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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: pallai

Guys i think arjay marriage would be perfect because archu deserves this compro marriage....
The thing which irritates me the most is .. the attitude archu manav carry around.. in the train seq archu said to manav that we have decided to have COMPRO marriages.. so how does it matter how jay is... he wnt be same as u.... i mean that is so cruel... what right does it give archana/manav to make decisions on other's behalf.. did sharav say she wants compro marriage? or was jay promised the same?? on one hand she gives out promises like laadus to vinod/aai/baba that i will fulfill my relation with jayawant and on the other hand telling manu he is just a compro...

this is height of arrogance ....who are archana manav anyways?? who gave them the right to play god and treat plp like compromises???
in this premise archu is no different than jay.. jay is using her for money... archu is using him for her moral obligations.. infact in that terms its a perfect union.. both are doing compro....manav has no point then to accuse jayawant... wen archu herself is entering a compro marriage what difference it makes...???
archu is marrying jaywant because manav threatned that he wnt marry shravani then.. now if jay leaves archu according to his plan what is manav going to do..leave shravani after 1 yr of marriage ???



i agree with u
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bonnefille

If Jaywant can be given a chance for being a good husband why can't manav be given to prove himself a good husband a second time?? Manav will not just have drive of love in the relationship but also the drive of being a better husband.


Manav has done great injustice to shravani and the only way of giving her justice is release her from the false commitment that they have. Shravani will feel the pain for a while for the two years she has been made to feel dejected but if the man-shrav relationship continues, the dejection will continue for her and both manav and shravani will remain living a life of unhappiness.

The ar-jay marriage, by audience point of view for some is a desire but for arman fans......arman have become a need. Fulfillment of a need gives more satisfaction than that of desire. The marriage of ar-jay with no skeletons in the closet would have made a decent love story. But a relationship on the grave of another is not extremely palatable. If Arjay will marry.....manav will be pasted along with them in their marriage photo. In BT world, love stories are way too twisted. The love story in PR would not be a simple one of two people but a mess of too many for it to be called a love story at all.

I personally just want ArMan uniting with dignified closure to Shravani's character and Jaywant after these two for making his perfect normal life- a complete mess.



agree.. infact until sometime back i thought armaan shld get back together and not cause more harm.. see what would have been prefect and the sensible thing to do was.. archu and manav to get back right after they got released from jail.. that wld have been perfect.. saab gussa hote.. infact that time all were very angry on archu.. if they wld have broken the respective engagements it would not have caused more harm ( loha garam tha) .. and that time jay mom wanted to break the engagement too... now wat has happened.. every cooled down.. and archu has been distributing sorry and promises to whole of dombivili that i wnt cause more hurt..this is why she cldnt side with manav yesterday.. what kind of leads are these 2.. complete fools....
manav is so stupid sometimes (or at all times ) i am not sure if he really loves archu or does things out of being righteous.. what he should have done was :-
1. not sign the papers on jay's threat.
2. tell archu about jay's threat ( so it was ok for archu to marry jay then )
3. when he heard jay outside his cabin... ajit/satish all telling him abt jay... he shld have mentioned all this to archu when he met her on his b'day date...

he missed so many opportunities and gave jay the benefit of the doubt and now he has finally assessed jay characters it seems....

the thing is i want archu and manav to get married to others .. because they dnt deserve to be together.. they have missed many opportunities life threw at them. but they declined all of it just bcos they wanted to do the "Right" thing.. this is why i want archu to get married to jay.. knowing archu she wld atleast try.. but manav ans shrav no...cos manav as his characters is .. will quit on sharavani too...


i appreciate all your comments and all the arguments are so compelling .. 👏


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Posted: 14 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: pallai



agree.. infact until sometime back i thought armaan shld get back together and not cause more harm.. see what would have been prefect and the sensible thing to do was.. archu and manav to get back right after they got released from jail.. that wld have been perfect.. saab gussa hote.. infact that time all were very angry on archu.. if they wld have broken the respective engagements it would not have caused more harm ( loha garam tha) .. and that time jay mom wanted to break the engagement too... now wat has happened.. every cooled down.. and archu has been distributing sorry and promises to whole of dombivili that i wnt cause more hurt..this is why she cldnt side with manav yesterday.. what kind of leads are these 2.. complete fools....
manav is so stupid sometimes (or at all times ) i am not sure if he really loves archu or does things out of being righteous.. what he should have done was :-
1. not sign the papers on jay's threat.
2. tell archu about jay's threat ( so it was ok for archu to marry jay then )
3. when he heard jay outside his cabin... ajit/satish all telling him abt jay... he shld have mentioned all this to archu when he met her on his b'day date...

he missed so many opportunities and gave jay the benefit of the doubt and now he has finally assessed jay characters it seems....

the thing is i want archu and manav to get married to others .. because they dnt deserve to be together.. they have missed many opportunities life threw at them. but they declined all of it just bcos they wanted to do the "Right" thing.. this is why i want archu to get married to jay.. knowing archu she wld atleast try.. but manav ans shrav no...cos manav as his characters is .. will quit on sharavani too...


