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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello,
I love Angini as a pair, purely because I find Parul-Apurva a very distinct and refreshing pair. One is very earthy, the other very urbane. And they have a smouldering chemistry, which I feel is quite untapped.
But coming back to Angini, here are a few points:
1. Firstly I have never understood what is eternal love? I extremely love my partner. I share a rapport with him that is very comforting and secure. But we are very real in our dealings, .....if you know what I mean. 😳. We have arguments, we dont see each other' views, but we still connect.
That said I think I must be a mere mortal as I have never felt the janam janam ka saathi feeling with him. In fact he says that ek janam is so difficult with you, saath janam is too much 😆😆.
2. Secondly, I have always wondered how Hindi TV serial men and women can exercise such self control. I mean for those of you who are adults amongst us would know that you perhaps can't spend years on end without any wants (mildly put)😆😆.
Please don't misunderstand me. I am not referring to just physical desires without any emotion. Over time you start loving a person and also there are many times you just want to be comforted, something as simple as a hug.
Over time relationships between a couple do deepen and do turn demonstrative.
3. I feel as humans the best gift we have is we "feel" and we "love". 😊
I dont buy the view that you can fall in love only once. Sorry but that is very prudish and restrictive. That must be happening only in Yashraj movies😆😆. Just because you loose a partner, either to death or by man-made reasons (divorce, etc) that should not mean you can't fall in love again or will never feel love again.
If I lost a partner to death I would be devastated. But perhaps with time if another man entered my life I think that I would eventually begin to love him. That does not mean I am not loving the first one. 😳
I don't know if I am able to explain this well. But to give you an example, like Kal Ho Naa Ho. Preity Zinta loved SRK, then he died in the movie, but then she also eventually loved Saif Ali Khan. I think that just because she later on loved Saif that does not make her cheap or in any way undermine the love she felt for both men.
So I think the Angini track should progress a bit and not just show people living under a roof and only discussing kids or problems. I mean we can do that discussions even with friends or governesses or maids or relatives. 😆😆
Thanks
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very well said...I think the prudish behavior is more for audience sakes...
I think people want to see only the ideal situations onscreen...thts why the slow progress...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I second your thoughts, A true example is what happened with my family itself so i see what it means to get second chances in life and fall in love again

These reasons hold good if your partner is the most wonderful person whom you could believe in trust and feel that he/she is someone you can share your feelings with.

The Eternal word is quite a cliche and the real world or reel world is beyond my understanding also

We live a life and if we have somthing good to look forward to and feel that we can be happy with somone who gives us happiness we should move on with them

Happiness gets snatched away very easily and its got a very short span of time to exist in ones domain so when its there grab it and make it yours...

Here ragini to our views has waited 7 years to come out of her shell of unhappiness and now when Anmol is ready to hold her hand and move along with him, this is the best thing she ought to do
He can give her everything she needs to smile to share her feelings and to love again so move with him and see the future lies as a bed of roses for you !!

Their relationship is so beautiful even though i keep getting annoyed with both but its soothing extremely soothing to ones heart !!
I love such soft relationships They take their time to blossom and when they do they are like the fields of Amsterdam

Falling in love again is quite natural and it is never that you sidelined anything which was an integral part of you, infact it grows stronger as you know that the person who left you would be hap[py that you moved on and became happy again !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veritas

very well said...I think the prudish behavior is more for audience sakes...
I think people want to see only the ideal situations onscreen...thts why the slow progress...

Thanks Veritas, interesting point. 👏
I feel whilst it may be an ideal from a morality point of view, it is perhaps not in line with the basic principle of life .....which is change and evolution. We evolve as humans and experience many emotions, including love.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

I second your thoughts, A true example is what happened with my family itself so i see what it means to get second chances in life and fall in love again

These reasons hold good if your partner is the most wonderful person whom you could believe in trust and feel that he/she is someone you can share your feelings with.

The Eternal word is quite a cliche and the real world or reel world is beyond my understanding also

We live a life and if we have somthing good to look forward to and feel that we can be happy with somone who gives us happiness we should move on with them

Happiness gets snatched away very easily and its got a very short span of time to exist in ones domain so when its there grab it and make it yours...

Here ragini to our views has waited 7 years to come out of her shell of unhappiness and now when Anmol is ready to hold her hand and move along with him, this is the best thing she ought to do
He can give her everything she needs to smile to share her feelings and to love again so move with him and see the future lies as a bed of roses for you !!

