I don't hate Natasha!! 😲 But like Rucha and someone else said ( i think it was Shriya 😳) before: Hugging, kissing and acting like lovers does not do much for the respect some people expect us to be give to Natasha. Also, I think she's a really sweet girl, who has been very very fair to Khanak so far. For that i admire her tremendously! 😃
But, Shaan married Khanak. Between death and life, he chose to live (which any sane person should do 😆, even if it meant marrying a stranger). As a young woman, I don't think it shows any self-dignity to cling to a guy, especially when he's married no matter what the circumstances were.
No one is 'against' ShaanTash, it's just wait six months. No one is saying years! There is nothing wrong with them meeting each other and acting like close friends. The divorce isn't final yet, so show some respect to marriage which is considered a sacred bond as far as i understand. 😳 All those mantras chanted when you get married are said for a reason, not just to make marriage seem elaborate right!?!? 😊
So many people even today have arranged marriages. There may be respect and some sort of understanding between those couples, but not love usuaaly...... because it's arranged. 😆 So does that make those marriages void.... no! Something of that sort applies to ShaNak too. Shaan could have chosen to die because he could never fill anyone else's maan but Natasha. That's true true love is it not? But that's silly and stupid to expect because love like that doesn't exist and it's not normal to act that way either.
But Shaan is responsible for what he did and he needs to take responsibility for that. I'm not asking him to declare his undying love for Khanak just because he is married to her...... god no! Just give her the respect she deserves as your wife for six months. Everyone in such a situation deserves some respect.
I don't think Shaan was fully responsible for Suraj's death, but he is to blame to some extent here. So, seeing the tragedy that Khanak is still facing, he should acknowledge that! Then when he cuts his ties with her, he can romance whoever he wants to. But after the divorce is final please, NOT before.
I see that from Natasha's perspective she isn't doing anything wrong and her older sister is no help because she is encouraging such antics. But personally, i just feel that ShaanTash should wait six months and then go back to the way things were. It doesn't reflect well on a girls character to openly romance a guy even if he has filed for a divorce.
Isn't love supposed to be about patience? I'm sorry, but saying things like love has no boundries is NOT practical what so ever, infact that seems silly to me. Everthing in life has limits that have to be respected. This show is trying to portray a more realistic story of the web that these three find themselves in.
Saying that Natsha loves Shaan and needs to be by his side and can't wait for six months just makes their love more superficial. True love is all about sacrifices isn't it!?!? Like, takes stories like Veer-Zara. True love is supposed to be about sacrifices, not clinging to each other and justifying that as true love and saying that their inability to stay away from each other is love. That's strong infatuation.
So, i just think ShhanTash should wait. It's too complicated to treat the matter so simply and keep on romancing right in front of the whole family. I know it's a telly soap, but still. There are always boundries and limits that should be respected.
By the way, welcome to the forum!! * squishy hugs* Both of you!! 😃 Please don't be offended by anything I said. *holds ears and does the puppy dog pout* 😆 I'm just trying to show all sides and trying to be realistic. I want to be fair to all three of them. I know I'm partial to my darling Khanak, but i'm trying!
Please join in to more discussions here! Your input is very valuable to us. Hope you find RBO forum a fun place to be. 😃 I'm so glad we have more people participating here now!
Maddy
P.S. Sorry about the length! *ducks* 😳 Once i started i just couldn't stop!! 😆 It's a freaking essay now!!
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