i appreciate all your comments and all the arguments are so compelling .. 👏


Pallai,wat makes u think Jay 'deserves Archu' and shranvni 'deserves' Manav??
The 2 engagements are a greater farce than any - for the simple fact that at least one of the party in each,feels neither fully committed by heart nor any love
Some ppl want mutual love to triumph,some ppl want revenge to triumph - its the values each one carries
Everybody's opinion was fantastically presentedClap
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaffyFlower

Pallai,wat makes u think Jay 'deserves Archu' and shranvni 'deserves' Manav??
The 2 engagements are a greater farce than any - for the simple fact that at least one of the party in each,feels neither fully committed by heart nor any love
Some ppl want mutual love to triumph,some ppl want revenge to triumph - its the values each one carries
Everybody's opinion was fantastically presented👏



saffy dear i dnt think shravani deserves manav.. infact i belong to the camp who says she deserves much better.. how he always puts her out.. the only thing am angry with her is she didnt leave last time when she caught archu manav in rain.. otherwise to her credit she did choose to leave on the day of her wedding... but archu bought her back!
as far as jay is concerned the reason am saying so is bcos of archu manav themselves.. am so fed up of their " we have given up for the world " attitude thats.. why am saying if they are so hell bent on making compromises.. let them have it....
see the thing is plot has made a jay a villian.. what if in instead of jay it was some1 like satish..
we would have wanted to archu to choose satish like character any day .. atleast i wld choose him over manav.... its all about how jay turns out... what i feel is even if jay is bad i think they can build a good relationship ( jay is just bad but he is not evil ..YET... duno know what more they will make him do to make manav look good ) i think the water has flown over the bridge for arrman..
am so fed up with their corny PR..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallai


this is exactly what am saying manav is also marrying shravani for his fayda.. to keep sachu with himself.. how can he be different from jay..??? he needs to introspect his own behavior before pointing fingers...


i think shravani has compromised a lot...b/c. her marriage has been put off like three times now? and come on, if it were any other girl, sh e would've aborted sachin's child when he died. but shravani didn't b/c. manav convinced her and now, when she's trying to develop a relationship wid manav, he's just trying to run away from her. ex: she bought him tshirts for bday. but, he wore archu's shirt. shravani is the victim here. it's not just her. think practically guys: none of us is god or no one in REAL LIFE is as "noble" as archana so, it's normal for any girl, whether it be shravani, or not, to act this way. and jaywant: i like him better than manav. who isn't a little selfish, come on? and after all, archu has insulted him and his fam. like multiple times now? and i'm not saying what he's doing is correct but i'm only saying that they're making him seem worse than he is and the same goes for shravani. i disrespect archana and manav.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: blahblahs


i think shravani has compromised a lot...b/c. her marriage has been put off like three times now? and come on, if it were any other girl, sh e would've aborted sachin's child when he died. but shravani didn't b/c. manav convinced her and now, when she's trying to develop a relationship wid manav, he's just trying to run away from her. ex: she bought him tshirts for bday. but, he wore archu's shirt. shravani is the victim here. it's not just her. think practically guys: none of us is god or no one in REAL LIFE is as "noble" as archana so, it's normal for any girl, whether it be shravani, or not, to act this way. and jaywant: i like him better than manav. who isn't a little selfish, come on? and after all, archu has insulted him and his fam. like multiple times now? and i'm not saying what he's doing is correct but i'm only saying that they're making him seem worse than he is and the same goes for shravani. i disrespect archana and manav.

blahblahs..
there are quite a few in this forum who will support you for saying shravani is the victim..
which is 200 % true.. as i see it at the end of the day ( or serial ) arman will unite.. jaywant will probably be in jail or fired .. it will be poor shrav who will be left high and dry.. i am totally agianst manav-shrav cos manav doesnt even look at her properly.. she has been kept waiting for 2 yrs now after so much assurances,promises she will be left single....
what abt sachu...atleast now he is too young to understand anything but if armaan unite after he comes of impressionable age (arnd 3-4 ) ( which is quite possible if they strech it sooo long 😆 )
will he take his kaka as his papa?
the first thing manav shld do is let shrav go.... it wld be better for sachu now. he is small wnt remember.. she can start her life again...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I want shravani to take her kid away from this madhouse ...
Its such an unhealthy environment for the kid to grow up in...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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U r right Lunza. The kid doesnt such a crappy family n unhealthy env but un4tunately the mom who is an educated mother n who is much better off financially than Manav thinks that a woman needs a man's support n presence in her life whether the guy is worth it or not.
I hate it when CVs show women so weak n helpless. 😡

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaNiCo

That should be the final episode for this show and then send them to a clear sun-set?

I hope we get to see the final episode soon ... because this is quite unbearable and as a matter of fact absolutely torturing ....not realistic at all

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