Is this 'FAIRY EPISODE' a trailor?

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

Remember, the Dadibua track was just a trailor to the main "rift track", I have a strong feeling that this track is just a trailor to what is coming up next. Khushi is understanding and does not want to do the Fairy role, wants to tear her dress so as to stop all means to her playing the "fairy". She is Sadhna's goodness or good fate, it can be a mother like Sdahna who can give birth to such a daughter.

I have not seen the episode. I understand Tamanna will be sad, but is she happy for Khushi? I feel she will be, after her parents make her understand that she should feel happy for Khushi, her sister getting the role. I hope they do make Tamanna understand in a proper way and not use examples which will make Tamanna feel inferior or make her feel that Khushi is inferior to her. These small teachings in life help to build or destroy a child's future.

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think Tammy is a kid ... and now its Ragini's role here. She must explain Tamanna that this is life ... and she needs to face it and other pesky kids with a smile and courage. Ragini dont need to be upset over this ... atleast not infront of Tammy or Khushi ... because this will renforce on Tammy that SOMETHING WAS SURELY NOT RIGHT ... and Khushi might feel that she came between Ragini and Tammy's joy ... and this incident might leave a lasting imprint on the children's memories ... NOT ONLY THAT BUT KAUSHI MIGHT USE IT AS A LEVERAGE TO INCITE FLAMES INSIDE THE KIDS.

Ragini needs to handle this strongly.

As for Khushi ... she is also a child but her maturity is due to her situation and surroundings. She is someone who knows her reality and truth. She knows and is humble to Ragini's blessing on her ... while she knows the condition of her father, and the absense of her mother (infact, Khushi's mother is not absent in an intangible dimention while her father absent in a tangible dimention). The poor thing does not have any other relative other than VASU (who is basically obsessed with her own self) while over this, she have a very pessimistic and dangerous relative in Kaushi's ROOP! ...

The more the problems and challenges in life, the more it makes a person think. Khushi perhaps gets to think more and she needs to give more efforts to really make a sum of her life....

Khushi on the other hand is a kid too ... but with Ragini and Anmol (to excercise CLAIM and call Ma, Papa) ... she doesnt need to think so much.

But basically both are kids ... and such problems need to be solved by the adult in a way which assures the kids that THIS IS NOTHING BIG. NOTHING TO BE STRESSED OR NOTHING OF A KIND WHICH WOULD MAKE SOMEONE LOW OR HIGH.

Infact .. PESKY KIDS are always at school ... I remember some kids made fun of my name in school (in Sweden, Kashif is not a popular name) ... but I knew how to handle them 🤣 (they chose the wrong guy to tease) ... but ofcourse, the confidence and understanding comes from ones parents ... and how they instill the confidence in their children.

I believe Ragini will not let it turn negative. She should be able to handle it. However, I think Kaushi will try to make every use of this opportunity to try and silently sow the seed of a POISON TREE.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

this is a tough time for Ragini and she needs to act, instead of feeling sad. She has to instill positive values in Tamanna and at the same time, see to it that "why is Khushi not eager to play Fairy, as a child of her age should be so happy to play this"...Ragini needs to read the "emptiness of Khushi" and "overconfidence of Tamanna' and direct both to the right level. She has to make sure just as Khushi is thinking of Tamanna's happiness, Tamanna also needs to act so. Or else, this small problem can take bigger dimensions later.

Ragini should handle Tamanna very cautiously and try to bring in the "feeling of staying happy at other'a happiness". Tamanna's coming up to the centre of the semi circle and not feeling happy at Khushi being chosed fairy is an indication of "SELF-MODE". Tamanna is engrossed in her own sadness and has no time to feel for Khushi being chosen. Tamanna is a child and this is the right time to mould her nature. Its high time Ragini shows her the positive side of life and not allow her to progress in this "self-mode" path. Noone can know better than Ragini, that nothing can be actually achieved by self-mode, as she was herself became a of this before.

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Bani, agree with you, looks like it is hint of the problems that can arise for Ragini .It is testing time for her.But by the way they are showing the kids reaction it feels like thay are bringing the same kind of situation what was there for Ragini and Sadhana.Hopefully it will be shown lightly and Tamanna will understand and not carry this feeling on and grow up with it.
If the Cts are going to make this issue big and run Bidaai show on this basis , then Bidaai will be the most unrealistic show for me.Because kids are innocent and pure, they have tantrums, fights, but then forget it.
I am hoping the Cts focus more on Raagini and Anmol relationship, or Alekh becoming better and keep this just by the track.

Other than that there were too many cute scenes of the kids today.The kids are acting really well!👍🏼

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think Ragini should be strong....she has gone through a lot in many ways to have become strong by now...I was hoping she would go and explain Tammy today and boast Khushi's confidence....none of which had happened...She tried to explain when Tammy came in but she didnt do a good jo at all....She should get a lesson or two from Mamaji.

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Bani, agree with you, looks like it is hint of the problems that can arise for Ragini .It is testing time for her.But by the way they are showing the kids reaction it feels like thay are bringing the same kind of situation what was there for Ragini and Sadhana.Hopefully it will be shown lightly and Tamanna will understand and not carry this feeling on and grow up with it.
If the Cts are going to make this issue big and run Bidaai show on this basis , then Bidaai will be the most unrealistic show for me.Because kids are innocent and pure, they have tantrums, fights, but then forget it.
I am hoping the Cts focus more on Raagini and Anmol relationship, or Alekh becoming better and keep this just by the track.

