Has anyone ever bothered to take into consideration Riddima's side of the story or ever try and look behind the stern/ strict emotionless RIDDHIMA MODI before deciding whats fair and whats not ??
I've come across inumerable posts on the forum regarding Riddhima's selfishness and her undecisiveness which i think is extremely unjust.
This woman has fought the world..for a man whom in many people's eyes today deserves someone better ( because ArSh have electrifying chemistry..)
LETS TAKE ONE LOOK AT WHAT RIDDHIMA's GOING THROUGH AT THIS POINT IN TYM ...
Deep under the layers and layers of insensitivity .. there lies an emotional, caring aand lovable Riddhima who is sturggling to come to the forefront . She is going through an INTERNAL CONFLICT with herself ... on one hand she owes her life to SID who nearly rescued her from dying.. and on the other hand lies her happiness,her love, her life .. ARMAAN ....
ppl need to understand that it is not easy for riddhima to see someone whom she has taken a bullet for getting intimate with someone else .
Now one might say " wat about the her b'day night and abt her intimacy with sid??... that is not fair to Armaan right ??"
Because of this internal conflict shes undergoing .. Riddhima is trying her level best to DO WAT IS RIGHT and trying to let her mind govern her heart .... she is attempting to develop feelings for SID and make their marriage work ... BECAUSE shes trying to follow the rules and do what is expected of her .....
BUT AT THE SAME TIME
Her heart aches wen she sees armaan with someone else as the sensitive riddhima inside her cannot accept the fact that she cannot have ARMAAN ....
ppl are also saying that Riddhima is a B**** because she is undecided and wants both SID and ARMAAn..
Riddhima has always wanted one person only ...and we noe who the person is .... The very fact that she is alive .. she owes to SID ..
BUT THE REASON SHE WANTS TO BE ALIVE is ARMAAN...
She is not trying to kill Armaan or kill SID ... infact the only person she is being unfair to is herself ...
ITS NOT EASY TO
take a bullet for someone
stand up with him even though the person who gave birth to her are against him ...
fight her father and go all the way to panchgani only to be with him ...and to let him noe that no matter wat ... she is always there ......that SHE LOVES HIM
stick by his side even whem her doesnt remember an iota of their love
convince urself that the man u loved has written to u to forget all about him ...
IT IS NOT EASY TO GO THROUGH SOOO MANY HEART BREAKS AND STILL CHALLENGE THE NORMS OF THE SOCIETY
ppl say that ridz will loose the respect they had for her if she goes back to armaan ... but i say just the opposite... i will gain respect for her .. for her courage to listen to her heart once more .....
( SORRY PPL .... i noe most of it is argueable ... but it was just an outburst ) ....
LUV U ARMAAN AND RIDDHIMA ... I LOVE U BOTH .... FOR THE SACRIFICES U HAVE MADE FOR EACH OTHER AND FOR THE UNDYING LOVE U HAVE FOR EACH OTHER IN UR HEARTS ...
P.S. if anyone has ever noticed riddhima only tells sid that she wants to be with him or that he is a good husband or that she is happy with him only wen he feeeeellss insecure .... just to try and convince herself and to convince him that their married life is perfectly normal... it never comes from her without any provocation............
Where as her jealousy toward ArSh or her conversations with Armaan come from within her heart ... Armaan has never to raise the topic about Shilpa .. or talk about shilpa in order for her to say what she feells it comes just like that ...
and
THAT IS WHY WE LOOVEE U TO DA CORE ARMAAN RIDDHIMA....
Edited by priyanka94 - 16 years ago