Heart vs Mind...and the struggle continues for AR

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey friends,

So finally I unleashed my potential of not watching DMG...😉
And since I have just finished watching DMG on youtube, I thought of making a quick post before my AR supporting thoughts vanish from my already complicated head!!!😆

AR today face just one problem...
Many people are calling it adultery...😲
Many people are terming it as develish..😈
And many people are calling Armaan as well as Ridhima characterless, confused souls...🥱

I respect everyone's opinion, rather than confronting them with anguish..😛
But here's my view of looking into their situation!😳

Armaan as well as Ridhima have been thrown into a situation where they are struggling between whom to hear...their mind or their heart!😲

In today's episode, he was very clear about what he is undergoing! His mind knows that Ridhima is married to Sid, and he is even even agreeing that he is wrong to be at Ridhima's honeymoon dwell right now..BUT...his HEART is not ready to believe that Ridhima has fallen in "love" with Sid. 😳His heart cannot believe that the strong emotions that Ridhima had for him has just been erased away...and she has completely forgotten him, his love and their bond. 😲The bond that made Ridhima take a bullet for him.👏 The bond where Ridhima searched for him crazily.😊 The bond where they faced death in each other's arm during the bomb scene. 😃The bond where she had fasted along with him till Dr Shashank did not agree for their union.😊

His heart just cannot believe that Ridhima is all ready to share a similar bond with Sid now.🥱 ANd just to see a glimpse of her feel the same for her hubby will assure him that he has been deserted and thrown out of the life of the girl who means everything to him, who completes his world and who is the reason for him to fight for survival when he himself had lost hopes. Armaan is talking about the girl who is a mirror to his own soul!😳

Anyways, let me now move to Ridhima.

So Armaan thinks that he still occupies Ridhima's heart and Sid has not replaced him.😳 Is Armaan right or wrong? Well, in todays episode, Armaan's assumptions have been totally right!😃 RIDHIMA HAS NOT FORGOTTEN ARMAAN. She can still feel him inspite of not able to see him.😳 She feels his presence. She relates each event around her to Armaan. Be it a girl vs boy, or a challenge...or even while getting re-married to her hubby...she instantly connects everything that happens with her to Armaan or his memories...😳She, inspite of being on her honeymoon with Sid, is FEELING armaan's presence! 😲

Now, many people will call her characterless based on this. But my question is...she can build her character if she constantly listens to her brain, but what does she do about her heart?😕 How does she fight the FEELING that her heart signals at Armaan's mere presence? How does she shrug off the memories that can never leave her how much ever she tries?🥱

Armaan and Ridhima were, are and will be in love!😃 Because they have not shared a relation where they were just with each other. They have shared a relation, where even when they were not with each other, their souls were connected. 👏Thats the beauty of the bond AR have shared!😛

And finally, I just want to tell that Love makes people do crazily wrong things! 😆If you have ever been in love, most of us have done things that the mind might term as wrong but your heart will say that nothing else could be more right..😃like meeting your love even if your parents don't want you to😭...that can be surely termed wrong by mind. The mind can always tell you that you are cheating your parents, the people who have bought you up, taken care of you, been with you thru thin and thick. 🥱
But the heart can easily conquer your mind and step out,😳 face all the challenges and go be with the person it loves.😳..even if its just one minute...😆

As for AR ...they are love personified..😳
they have done what nobody in love have done for each other 🤗

Saying all this, I wanna make it clear that I am not in support of EMA, coz for a plain simple reason, that Armaan and Ridhima do not need to indulge into something as disgraceful as adultery!🥱

Their love is beyond having sex with each other😳...they could have been physical anytime in the past 3 years..infact most of the fans would have been very supportive of it...since they cud have got to see some extra hot scenes...😳
But their love is beyond physical pleasures. they
had kept enuf patience to wait for the right moment..and I am sure they deserve an applause for that!

