Feel bad for Sid at times.

Originally posted by: deepaa27ar

Saw the precap today . The way Riddhima was stressing that Shilpa is not a proper girl for Armaan and Sid's reaction to it was quite sad. Sid is longing for Riddhima's love . He loved Tammanna , but she had to move because of her commitments and finally Riddhima came to his life. Both started disliking each other. But when Sid found about Riddhima's past he started helping her . Ultimately ,circumstances forced them to marry. Riddhima was partially responsible. Again ,Armaan came back. After a long struggle Sid and Riddhima decided to stay together .(Of course Armaan helped her.) But still, Riddhima is struggling to move on. She respects her husband but does not have much feelings for him. She is indirectly hurting everybody. If she had moved away from Sid's life when he filed for divorce may be everyone would have been happy. But Sid would have surely lost confidence in love to a great extent . But now , Riddhima is hurting every body(Armaan, Sid and herself). Sid gave a good reply to her today. Infact , he got so hurt that he made her realise that she is not thinking much about him. Sid should think about Riddhima and take a good decision. Infact, if Riddhima has decided to move on with Sid, she should have done with full justice to herself. She should have been more clear that she can lead a life with Sid. It would have been very difficult for any women. But when she went ahead with that, she should have been convinced enough , else she should have not gone ahead with the decision.

She is so confused. She is compromising. She is more worried about Armaan.That hurts Sid. Sid always tries is level best to please Riddhima and keep her happy. He is feeling bad when Ridhhima is struggling but still is living on hopes because he is a positive person like Shilpa. Sid is also worried about Armaan but he is finding a good solution. Riddhima is goofing up further by showing more soft spot towards Armaan and ultimately that is further irritating both Armaan,Sid. She is not solving Armaan's problem. She just wants Armaan to forget her and move on but is not finding a solution. Sid is very much sure ,that if Armaan gets a new life he can move ahead. Sid is solving the problems in a very positive manner. Riddhima is worried about her emotions and making her self guilty and complicating the situation further. She wants to please Armaan as well as Sid.Both Armaan and Sid love Riddhima but once if she continues playing hide and seek with both of them, they will get vexed totally.She is confusing herself and poor Armaan as well as Sid. She wants have a cake and eat it too.She wants to go ahead with Sid too. If she wants a good life with Sid, she should never mind Shilpa and Armaan's closeness and leave Armaan and Shilpa alone and move away . The moment when Armaan feels comfortable and decides to go ahead with Shilpa everything will automatically become Ok. She starts disliking anyone easily. She gets into conclusions fastly about someone or before knowing someone and finally after getting to know about them she feels guilty. She has doing this right from the beginning. She is good women at heart. But she is spoiling her life. She should first observe people, know about their positives and negatives this can give her a good clarity and then decide . She is basically a nice person at heart but this particular quality always over shadows her positive qualities. She is quite impulsive. She lacks clarity to some extent and this is the reason of her unhappiness. Honestly,She cannot even live without Sid. She will feel more guilty when she hurts him. She will always think about Sid too. What Sid has to do is leave her alone for some time or stay away from her for some days so that she gets a good clarity and starts feeling his absence and she will slowly start knowing what she has to do.

Sid should take this decision boldly. Sid should do for his good and for Riddhima so that she will know how to make herself happy. Heart of hearts Sid respects Riddhima and hope his decision should be mature on how to handle the situation .

Well Written My friend :)