Abhi and his out of control anger

Originally posted by: sauris

Abhis out of control anger shows his immaturity.They are showing him as a 22 year old whoese anger over powers rational thinking.Ihope post leap they show a matured abhi who can control his anger when provoked.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Once again the writers have shown Abhi display poor anger management skills. He had absolutely no reason to hit Mili. She was trying to provoke him and he fell for it. The whole situation actually made Abhi look bad, not Mili. I am disappointed as well to hear the cheering from other members that slapping Mili was a good thing. If a person needs to be a psychiatrist or is problematic, there numerous ways to address the problem without engaging in such animalistic and barbaric behaviors.

I have read that slapping Mili will knock some sense into her. The answer is did it? Did it knock sense into anyone or does it simply lead to fear an intimidation? Those who are cheering on this behavior, look at what you are promoting - slapping someone to resolve a situation. That's shameful.

The Abhi I know would have have lost it but he would have left a long time ago - the minute he knew he had a lost support from Simi. In fact, he should have left a year ago but tragically the writers of this show are so in love with showing a selfish Simi as these are characteristics they admire, we've had to endure rubbish of this kind.

Originally posted by: kalabhi

Laila what more do u expect out of Kanika and Astha, they have made simi , neetu , anita and Anuj selfish, mili crazy, manju crazy, and RS has also joined the gang. Do u think they will spare Abhi. U certainly seem to still have expectations out of them!!!

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Where have I EVER shown that I have had any expectations out of these people? Instead I have pointed out the pathetic nature of their writing. I think you need to be directing this post to Ramas, MeySimi and the whole of IF who have been expecting improvements on this show over the past six months. I can provide you the link of the posts where you yourself hit "LIKE" when such a post was written.

Originally posted by: MeySimi

Thanks for redirecting to me.

There is nothing wrong in hoping for a change. For having loved the initial show, I have my own reasons to desire for something better from the show organisers.

Its difficult to watch a show without getting involved. And once involved, I have my own reasons to justify it. Its my choice to expect a change, to get involved, to justify and its entirely my opinion. Its not necessary to remain consistent about likes and dislikes. I loved Simi for my own reasons, i chose to justify her behaviour as I perceive and after a level of watching this character I dont appreciate her behaviour towards Abhi. Its based on my level of tolerance to start despising a character.

There is no hard and fast rule that I too should have got frustrated by Simi's behaviour way back in December as Laila puts it. She could dislike her from January. I can dislike her from June. Its my choice. as for spending hours to justify, its because whatever I do, i involve myself passionately. Its an open forum to write one's opinion. Many people agree, many disagree. Its not about winning an argument about a concept or theory. Each individual presents herself or himself according to their state of mind.

I am tired at the way things are. i am sick of this storyline. I feel betrayed and cheated for loving this show to heart. I feel sad the way women are depicted in this story. I am angry at the way Abhi is treated by his wife and her family. But I can still hope for a change, if I believe in miracles, if I believe people realise mistakes over a period of time, if a new writer joins the Zee programming team, if there may be a new producer, or the old director comes back. Whats wrong in hoping. I will.