Kriya ??

Originally posted by: gees

Hey pals , didnt we expect this to happen, that once krish learns abt prats chaotic past, he wuld cold shoulder her jus as we were sure that when prats wuld learn of krishs innocence, she wuld warm up towards him ? so it wont be wrong on our part to believe that kriya will eventually emerge together as never before.!!! But for an intense relationship to take place it has to be equal in all respects, so its natural that prats will get wat she gave in the first innings to krish--open rebukes, hatrd ,taunts, cold vibes and distrust-she was aided by her family in this harsh treatment of krishna but the man bore it all with a gr8 heart and spirit--he never allowed anything to weaken his love or respect for her--NOW its krishnas turn and after the hell he has gone through we cant expect him to jus let it pass --so far he had recievd nothing in the name of love frm his marriage --then how the hell can he be his old self with prats until he also doesnt recieve the same kind of unconditional luv frm her--if thakurs hate prats then saxenas are no better wid krish----i feel everythg in the relationship is goin tit for tat, much as we had anticipated--- wat led us to believe that it wont be so, were the articles talking abt a quick surprise kriya union- otherwise logic demands wat is happening !!! as of now the only thing that is worrying is the thakurs ploy of doin away wid prats--earlier she was safe in the enemy camp wid krish around her but now wid him in retreating into such a reclusive mood its a bit difficult to handle but deep down we all kno that he will bounce back to protect her cum wat may--!!!!!! cheers for our man krish 👍🏼

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Gees,

Again the comparisons between sax and thakurs is illogical. Sax did'nt like what krishna did to them and their daughter leading up to the marriage of kiray. Then they changed their opinion about krish seeing Krish's behavior on the other hand Thakurs never accepted Partigya as their DIL and will never change their mind about her or sax. They think of them as a lower cast misfit into their thakur status and will never embrace them, Sax have no choice but to embrace Thakurs even though the way they were humiliated so badly by thakurs, but being as parents of a girl they have to always bow down in front of her susral and damad eventually, as this the tradition of our society.

As far as Krish is behavior towards Pratigya, this was expected, I think kriya should resolve their misunderstanding themselves.

Originally posted by: Aamnalicious

absolutely right dear there is no comparison btw thaurs and saxena's saxena's are far far better than them and about krishna i think that prats was right when she said to him that thora tou wishvaas kar ke dekh lo with due respect i am saying this that krishna loves her a lot but the trust factor is weak and every relationship stands at the strong foundation of trust and love both so i think now the time is to build trust btw them😊

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Gees, great post.😊

Well Krishna isn't going to fall at Prats feet just because she now knows her feelings for her husband. He is human, therefore he will treat her like she has treated him because he is unable to believe in her.

Gradually that will change, and together they will have a new relationship - different from before because it's a new and fresh start for them both.

As for their families, well the Saxes have always taken their cues from Prats, so we shall have to see how they treat Krishna. But they never did extend first, even though he is the damadh...except for nainaji...as far as I can recall in two instances she told off Aarushi for disrespecting Krishna, she said he is the damadh of this house, your sister's husband.....

The Thakurs, to certain extend had accepted Prats as their DIL - their version and their rules but she certainly antagonised them and now they want to kill her!...Amma disliked her from the moment she found out Prats did not let her son touch her on the wedding night.....what mother would be happy knowing that?!.....Don't forget as far as the Thakurs are concerned this is a love marriage, Prats is in love with Krishna...evidence is against her...she asked for the shagun to be sent, she took it herself from SS's hands and so on.......Even SS treated her cordially, took her side against Amma...until the fake preg.....that was a mess both Kriya at fault but Prats took a step further, she revealed bedroom secrets. In that moment SS knew she did not care for Krish at all and his feelings changed for her until now he is in outright cohoots with Amma to kill her......

Both Prats and Krish are at faults, they both could have acted differently to make sure their in-laws loved them but didn't........really the whole point of it was so that things are more difficult for them...that Prats didn't have anyone strong in that household to support her,...that Krishna had no one he could turn to at his sasural when he needed their succour to know that Prats had not used him......

So the new relationship they forge now will be strong, they will have adversaries, but they will be strong and sure and people around them may not like it but they cannot ignore it.

Hi Dreams

This was posted by Shabz in one of the other thread be Mera, I liked the reasoning and thought to post here as aresponse.

"To be honest i dont see any double standards by the saxenas...there is a huge difference between both proposals and any parent would willingly accept someone like Aman over krishna in a flash.

You have listed points which makes their decision of rejecting Krishna even more clear and just!

1. Krishna was a Takur, gunda, gawar, jaheel in their minds.- this perception wasn't in their minds, Krishna WAS and probably still is a gunda!! If he wasn't a gunda he wouldn't have had a huge rep as he did. He was known for his temperament and feared by all and I don't think being Sajan singh's son was the only reason for people fearing him. He showed people that he was indeed his fathers son. Let's take the first meeting between Aman and Krishna for example'Krishna ORDERED Aman to pass him water, Aman refused and Krishna in retaliation overturned the table and threatened him. Now anyone who wasn't a gunda and jaheel would no.1 ask for the water politely and no.2 would not retaliate as he did on being refused water, sure there might be a few words exchanged but they wouldn't go on about their rep and their status of being a takurs son!!!
2. Prof. thought Krishna was a great guy when he first met him, praised him to his face and to his family- if we look back to the initial episodes the prof was deceived by Krishna. Krishna made his friends misbehave with a veg seller so that he could come in and save the day. He initiated a convo with the prof by pretending he was an ex student of his. Krishna acted nice in front of him because his sole motive was to know more about pratigya. The prof takes everything at face value so when he sees someone being nice he IS going to praise them.
3. But the minute he started following Prats he became a villain in their eyes. Did they ever get to know him or even want to? Nope!- Krishna became the villain once he broke pratigya's engagement publicly and threatened the groom. The antics that followed just cemented the family's views. If pratigya had shown an inkling of attraction or liking towards him than maybe their behaviour towards him may have been different but their daughter made it loud and clear that she was not interested. If your daughter was stalked and threatened would you not think of the stalker as being a villain? I would!!!!
4. He hasn't been invited into the home for a meal. The one he got on the terrace, he had to ask Prats if she cared whether he ate or not- this isn't entirely their fault. Pratigya herself showed no love or respect towards Krishna so they didn't make much of an effort towards him. Up until the 2^nd pooja they had only seen his violent and obsessive side and that is a turn off for any parent.

Granted Krishna is a gem but I believe he has become the way he is only after marriage!!! He is slowly changing and pratigya has fallen in love with him!! the saxena's have also acknowledged this change and have accepted him!!