Sid: Scared or Selfish (Ridz topic)

Before AR fans start calling Siddhant selfish and mean, think about the situation from a husband's point of view. Sid was ready to divorce Ridz, but she insisted on saving their marriage and she was the one that chose him OVER Armaan. Whether she chose Sid out of love or duty isn't the question. If she chose Sid because it was her duty, isn't it her duty now to maintain the relationship she felt was worth saving? How can she ignore Sid after she was the one that wanted to remain in the marriage. I would be very very happy if Armaan and Ridz got back together but she needs to pick...because Sid isn't selfish, he's her husband. If not his wife's love isn't he atleast entitled to his wife's care and or sympathy?

Exactly... Riddhima had a choice between Armaan and Sid. But she had chosen to stay with Sid and continue her marriage life. Sid never forced her into anything and neither did he ever force his rights on her. He always understood that shes not ready to take that big step in life and he said he'll always wait for her..... I really dun think Sid's being selfish at all... I mean, these days boy-friends are soooo friggin possesive or become pretty jealous when there girlfriends talk to their ex... Sid after all is her husband. She can't always take advantage of sid's "understanding" nature.... Theres a limit to everything and shes past his patients. No husband is willing to let there wife go near or even keep in touch with somebody that they shared a very close relationship and sid Always understood AR relationship... but, she can't always Keep Sid at the back of her head... or like what sid said ' end of the list'......

Originally posted by: meeti05

Exactly... Riddhima had a choice between Armaan and Sid. But she had chosen to stay with Sid and continue her marriage life. Sid never forced her into anything and neither did he ever force his rights on her. He always understood that shes not ready to take that big step in life and he said he'll always wait for her..... I really dun think Sid's being selfish at all... I mean, these days boy-friends are soooo friggin possesive or become pretty jealous when there girlfriends talk to their ex... Sid after all is her husband. She can't always take advantage of sid's "understanding" nature.... Theres a limit to everything and shes past his patients. No husband is willing to let there wife go near or even keep in touch with somebody that they shared a very close relationship and sid Always understood AR relationship... but, she can't always Keep Sid at the back of her head... or like what sid said ' end of the list'......

And Sid was right.. they can't live there life according to Armaans' mood...there relationship shouldn't even be based on that. I think Sid's behavour is justified and its about Time, Mrs Modi understands it tooooo.....

100% agree with every single word. I am so upset to see Sid in this state. Why does he always have to be put at the end because he is so good and understanding. The problem with Ridz is because she feels that Sid understands everything she is in her comfort zone and doesnt feel the need to worry about her marriage but the truth is that she indeed needs to concentrate on her marriage if she intends to keep her marriage intact. Sid has done everything and more to understand and help Armaan and he is not asking for anything in return as he loves Armaan as a brother so naturally he hurts when he sees Armaan like this but at the same time he is Ridz husband and he should not be ignored. He is too much of a wonderful person to be tossed aside and picked up when needed. Ridz needs to understand when to help a friend and when to draw the line and realise that her place is with her husband and especially as there marriage did not happening in normal circumstances. Their story is starting after marriage so why cant Ridz see how much Sid is hurting inside and longs for his wifes undivided attention let alone affection.

Originally posted by: kasu_mayur4eva

Before AR fans start calling Siddhant selfish and mean, think about the situation from a husband's point of view. Sid was ready to divorce Ridz, but she insisted on saving their marriage and she was the one that chose him OVER Armaan. Whether she chose Sid out of love or duty isn't the question. If she chose Sid because it was her duty, isn't it her duty now to maintain the relationship she felt was worth saving? How can she ignore Sid after she was the one that wanted to remain in the marriage. I would be very very happy if Armaan and Ridz got back together but she needs to pick...because Sid isn't selfish, he's her husband. If not his wife's love isn't he atleast entitled to his wife's care and or sympathy?

wow lovely post.👏👏👏👏.yes I agree if this is how Ridz is going 2 be then let Armaan have her..I am sure then AR will only be thinking and feeling guilty abt SID...as they both cannot build a happy life after using and destroying a good person with no fault of his.........😕