Reality Vs Righteousness

1. SS like criminals tries to acquaint with powerful officials

2. People with money arranging orchestra and dancing in their marriage

3. People like Dayal do not want to be associated with high profile criminals like SS

4. Shakthi and Krishna shouting at Dayaal

5. Sasur like Saxsena shouting at their young Daughter In Laws and taking out their frustration on them

Theoretically all these things are right

1. Aman saying it doesn't matter who Arushi's family has relationship with.

2. Dayal shouting at SS because he made a bad remark.

3. Krishna defending his father.

4. Saxsena's inviting Thakurs.

We can not do everything by book. Sometimes, we have to choose how we act and control the situation temporarily. For example, Saxsena's shouldn't have invited Thakurs knowing well that they don't leave any chance to embarrass them. Although it was right thing to do, if they had cared for their daughter's function, they shouldn't have invited them at first place.

Dayaal doesn't like criminals but he shouldn't have shouted at Thakur when Thakur wanted favors from him. He should have known the surroundings. Although, SS was wrong by book, Dayaal seemed irrational. He should have given him stern warning and walked away. No one need to know about it.

Saxsena did not make any effort to calm both the parties. It was not the time to choose right or wrong. If Saxsena had spent little of his brain he could have avoided such chaos in front of every one. At the end of the day, his daughter did not enjoy her engagement and other daughter was not present at the occasion.

Aman said, it doesn't matter what Arushi's family is related to. But, in real life the family matters.

Especially for people like Daayal who has to face the public everyday. If Sajjan Singh commits crime, people will immediately questions IG's integrity and blames them unnecessarily.

Both the daughter-in-laws got blamed for their family member's mistake and not so surprisingly both of them defended their fathers.

As Baba says, these people always think by book. They need to be smart not bookish.