I think if I did leave everything 4 d guy I loved I would aspect him 2 adjust 2 and if he didn't support me if things get tough if I was d only 1 compromising and adjusting I definitely think it would affect d way I would feel bout him cuz like u say what would u do in real life I don't think or feel that love can't turn to hate,seriously who can put up wid so much crap 4ever.
Well that's my view don't know if any1 agrees wid me or not

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