Their relationship is so beautiful even though i keep getting annoyed with both but its soothing extremely soothing to ones heart !!
I love such soft relationships They take their time to blossom and when they do they are like the fields of Amsterdam

Falling in love again is quite natural and it is never that you sidelined anything which was an integral part of you, infact it grows stronger as you know that the person who left you would be hap[py that you moved on and became happy again !!

BEAUTIFUL⭐️⭐️
This is the one of the best I have read here. Simple yet profound.
I loved every word of what you wrote especially that we have one life and something that gives us happiness must be cherished.
Shanti, I dont know about Bidaai, because for me its just a TV show.......but I will miss coming here and reading and interacting with you guys.
here is a small token of respect for you👏👏😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice topic....😊
this one i agree with you yes apoorva/parul as angini is a refeshing pair..their chemistry just keep me in awe..i mean even though there is no such intimate scenes between then but still if they are in the same frame the chemistry is there..
as for second chance in love i think in real life there is no law that forbids it..so it happens and we move on...
in reel life it happens but the presentation of the story takes some dramatic turn/twist before the real love happens..
so same goes for for angini the shadow of the past was still present in this relationship..now the past is behind and definitely this relationship is taking a new turn...
if bidaai was not going to end in another 3 weeks time may be we would have got more on angini's relationship..like they have small disagreement on certain issues and so on..the ideal couple but with its ups/downs..
i think no chance of that ..sakshi's issue over..alekh recovery..it will only be anmol gets his first love and ragini her second time to fall in love..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thanks dear ..

I just like to express whats in my heart and mind ..

we really have one life to live and cherish and the people who mean a lot to us we should respect and share the love with them ..

The love you can have once can always be found again if you have a chance to accept it and move on

Ragini is at a situation that she cannot seem to hold on to her sorrows anymore and has to let go of it as happiness in the form of Anmol is standing with open arms to embrace her,,

The very understanding they have shown over these months comes to show that when people walk out of your life leaving a void space , if there is someone who is good at heart and who you can have full faith in not what people say see your instinct and believe, you may make the right choice..

And fights and arguments are a part of life which make the bond even more stronger, or if you spouse doesn't want to fight with you cook up something and enjoy the moment
I do with my husband that 😆 ..
i hope since Anmol is a non fighting husband at this moment ragini should cook up somthing to get a spice in her life 😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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love can happen twice angini proves it
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nice topic my dear will coem back with my views..absolutely beautiful ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Hello,
I love Angini as a pair, purely because I find Parul-Apurva a very distinct and refreshing pair. One is very earthy, the other very urbane. And they have a smouldering chemistry, which I feel is quite untapped.
But coming back to Angini, here are a few points:
1. Firstly I have never understood what is eternal love? I extremely love my partner. I share a rapport with him that is very comforting and secure. But we are very real in our dealings, .....if you know what I mean. 😳. We have arguments, we dont see each other' views, but we still connect.
That said I think I must be a mere mortal as I have never felt the janam janam ka saathi feeling with him. In fact he says that ek janam is so difficult with you, saath janam is too much 😆😆.
2. Secondly, I have always wondered how Hindi TV serial men and women can exercise such self control. I mean for those of you who are adults amongst us would know that you perhaps can't spend years on end without any wants (mildly put)😆😆.
Please don't misunderstand me. I am not referring to just physical desires without any emotion. Over time you start loving a person and also there are many times you just want to be comforted, something as simple as a hug.
Over time relationships between a couple do deepen and do turn demonstrative.
3. I feel as humans the best gift we have is we "feel" and we "love". 😊
I dont buy the view that you can fall in love only once. Sorry but that is very prudish and restrictive. That must be happening only in Yashraj movies😆😆. Just because you loose a partner, either to death or by man-made reasons (divorce, etc) that should not mean you can't fall in love again or will never feel love again.
If I lost a partner to death I would be devastated. But perhaps with time if another man entered my life I think that I would eventually begin to love him. That does not mean I am not loving the first one. 😳
I don't know if I am able to explain this well. But to give you an example, like Kal Ho Naa Ho. Preity Zinta loved SRK, then he died in the movie, but then she also eventually loved Saif Ali Khan. I think that just because she later on loved Saif that does not make her cheap or in any way undermine the love she felt for both men.
So I think the Angini track should progress a bit and not just show people living under a roof and only discussing kids or problems. I mean we can do that discussions even with friends or governesses or maids or relatives. 😆😆
Thanks

👏....unnatural.....but serials main sab kuch hota hai

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