Pratigya should be applauded for supporting Kesar

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am so ashamed to read posts where people are supporting Krishna's disgraceful behavior especially women.
Pratigya should be appluaded for standing up for a weak person like Kesar. I am disgusted the way women are portrayed in Indian society. Kesar has battered wife syndrome and in these cases it is very hard for somebody to stand up for themselves. They loose all hope and life in them. They are just mere flesh and blood with no emotions left. They are scared to speak up.
I work with women with same conditions everyday. If my client were to be in this situation my advice would be that Pratigya needs to be out of the house with Kesar to fight for her.
Well in this case P is been repeatedly abused by her in-laws and husband . She needs to get out.
I have read about posts where people are asking the question : Why does a husband has to support the wife in everything she says? It is not about supporting . It is about supporting for the right cause . And in this case Pratigya is trying to be supportive of a women who has lost her last hope. To become a mother. This a very noble reason . So to all the diehard Krishna fan's ,try to place yourself in the situation and then visulize Arhaan Behls so called charismatic character, and then tell me do you still find him attractive and wonderful ? If you still do, I think you should have a reality check.
I am a domestic violence lawyer and I would strongly request the writers of the show to stop showing domestic violence without any proper message of overcoming it. This cannot go on for long. You are playing with people's mind and showing that it is OK to suffer. Well it is not OK.
Next week I want to see changes in the behavior of Krishna and he should be apologising to Pratigya and take her out of the hell.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusarkar

I am so ashamed to read posts where people are supporting Krishna's disgraceful behavior especially women.

Pratigya should be appluaded for standing up for a weak person like Kesar. I am disgusted the way women are portrayed in Indian society. Kesar has battered wife syndrome and in these cases it is very hard for somebody to stand up for themselves. They loose all hope and life in them. They are just mere flesh and blood with no emotions left. They are scared to speak up.
I work with women with same conditions everyday. If my client were to be in this situation my advice would be that Pratigya needs to be out of the house with Kesar to fight for her.
Well in this case P is been repeatedly abused by her in-laws and husband . She needs to get out.
I have read about posts where people are asking the question : Why does a husband has to support the wife in everything she says? It is not about supporting . It is about supporting for the right cause . And in this case Pratigya is trying to be supportive of a women who has lost her last hope. To become a mother. This a very noble reason . So to all the diehard Krishna fan's ,try to place yourself in the situation and then visulize Arhaan Behls so called charismatic character, and then tell me do you still find him attractive and wonderful ? If you still do, I think you should have a reality check.
I am a domestic violence lawyer and I would strongly request the writers of the show to stop showing domestic violence without any proper message of overcoming it. This cannot go on for long. You are playing with people's mind and showing that it is OK to suffer. Well it is not OK.
Next week I want to see changes in the behavior of Krishna and he should be apologising to Pratigya and take her out of the hell.

@ anusarkar,
Love all three post. I was delighted to finally read a post that clearly explained the situation of woman like Kesar. I am happy that Pratigya is trying to stand up for Keasr. I was very upset with Kirshna for his blatant disrigrad for Kesar and her situation. But unfortunately in our society women are still expected to be Kesars and not Pratigyas. We want educated DILs but we want them to be submissive. Women are still expected to put with all the abuse from their in-laws. When they stand up for them self they are pounced upon. I am lucky to live in the States. There are many cases of domestic abuse here. But unlike India the women are not expected to put up with it. Even if a woman has the means to support herself she is still expected to adjust to the abuse. We still hold on to the age old attitude that a woman should never diagree with her husband or his family. She is to put them first even before her. When a man supports his wife he is called a ungrateful son who has forgotten the family who raised him. We as a society need to value our daughters. Like you said we should applauld Pratigya for standing up for injustice and support her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusarkar

I am so ashamed to read posts where people are supporting Krishna's disgraceful behavior especially women.

Pratigya should be appluaded for standing up for a weak person like Kesar. I am disgusted the way women are portrayed in Indian society. Kesar has battered wife syndrome and in these cases it is very hard for somebody to stand up for themselves. They loose all hope and life in them. They are just mere flesh and blood with no emotions left. They are scared to speak up.
I work with women with same conditions everyday. If my client were to be in this situation my advice would be that Pratigya needs to be out of the house with Kesar to fight for her.
Well in this case P is been repeatedly abused by her in-laws and husband . She needs to get out.
I have read about posts where people are asking the question : Why does a husband has to support the wife in everything she says? It is not about supporting . It is about supporting for the right cause . And in this case Pratigya is trying to be supportive of a women who has lost her last hope. To become a mother. This a very noble reason . So to all the diehard Krishna fan's ,try to place yourself in the situation and then visulize Arhaan Behls so called charismatic character, and then tell me do you still find him attractive and wonderful ? If you still do, I think you should have a reality check.
I am a domestic violence lawyer and I would strongly request the writers of the show to stop showing domestic violence without any proper message of overcoming it. This cannot go on for long. You are playing with people's mind and showing that it is OK to suffer. Well it is not OK.
Next week I want to see changes in the behavior of Krishna and he should be apologising to Pratigya and take her out of the hell.

👏👏👏👏well said dear i hope now may some ppl will try to open their eyes and will try to see the matter with broad vision and yes you are right we always needs to support thw eak person b'coz a person who is string he/she dnt need some one's support they can fight for thme selves only weak ppl needs support and kesar is a weak woman and if prats is supporting her ppl are blaming her as if she committed a sinand on the other side defending krishna liek any things actually these ppl are trying to say let kesar suffer alone and you enjoy your so called romantic life with her hypocrite husband🤢🤢who dnt wants any disturbance from others in his married life wwow what a selfish reason
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Posted: 15 years ago
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instead of being applauded here she is being blamed by every one for interfering in others matter urghhhhhhhh
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with anusarkar perfectly right
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Posted: 15 years ago
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great post dear👏 you have stolen the words out of my mouth😆

krishna is a good character at heart but he needs to learn to not be so selfish - if it has something to do with him or pratigya, he will be the first one to speak, but if its about his bhabhi, he will tell pratigya not to get involved.😡 the most infuriating thing about it is that his bhabhi is being treated so unfairly and so brutally - her husband and mother-in-law murdered her last hope of having a child, and he's just sitting back and trying to avoid the subject.🤢 don't get me wrong, krishna is one of my favourite characters, but he needs to learn that just because it's about his bhabhi, he should still try and support her and help fight for her respect.😊 i love pratigya so much for standing up for kesar - since most of the other thakurs havent got a heart.🤢 i just hope that pratigya will help get kesar out of that hell hole and married to someone else who will love and care for her😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sunlight-

great post dear👏 you have stolen the words out of my mouth😆


krishna is a good character at heart but he needs to learn to not be so selfish - if it has something to do with him or pratigya, he will be the first one to speak, but if its about his bhabhi, he will tell pratigya not to get involved.😡 the most infuriating thing about it is that his bhabhi is being treated so unfairly and so brutally - her husband and mother-in-law murdered her last hope of having a child, and he's just sitting back and trying to avoid the subject.🤢 don't get me wrong, krishna is one of my favourite characters, but he needs to learn that just because it's about his bhabhi, he should still try and support her and help fight for her respect.😊 i love pratigya so much for standing up for kesar - since most of the other thakurs havent got a heart.🤢 i just hope that pratigya will help get kesar out of that hell hole and married to someone else who will love and care for her😊

exactly dear this is my point he is gud but selfish i bet if prats will be at kesar's palce he will kill his family for doing such things with her and when her bhabhi is suffering he wants to watch the pciture with popcorn wow!😲

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