Todays episode was a very significant one. On one hand, Armaan heart cannot belive that he is totally out of Ridzy's life...and on the other hand, Ridzy cannot erase Armaan from her heart....it has been proved that Ridhima can only think of Armaan in whatever phase of life she shall be!😳
Be it a challenge, or be it a mere girl-boy war...or be it taking her marriage vows..😳

I wish Armaan and Ridhima all the best to realize that their hearts need the courage to conquer their mind... and get back to where they have always belonged to..which they shall finally call "home sweet home"!!!!!😳

Peace and love,
Pri😳

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Posted: 14 years ago
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gr8 pri...u jst cleared evrythng..👏👏👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Good going Pri, wonderful. I'm loving the AR bond and I sincerely hope that the promo is a mere hype. I donot want their love to get stuck between Adultery........They haven't even kissed despite being engaged so why now??? AR fans will wait for the right moment another time once they are free from any bondage and baggage ................ Till then I want to just enjoy the yearning and understanding.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: flashy

Good going Pri, wonderful. I'm loving the AR bond and I sincerely hope that the promo is a mere hype. I donot want their love to get stuck between Adultery........They haven't even kissed despite being engaged so why now??? AR fans will wait for the right moment another time once they are free from any bondage and baggage ................ Till then I want to just enjoy the yearning and understanding.



Flashy..
i loved your write-up..
and my fav words were yearning and understanding...👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dmg_lovditonce

gr8 pri...u jst cleared evrythng..👏👏👏



Thanks sweetheart...your comment makes me feel i have conquered the world or something..
waise clearing things wen it comes to dmg is no less than conquering th world!😉😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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when we never accepted SR marriage then how could it be an EMA for us?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Pri we dnt need to say anything in defence of AR ! They were,are and will always be in love,irrespective of what they say or do..Matters of the heart are not thought or pondered upon by the brain.Right? If in the heat of the moment,they do get close, then if not acceptable in the current circumstances they are in,I would say its perfectly understandable..! You can't keep away body from soul..Enough already,they need to be with each other NOW!
Thanks for the lovely post and hey!! keep loving and supporting AR! they are gawjusss!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Cannot agree more Pri.. They both just have to listen to their heart for once..n the situation will be sorted out..(Finally Armaan is doing tht...and Riddhima heart is continueosly winning over her brain)... Now After marrying Sid twice but is still thinking about Armaan..does tht is not enuf to prove she hasnt moved on... n how cud she???...How can anyone move on frm her breath n soul... Riddhima relates Armaan with everything and can still feels him.. She is on a verge of realising tht she cannot live without Armaan... and it wud be truely awesome when she'll realise it n AR will be back together...

Great post Pri..

ARians keep supporting AR... love u all out thr 🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kajenfan

when we never accepted SR marriage then how could it be an EMA for us?



I understand your feeling sweetheart..but if we dont agree to the marriage, it doesnt mean that the marriage dint happen na..
the marriage has happened...but inspite of being bond socially, Ridhima cannot fight back her heart her soul that has always belonged to Armaan..
And a connection like AR cannot be overpowerd by a marriage where her heart was not accepting it...
And even if the marriage never remained wats called "marriage", I think EMA still does not be needed..
anyways, this is an argument!
I respect the SR fans views as well..though, for me..AR are inseperable..watever it be..
and to make AR unite, i am sure the CVs dont need to scoop down as low as adultery!
Hope you agree with me...and if you dont its ok..coz atleast we agree that AR are forerver!!!😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: basuvaishali

Pri we dnt need to say anything in defence of AR ! They were,are and will always be in love,irrespective of what they say or do..Matters of the heart are not thought or pondered upon by the brain.Right? If in the heat of the moment,they do get close, then if not acceptable in the current circumstances they are in,I would say its perfectly understandable..! You can't keep away body from soul..Enough already,they need to be with each other NOW!

Thanks for the lovely post and hey!! keep loving and supporting AR! they are gawjusss!😳



vaishu....I can never stop loving AR...they are AR yaa...😳
All I want is just that AR have to unite...and with dignity..
I donno how that shall happen..but it should happen just that way..
BUT THAT WONT MEAN THAT I DO NOT WANT AR...
AR is the reason I watch DMG and their union is the reason I wrote such long posts...😆

and yeah...thanks for replying hun...🤗

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