Originally posted by: Vrushalini
Hi...this may be my last post!! I hope I will be able to keep coming up here.....
I know it is sad, very very sad...but misjudgements, misundertsandings, anger, confrontations etc are part of life...that's how your relationships grow further...I don't see a point where sid to be blamed for all what happened neither nivi to be blamed for today she couldn't listen a word from sid!!
life is not a bed of roses all the time either you are reach or poor!! Same goes with nivi and sid....sid misunderstood, made mistakes, now nivi is unable to understand his intentions!!
The time is only solution for their pain to get healed...And whatever way the story is going, I feel, that another people are entering into their respecetive lives with love and care....so they will follow what destiny has chose for them.....
And always I felt, experienced one thing, if you truly love someone, that love comes back to you, no matter how much negative things happened in between..it makes it's way and reaches to you...... forgiveness, caring, trusting, understanding all comes along the way....that's what I have understood in life.....So if sid nivi's love is true, that love itself will reunite them....and if not, it will not be having that much of strength and power to reunite them and they will follow the path what destiny has chose for them......
And whatever is going on...I think we have to stop thinking of sid nivi...we are anyways so sad, it will lead us to huge huge disappointment.....in the show, we felt their love is pure and true, but may be what we felt was incorrect....so they are parting their ways forever, which is indeed sad...
But atleast will there be any respect shown for dadaji's true last wish....whatever happened to this extremely unwell, sick man's ( who's life was in danger) last wish is so heartening...at least his wishes should get justified, atleast his wish deserves to be known to evryone around him...He is going to feel sad for rest of his life that he couldn't keep the promise he made to his beloved late friend's wife: Nayantara bhabhi, whom he respects so much! He will lead rest of his life in disappointment for not being able to make justice!! He must have thought, nivi sid's marriage will probably be a way to sort out the matter when he realised that nivi's dadi was saying truth for sid wanted to get engaged to nivi and not divya....
Or else they should haven't shown him knowing about sid nivi from vandana and later expressing his wish and Chanchal being manipulating and playing games with him too....
The way nivi's dadi spoke to hemlata when she and divya came to seek her blessing for she got engaged with sid was so heart wrenching....there is so much pain in her heart too! And the way hemlata walked away without saying anything, somehwere in her heart too, she got pinched for being unfair to nivi....