Am Shocked - DMG's message?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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First thing in the morning and i see a post on the first page of the MF - That the message CVs are trying to give out is - You shouldn't marry someone if your heart lies elsewhere?

Really? So that means, tht god forbid you loved someone as deeply as riddhima loved armaan, and the cruel fate separates the 2 of u - and there is not even the remotest chance of your love returning - u can go insane looking for him, you can put ur life in anger, u can commit suicide - basically give up living but do not dare!

Do not dare to hope again, do not dare to smile again, do not dare to live again, do not dare to love again!!! Am really shocked and amazed at people's thinking - this is LIFE!! It goes on!! You cannot be stuck and mourn for your loss and make not only your life miserable but make others' lives hell as well - have u paused to think wat the girl's parents wud have to go through? The human heart is not so weak neither is it so tiny that it cannot encompass love for more than one person...

No am not saying you should get married for the sake of society like SR did - but if you happen to find a man who is ready to accept you with your past and the baggage you carry - y not? Is love really everything tht defines a relationship? then every1 in love should get married... y r there so many break ups in the world if love was enough? Go figure!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Life goes on and we have to move on with it........

And if life you a chance to live and love again one should grab it both the hands

Isliye shayaad kisine kaha hai Zindagi Jeene ka Naam Hai

Aur Jeena sirf saans lena nahi hota

Khushi Aur Pyar dene aur mehsoos ka hota hai
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Posted: 14 years ago
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All I can say is well said!
Time stops for no one... Life moves on!
Smart n successful are those people that take their up and downs in life in their stride and move on.
If one were to dwell in the past and stay stuck to it... and mourn and lament all their life.. then isnt there a word for them... looser!
Edited by prejudiced - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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iam shocked.people can actually gt a message from DMG ?
Edited by Meena31 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great lesson for the youth that watch this show...😲😲😲 if you get your love transcending the boundaries of friendhip, any sense and sensibility - what is the point at the end of all that? Honestly - dushman ko bhi armaan jaise friend, pati or lover na mile!!! Truly disgusting. Actually that would be great punishment for Ridz - go live with A and lose a gem like Sid.
That A character has absolutely no shame - actually he gts encouraged by Ridz - instead she should get a restraint order for him..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Boy this is so needed Rapzz you read my mind,... I too am and was shock looking at that message! I mean how anyone can think that ways, beyond my understanding

onething for sure age, and experience doesn't matter what matters is maturity and what learn from your experiences!
Edited by monar - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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as far as i understood the post you're talking about, i think the TM meant 'you shouldnt get married to someone else if you're not completely over your last love'. and i dont see anything wrong with it?

no one said she was supposed to wait for her love to return, but seeing she wasnt completely over him, she shouldnt have married Sid. because as CVs are 'TRYING' to show her still being in love with Armaan and working on her marriage is turning out to be a complete disaster.

now the way CVs have showed that is a different issue.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amber_x

as far as i understood the post you're talking about, i think the TM meant 'you shouldnt get married to someone else if you're not completely over your last love'. and i dont see anything wrong with it?

no one said she was supposed to wait for her love to return, but seeing she wasnt completely over him, she shouldnt have married Sid. because as CVs are 'TRYING' to show her still being in love with Armaan and working on her marriage is turning out to be a complete disaster.

now the way CVs have showed that is a different issue.



well with my previous experiences you are getting that wrong .. the message is straight forward... dare you move on!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well what do u expect from this forum and it's members???
they need to listen to this song and act upon it & maybe also revive their ideas about love

afterall Har kisi ko nahi milta yahan pyar zindagi main riddhima toh still is lucky she found love in case of sid there r peopel who don't find partners like sid


[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZN24LdpQDKQ[/YOUTUBE]

Yes this is for you people


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amber_x

as far as i understood the post you're talking about, i think the TM meant 'you shouldnt get married to someone else if you're not completely over your last love'. and i dont see anything wrong with it?

no one said she was supposed to wait for her love to return, but seeing she wasnt completely over him, she shouldnt have married Sid. because as CVs are 'TRYING' to show her still being in love with Armaan and working on her marriage is turning out to be a complete disaster.

now the way CVs have showed that is a different issue.



She s a human being...and so are we.. noone is expecting us to get over our ex with the blink of an eye!!! Wat do u think wud have happened to ridhhima had sid not married her? She would have lost her sanity... marrying sid gave her some semblance, some stability... even if it meant she had become like a mechanical doll programmed for carrying out wifely duties - at least she had some reason to live!!! And a man like sid, with all the patience in the world, ready to wait for as much time as ridhhima wud have taken... this is a human beings heart we are talking bout and it cannot remain oblivious for too long!!!!

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