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I have seen sad scenes in dmg before and shed a tear or two. Lots of AR scene, the time Armaan pulled the prank on Sid, when Armaan got drunk, when Shilpa cried in the locker room...etc. But for the first time I have really felt sad and cried.
I say this to my friends a lot. Never let the show or the people get to you. Or don't jump to conclusion. It's so easy to misunderstand people. Maybe I am a little too optimistic but negative comments don't bother me. You can say whatever you want to me it won't bug me. Unless the person is my friend I don't care what he or she says to me. You have to know someone to make a proper judgment. I won't lose any peace over faulty ones.
So that brings me to today's story. I have this one friend. She is a strong girl, and a very intelligent one also. She hates a certain actor of Dmg. Because she hates the actor and isn't afraid to show it a bit, she managed to get the attention of his fans. I don't condone her actions, never did never will. But that doesn't excuse the people who have taken digs at her. They have used the nastiest words on her, believe me on the nasty The words range from slut, whore, MF.. To my shock they used a whole chat club to do this, a dmg one I believe. (not too sure). The funniest part was because she found out through a friend what was happening people called her a stalker. I am just asking and please do answer..if you or your friend was being bashed would you not check out what was being said.😲
It was hilarious in a sad pathetic way, when the people got caught they were furious that how did my friend dare to insult them by exposing them. I am not sure if I should laugh or cry at such things. Why would you insult someone on the first place, and then lash out at her for exposing you. You don't know the member, yet you didn't think twice before using such nasty words for her. Such a gang bashing of a particular member on an internet forum really shows a lot of things about character. I almost want to applaud such bogus courage. My friend can get mean. But she is honest and she is not a coward. She might hate the actor but she doesn't waste her time hating the people unless they have done something to her. She didn't deserve this.
I am keeping my friend's name out of this along with the " respected" abusers. If you live in the forum you should know what is happening. A quick note to abusers don't worry my friend is not stalking your beautiful thread. She has tons of friends who can can do this job for her. Oh yeah you already know that because you have called them doggies.
To my friend, We love you. I don't agree with everything you say or do, but I know you still have class and you are more intelligent than average Joe. I must look like a horrible friend at the moment, and I probably am one. However I would like you to know you mean a lot and I care for you more than you know.
As to everyone else, this forum often brings out the demon in us. What actions by other members have personally hurt you? or if want to confess what have you done in past to hurt others? How do you feel about these "bashings"?
I feel sick seeing the KSG/ KW bashing. But I realize that they are on the public spot light. It is a part of there job to get criticized. If you make fun of KW I am not going to lose sleep over it. I won't cry. I doubt they will cry to bed at night because people were mean. On the other hand we are just regular people. We haven't signed up for such things. Why bash each other?
Also please remain respectful. This is a post about DMG and the members. It is not to bash anyone. Simply point out what WE as a group have been doing wrong, and why? What could you personally do to make it better.
My reply to these questions: I do not bash. And when my friends bash I become the moral police and tell them to stop.
I say this to my friends a lot. Never let the show or the people get to you. Or don't jump to conclusion. It's so easy to misunderstand people. Maybe I am a little too optimistic but negative comments don't bother me. You can say whatever you want to me it won't bug me. Unless the person is my friend I don't care what he or she says to me. You have to know someone to make a proper judgment. I won't lose any peace over faulty ones.
So that brings me to today's story. I have this one friend. She is a strong girl, and a very intelligent one also. She hates a certain actor of Dmg. Because she hates the actor and isn't afraid to show it a bit, she managed to get the attention of his fans. I don't condone her actions, never did never will. But that doesn't excuse the people who have taken digs at her. They have used the nastiest words on her, believe me on the nasty The words range from slut, whore, MF.. To my shock they used a whole chat club to do this, a dmg one I believe. (not too sure). The funniest part was because she found out through a friend what was happening people called her a stalker. I am just asking and please do answer..if you or your friend was being bashed would you not check out what was being said.😲
It was hilarious in a sad pathetic way, when the people got caught they were furious that how did my friend dare to insult them by exposing them. I am not sure if I should laugh or cry at such things. Why would you insult someone on the first place, and then lash out at her for exposing you. You don't know the member, yet you didn't think twice before using such nasty words for her. Such a gang bashing of a particular member on an internet forum really shows a lot of things about character. I almost want to applaud such bogus courage. My friend can get mean. But she is honest and she is not a coward. She might hate the actor but she doesn't waste her time hating the people unless they have done something to her. She didn't deserve this.
I am keeping my friend's name out of this along with the " respected" abusers. If you live in the forum you should know what is happening. A quick note to abusers don't worry my friend is not stalking your beautiful thread. She has tons of friends who can can do this job for her. Oh yeah you already know that because you have called them doggies.
To my friend, We love you. I don't agree with everything you say or do, but I know you still have class and you are more intelligent than average Joe. I must look like a horrible friend at the moment, and I probably am one. However I would like you to know you mean a lot and I care for you more than you know.
As to everyone else, this forum often brings out the demon in us. What actions by other members have personally hurt you? or if want to confess what have you done in past to hurt others? How do you feel about these "bashings"?
I feel sick seeing the KSG/ KW bashing. But I realize that they are on the public spot light. It is a part of there job to get criticized. If you make fun of KW I am not going to lose sleep over it. I won't cry. I doubt they will cry to bed at night because people were mean. On the other hand we are just regular people. We haven't signed up for such things. Why bash each other?
Feel free to share any other story. Try not to use people's name. I don't want anyone to feel victimized.
Also please remain respectful. This is a post about DMG and the members. It is not to bash anyone. Simply point out what WE as a group have been doing wrong, and why? What could you personally do to make it better.
My reply to these questions: I do not bash. And when my friends bash I become the moral police and tell them to stop.
** MODS don't close it please. We can only improve when we are aware of what we do wrong.**
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