so, I disagree on the first half and totally agree on the 2nd part!
I dont think Naku was overwhelmed with public proposing....Her reaction would have been the same - running away- whether in private or public...Reason being that she didnt wanna hurt Dutta and doesnt wnana see him go back to the same grounds that she had a tough time getting him back from.....so, I dnt think it was public display that bothered her...On the contrary she wuld have been more touched by this gesture...she know Dutta to understand his action...and when it comes to love, Naku always stands her ground, whether its in front of the whoel family or on the face of death...she doesnt shy away from her love!
But I am 100% with u that Babi shld be the one to fix this....She had painted Naku black bcoz of the wolves and leeches around her...but now Naku has dutta to protect her...she has found a home and a hubby who wuld lay his life for her but wuldnt let anyone touch her....(recollecting the dialogue - "aaj mere saamne meri patni ko choo ke dikha, nahi to keh de apne aadmiyoan se, ki dutta ko bhoon de"....so, Now, Babi has no reason to let Naku keep on the paint....she shld be the one to talk with Dutta and tell him that why she was compelled to give this life to Naku...Thats what Naku has seen since her teens/childhood and hence she is used to it....but I can clarify things in ur mind....Dutta wuld totally udnerstand a mom's concern!!