Originally posted by: simi_1
How can we stand shoulder to shoulder, when we cannot see eye to eye within our own circle of friends and more so families
When extended families became nuclear families, due to less tolerance towards their near and dear, lack of respect and rising ego, the partition started right then and there
when one sibling getting into another siblings room is so territorial, did we not sow the root for boundaries.
Belive that this drop of water that we put in our homes create the ripple effect either in a negative or positive way to shape our futures
Think one problem is we spend too much time looking into our past to point fingers and dont learn from our mistakes and making the necessry changes marching forward
just my 2 cents
@rth, @4teen, loved your point of views
It depends on ones upbringing and adhering to the rituals and customs, which make us respect elders and live/work within a framwork of decent society. Lack of respect and rising ego,both are age old problems and we live with them.
In India, within the middle calss families, we still have the joint family systems. Having said this, with affluent classes, where both parents are working and children learn to grow up individually and alone, the lack of intolerance creeps in. With children of even middle class getting good education and early jobs, sense of freedom and independence grows on them, leading them to brach out of the joint family, owing to various factors.
I take this as a boon coz I see a vast self-dependant, carefree, confident and free-thinking individuals emerging out in a new society, rubbing soulders with a different class of people in society. It is this section of masses, which need to understand and take the responsibility of changing the shape n face of India, in future.
One has to advance without losing the touch with past. That's why an IAS aspirant needs to know all about India, its history and geography.
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