DOTW: Misunderstandings? Misunderstood?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello Friends ..🤗
I am here with the new DOTW
After the last week or so.. We have seen AviTa not getting anywhere..
Firstly Avdesh the sharmilla #1 doesn't open his eyes in the Mandir and Now..!!

He is going to see Creepy Pappu with Arpita and get the wrong message..
He is even going to put a gun in his friends mouth and shout at them cos of his frustration..!!

So my question is: Will AviTa relationship always be about Misunderstandings?
Why is Avdesh not looking at all the aspects of what he see's?
Couldn't Pappu have been a brother, cousin, uncle?
And will this Misinterpretation be Avdesh's biggest Flaw?
To mee it seems so: He is very quick on the gun to express his annoyance and doesn't seem to have any patience!
He loves Arpita and expects to be loved back..? Why??
He doesn't know of any facts and he is making presumptions.. What does that say about him?
Has he been let down before Or Can he not handle Rejection?

So please tell mee what you think..
I love Avdesh but it seems he is too high on his horses and doesn't analyse anything..
He acts with his heart sometimes without using his head?
Is that always good?

Get Discussing Everyone..
I want to read your ideas.. :D

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm afraid to say that yes maybe Avita will be based on a lot of misunderstandings from both sides 😭 because let's be honest here, they both don't know anything about each other's lives, they have never spoken two words to each other and hence both will misunderstand what they see😕

Avdesh knows nothing about her home life and the creep her father has chosen for her😡 so of course they will be understandings

And Arpita only knows what she has read about him in the media, wait until she see's Bhauji😆

I think that Avdesh is slightly bola, like he is easily manipulated and used, i.e. I totally think Bhauji uses him and controls him through manipulation, so he straight away believes what he sees without thinking

I am just so worried about what will happen now😕😕😲😲😲

Great DOTW, will post more thoughts later

Edited by ReginaAli - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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From, today's epi, it looks like, their relation ship will start with misunderstandings only😕, cause Avdesh will think, that when his letter was reached for her😭, which we know, she had no idea abt it😭, he will think, that as he is a gunda, a girl like Arpi can never love him😭😭...& today he was fully heartbroken🥺, Looks like this misunderstanding will go for some time😕
I think, as when he saw today Arpi with creep, first he was fully shocked😲, & had no idea that creep 🤢 will come, & he is heartbroken💔, & will not be in a position to think anything😲😭, cause, today again when kanpuriya, wanted to say him something😃, he just stared at him angrily
I don't want that Pappuwa😆, to be anything 😆
Yaa, Avdesh doesn't have any patience at all😳😳, & i think, his this MU, will be a big problem for Avita😕😕, I atleast hope, that now Arpi tries to talk to Avdesh asap😳😳, as Avdesh is in no mood, to listen anything or even understand😔
He expects Arpi for him to be loved, cause when he came to see her on balcony😉😉😆, he kinda got ishara that may be Arpi likes him too😕😕, but was confused😳😕, & his all fellow goons😳😳, made him believe that, Ladki Hasi toh Fasi😆😆😉, & he thought that she likes him❤️, which is true😍
I think so, Arpi only is his first love❤️, as as he had liked a girl for first time😳😳, & he saw, that she was with other man🤢, he just could not bear it😭, & was like heartbroken💔
I think, for love matter he is thinking by his heart❤️, not by brain😳, & for other matters, he's😎
Edited by remosalsa - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Avdesh is very much a shielded child when it comes to the matters of the heart and love.
What he knows is what he sees. He has probably lived his life surrounded by his men and sister in law. Although there are many people that he encounters but those closest to him remain the same throughout the years. He has never experienced anything beyond his safe zone.
He may have met many girls but Arpi cld be the only who gave him the signal that she likes him. So he is judging based on her signals. So maybe it's not so much as misunderstanding but confusion coz he thinks she has read the letter and she lead him on purpose.
I am sure he is still a good judge of character and he will come around. 😊
Edited by fuzzyface - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well.....i feel.....tht the bhauji....is the culprit of the show.....she seems to be very cunning...types...
but abt avdesh...as per the current track .....i wudnt want to blame him....since his frnd was narrating him tht....pappu is being too over expressive regrding his sick intentions...its not tht he asked his frnd not to go......he did allow him to overhear them right?
lets think practically, how cn a stranger understnd u....without even knwing a slight abt u.....we cnt just base our decisions on looks...or...vice versa.......he hasnt even heard her voice....!
he is bound to get angry.....not cuz wht she did......its cuz he felt cheated...lets not forget...tht he sent the love letter to arpita....who is totally unaware abt it.......nd expected only 2 things...and those are....either she wudnt turn up.....or she wud be there alone waiing for him......
he wudnt expect her...to be with sum guy who is sayin i love u to her.....and goin too close.....
thts wht made him...angry cuz he is not aware tht she didnt read the letter only.......
whereas about arpita.....she is surrounded with all possible violent ppl....and due to confusion and frustration...she sumhow....did not get to see the letter....her mother being beaten up...her father and brothers being soo violent and unsupportive.....wht wud one do..but she has the ability to atleast see wht was in avdesh's eyes.....she saw his tears....she saw the rose...and even she cud have possibly thught...tht he came to propose sum1 else...right? see ..one can go to tht level..
my conclusion is....tht i truly salute this arpita....who had such audacity......to go uptil his residence just 2 weeks before her wedding to express her feelings...wherein she cud have compromised with her fate.....
but i wish her a good luck...since she will be facing bhauji......and lets see wht the creatives have filled in future for them and for us to keep watchin the show......
hopefully bhauji doesnt end up being rude......and sends her to avdesh....but i can predict one thing....tht arpita wunt be able to meet avdesh..since he is sumwhere far.....tokin to his frnds and tellin them tht hes not intrested in all this love aspect.......
lets see....hope they unite soon....sumhow i m dying to see their chemistry.....since their...eyes do the talkin most of the time....but when they share a healthy conversation.....how wud it be.....!
Good luck
Regards
Deepika

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