Originally posted by: vansa_bali
Your post well written but i dont agree with any of the points uve made.
Firstly, ridhima did announce that she loves sid (in her head when she wears n presents the laungerie sid gave her.. u shld watch that scene again)
Secondly, i disagree with the fact that girls can only luv one at a time.. otherwise, y r girl calld multi taskers? girls have the quality of being able to think rationally and decide what is right, n that is wt ridhima has dutifully dun by wanting to work on her relationship
Thirdly, she is defintiely working on her relationship whole heartedly ( n the boundaries she puts r her nature becuz she put them for armaan too.. dat 2 for 2 whole yrs). she has been working on her relaitonship whole heartrdly becuz she hasnt thought of armaan even once while she was with sid ever since they decided to start afresh with their relationship!
she is able to understand armaan's pain because she knows him like all his other frends, who know of the amount he loved her.
This is why i believe that Ridhima has gotten over armaan
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Thanks for replying dear and thanks for not bashing..thats really sweet of you......it was good to read your view points and you really tried to justify it according to your views. Yet, as you, even I wud like to point out somethngs...firstly, if a girl is a multi tasker than she is not thinking with her heart..and in that case she is a person who doesnt have the warmth to LOVE anyone..and I dont think Ridzy is or was a multi-tasker..coz she had a heart that used to go crazy and cud not think of anybody else but armaan..so she is not a character who is so cold that she can love 2 people at the same time..she has shown her madness and obsession for armaan time and again..be it taking a bullet for him or be it going against her own dad and searching for her Armaan like crazy...so she potrays a girl who has a heart where only one guy can abide at one time...
secondly, the boundaries she pput for Armaan was becoz she wanted to save something for after marriage for him...most of the girls in india do that...if they love a guy, they wait and put limits to their relation till they get married to them...and ridzy did the same..
Though, if you go back to old DMG, there have been great passionate moments between AR that SR have not had even after marriage...remember the neck kiss during KASH times, or the FE passionate hug during KASU times...they were natural since both of tehm were in love but wearing Sid's lingerie was more of a compulsion since she wanted to PROVE that she was Sid's..///in a relation, nobody needs to prove anything...SHE NEVER proved her love to Armaan by going to this level....
Anyways, thansk for your reply...Pri loved it anyways....😳