THIS SHOW is an insult to THE KIDS

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Posted: 15 years ago

kids are very intelligent they are not dumb each and every child in this show is shown dumb, i was very intelligent as a child, the people i have grown up wid knew everything about the world around them, had all the social values and knew everything about life! and these kids who are married do not have any sense! in nearly every episode they convey how dumb kids are!! it is completely ridiculous! in the 1500s kids were working as laborers, they use to earn and the family use to be an economic unit, in india kids use to get married and soon enough they use to be responsible and girls use to get pregnant at the age of 17, and here anandi cries and does not understand anything, jagya acts like an idiot and now Shyam has cum up with this new theory that how kids can gett illusionalised give me a break! kids being pampered is a new concept, everyone is a product of their own society, if a kid is brought up in a society where being married and being responsible is they key then y wud the be more immature then the kids who dun even have any responsibility?? in one sentence this show sucks!😡🤢

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dsupriya

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Posted: 15 years ago

I am sorry I dont agree with you there. I have seen with my own eyes how some kids can be easily influenced. how their mental state can be disturbed. Please for heavens sake stop comparing yourself and few cases that you see to a general theory. Also what Shyam said is not false. Because even I have seen in my family when someone jokes that someone is meant to marry someone they tend to take it seriously.

I feel that this show has brought out this very sensitively and I think people like you who are ignorant of real facts should be made aware of such things.

Sorry If I have been too harsh.

ps: I am not new to this forum, though have never posted any post here rather read then silently.

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sas_s

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Posted: 15 years ago

I completely agree with dsupriya. This show is more about children who are more vunerable and not with the well-to-do kids in metro. I have also seen these things in my childhood in villages whenever I used to visit my grandparents.

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Posted: 15 years ago

so r u telling me that kids in metros r much more intelligent then the kids in the village? even though the kids in the village have so much more repsonsibility and restrictions?? i highly doubt that! anandi acts like a 5yr old despite being in yr 10, she does not act like bhendni! Jagya is even more annoying and is actually a 4yr old, who is actually grown up in this show??

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disha_sen

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Posted: 15 years ago

i completely agree wid dsupriya n sas.
what shyam said is right. i personally know of someone who from his very childhood was told that he is stupid n the thing was said just for a joke n now that thing is so much settled in his mind that it has lead him to think of himself as stupid. childs mind is very sensitive n whatever u say to him/her effects them in a way. Shyam gave a very good example of Meera whose mother had in a playful mood told her that krishna is her husband and that led her to u noe what.
N yes children raised in metro r much more intelligent coz they r given education which shapes their mind in the right way whereas kids in villages r illeterate n responsibility can hardly change their intelligence level. village kids are much more simple n being illeterate they often fail to distinguish between right and wrong.
I agree that the show in between wid jagyas remarraige track had lost some of its meaning but what shyam said yesterday was 100% correct n i feel that after this the track is again regaining its meaning.

infact i think instead of reading these, u shuld again see and listen to yesterdays episode where shyam plays the most important part in conveying the message. i think if u listen to shyams dialogue again all ur questions and doubts will be answered. i totally loved shyams part. he gave a very important message which adults shuld take care of.

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anwesha rath

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: disha_sen
i completely agree wid dsupriya n sas.
what shyam said is right. i personally know of someone who from his very childhood was told that he is stupid n the thing was said just for a joke n now that thing is so much settled in his mind that it has lead him to think of himself as stupid. childs mind is very sensitive n whatever u say to him/her effects them in a way. Shyam gave a very good example of Meera whose mother had in a playful mood told her that krishna is her husband and that led her to u noe what.
N yes children raised in metro r much more intelligent coz they r given education which shapes their mind in the right way whereas kids in villages r illeterate n responsibility can hardly change their intelligence level. village kids are much more simple n being illeterate they often fail to distinguish between right and wrong.
I agree that the show in between wid jagyas remarraige track had lost some of its meaning but what shyam said yesterday was 100% correct n i feel that after this the track is again regaining its meaning.

infact i think instead of reading these, u shuld again see and listen to yesterdays episode where shyam plays the most important part in conveying the message. i think if u listen to shyams dialogue again all ur questions and doubts will be answered. i totally loved shyams part. he gave a very important message which adults shuld take care of.

i agree...kids learn frm adults only..responsibilites dnt give thm the power to differentiate btwn right and wrong..they take their own decisions based on what they see..and what they choose to see..what shyam said yest were meaningful dialogues after a very long time on this show..barring the panchayat track..education gives u the power to make a choice..prob in rural areas is tht they dnt get this choice..

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Posted: 15 years ago

yes so r u telling me that parents and ur general atmosphere does not give u any knowledge? puhlease

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anwesha rath

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Posted: 15 years ago

please tell me what knowledge ur talking abt..girls in rurual areas are taught only and only tht they have to be handling homes..tht their sole aim in life is to please their in laws and have kids..am not saying this out of any bias..its the truth and i ahve seen it..boys are explained abt how they are superior to girls coz they are boys..period..there is nothing abt equality of gnders,nothing abt gaining independance and nothing abt educational qualifications..responsibilities add to the personality,yes..bt which responsibilities??as a kid,the only responsibility shud be to educate themselves..and here,tht is the one thing tht is not taught..

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disha_sen

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Posted: 15 years ago

i totally agree wid anu

girls in rural areas learn from their parents n surrounding only abt their responsibilities of being a bahu n all. those are practical knowledge which every girl gets whether its in a village or town but in towns, girls get educated to differentiate between rite n wrong as their mind is shaped that way by knowledge but in villages its only abt how to be a gud bahu....a good wife....a gud mother.
girls are taught to be slaves n be just home bound wid no freedom. they are taught to take in all insults and pain coz they are girls n be there only to serve their mother in laws, husbands n children or in laws. Atleast Thats what they are taught by their parents n surroundings in villages n if that is what u call knowledge, then i m very sorry that its very much WRONG.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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so ho cum anandi is not a responsible bahu?? and y is she is so naive about the society she lives in? she is no kid she is 16!! i do not see any maturity in her! gosh peeps r soo biased! this 16yr old girl understands no responsibility or does not understand her own social structures she just cries and plays stupid pranks, how the hell anandi is product of her own time? i dun even understand if people actually understand my post!

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