Other than that there were too many cute scenes of the kids today.The kids are acting really well!👍🏼

I dont think the CTs will drag it now only..just I had said, its just a trailor to the main film which will come up later on... u r right, both Tamanna and Khushi are kids. And this is the right time to guide them. Tamanna also loves Khushi, but her love for Khushi is getting masked at her own sadness. Ragini or any other person needs to make Tamanna realise this love for Khushi and make her feel that instead of feeling sad for herself, she should be happy about Khushi. I am sure Ragini will do that, but the "timing" to do this is very important, especially with people like Kaushi and Malti in the vicinity. Before Kaushi can sow the seed of jealousy or insecurity in Tamanna's mind, Ragini has to act fast and before that. because with Tamanna or Khushi, anyone unhappy, its Ragini who will get the pain

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
I dont think the CTs will drag it now only..just I had said, its just a trailor to the main film which will come up later on... u r right, both Tamanna and Khushi are kids. And this is the right time to guide them. Tamanna also loves Khushi, but her love for Khushi is getting masked at her own sadness. Ragini or any other person needs to make Tamanna realise this love for Khushi and make her feel that instead of feeling sad for herself, she should be happy about Khushi. I am sure Ragini will do that, but the "timing" to do this is very important, especially with people like Kaushi and Malti in the vicinity. Before Kaushi can sow the seed of jealousy or insecurity in Tamanna's mind, Ragini has to act fast and before that. because with Tamanna or Khushi, anyone unhappy, its Ragini who will get the pain

Yes, it is upto Raagini to see beyond Tammy's complaints, the big picture of tomorrow.She needs to address it now tactfully or else it will cause a scar in Tammy's mind, which will lead to sour feelings and low confidence in Tammy towards in future, just like Ragini herself suffered.

Seeing the precap, looks like Tammy is going to have more realization of the complexion issue.Kavya was too harsh, esp., when mentioned to her, not to waer the dress which does not suit her color.God, too much for a kid to say and take!!!😡
But did anyone feel this, that the other girls at school teased Tammy were show way too much for their age.This is one thing I am not liking about Bidaai nowadays.

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Purehearts

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: agun
I think Ragini should be strong....she has gone through a lot in many ways to have become strong by now...I was hoping she would go and explain Tammy today and boast Khushi's confidence....none of which had happened...She tried to explain when Tammy came in but she didnt do a good jo at all....She should get a lesson or two from Mamaji.

@highlighted,these are the times Raagini's character falls weak, thanks to Kaushi.🤔This is how is portrayed from the beginning.She needs somebody for support in times like these.It used to be Sadhana or Ranveer before and now it is Anmol.

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luv_sakshi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Tammy is a little kid...naturally she wouldn't have any clue about life's choices, or about confidence building that the teacher was talking to Ragini about...so its quite likely that Tammy will throw a tantrum n feel hurt for not having been selected for the role of a Fairy! Neither did the teacher tell her about this (inspite of promising Ragini to take responsibility) & nor did Ragini let Tammy know ('coz a slight misunderstanding she had on seeing Khushi with the Tiara n Costume)...

This is definately not the time for Ragini to blame herself for things she didn't do deliberately! Both Anmol n Ragini know how much she loves Tammy...so what they need to do is they need to bring Tammy's confidence back...they need to let her know why the teacher decided to choose Khushi for the role over Tammy & why she shouldn't feel bad about it! She'll get loads of opportunities to prove herself in future & participating is more important right? There shouldn't be a scope for sibling rivalry at this tender age...

As far as the whole "You are too dark to be a Fairy" i concerned, well, looks like Kaushi's going to get back to her old fears about discrimination on the basis of colour..well, its important for both parents n teachers to guide children into not discriminating one another on the basis of caste, colour or creed...

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Bani

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: luv_sakshi
Tammy is a little kid...naturally she wouldn't have any clue about life's choices, or about confidence building that the teacher was talking to Ragini about...so its quite likely that Tammy will throw a tantrum n feel hurt for not having been selected for the role of a Fairy! Neither did the teacher tell her about this (inspite of promising Ragini to take responsibility) & nor did Ragini let Tammy know ('coz a slight misunderstanding she had on seeing Khushi with the Tiara n Costume)...

This is definately not the time for Ragini to blame herself for things she didn't do deliberately! Both Anmol n Ragini know how much she loves Tammy...so what they need to do is they need to bring Tammy's confidence back...they need to let her know why the teacher decided to choose Khushi for the role over Tammy & why she shouldn't feel bad about it! She'll get loads of opportunities to prove herself in future & participating is more important right? There shouldn't be a scope for sibling rivalry at this tender age...

As far as the whole "You are too dark to be a Fairy" i concerned, well, looks like Kaushi's going to get back to her old fears about discrimination on the basis of colour..well, its important for both parents n teachers to guide children into not discriminating one another on the basis of caste, colour or creed...

very well said...Tamanna is a child, she needs to be guided. Ragini has to act right now to not only help Tammy to get over this on a positive note but also see why "Khushi" is unlike her age-group girls.Like the other day when Tamanna asked Khushi, does she not have any liking to become a fairy?,Ragini should also see that Khushi develops self confidence and Tammy keeps her confidence high and not get caught with the comments of people like those school kids, Kaushi..

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