Marriage...they say are made in heaven :)

So ok! the show is kinda out there…but whatever! so back to writing and commenting…and also I kind of missed you guys! Though I get touch …

Ok! so here goes I liked one thing which was unique last night when Shaan said will be like be Mom and Dad 30 years from now

…I think that great question to ask young couples…do we loose love in marriage…does compatibility take over…passion what holds a marriage love in other words…a routine, a familiarity….

I ask all the married women in this what is marriage and do we keep compromising to keep it going …

You know 30 years is a long time to stay married.Most people within few months of their marriage start to lose interest,so crossing that 25 year barracade is a huge acheivement.With the rise in divorce rate,i mean this doesn't only go for the West but it applies for India as well,staying married forever is kind of rare.I mean surely no couple can maintain the same sort of passion and promise that they started their marriage off with.When couples start off it is just 2 of them then gradually it becomes the 4 of them or 5 of them etc.Especially if both the parents want to climb up that success ladder in their workplace ,I mean where is the time for romance?.I mean some people would say, you need to make the time,family comes first.But that is easier said than done right?.Whatever parents do,they do for their family,for their kids to make sure their kids are not deprived of anything and in doing all this the couple in question loses touch with their love life coz their focus is now on other things . During the course of time if we fall out of love with that person,there is no point staying married and leading an unhappy life,but if we do love that person as much as we did 20 or 30 years ago ,but circumstances have caused us to drift apart,i mean couples can always work on that.Classic example of Sunil and Madhavi.I mean they do love eachother.They are not in a loveless marriage,but lack of communication,inability to balance work and personal life has landed them in this situation.I mean if Madhavi had to go out and work she would have understood Sunils situation and likewise. I mean nobody can help you over here the people in question have to take the initiative if they want to make their marriage work for a long period of time.

lol...wat Q. u askd i hav noo xperiecnee...bt i feel dat its truee...wat craziness nd love u hav for ur hubby be4 gradually fades away wid ageee...coz maybe children coz work nd bla bla....though i hav 0 xperience abt dis !!

hmmm
as of now i m newly married..but I think our love mayb bcoz an arranged marriage had only increased..
and of now we are much young and after some 10 years we will lose our passion but not our love..wo junoon kho jaayenge lekin wo mohabbat badhti hi jaayenge
and we will be occupied like children,family vagera vagera but people enjoy themselves as parents and a new bond is formed between the two....
bas itna hi ki pyaar mein passion ko mat doondho doondhna hai to aur gehri pyaar doondho

Nice topic Wooster...

Originally posted by: wooster

I ask all the married women in this what is marriage and do we keep compromising to keep it going '