its better ichcha breaks her marriage

guys don't get me wrong i am still a VanCha fan...what i am trying to tell you here is....after yesterday episode i think vansh is right she is still in love with veer and doing only duties as a wife to him......somewhere i feel what vansh was telling is the truth and fact......the way she thinks about her flashback of how her father and ammu gives her a lecture of marriage and then she promise herself that she will save her marriage from breaking its her "Kartavya"(duty).....thats where that i was wondering so much and giving myself a headache....if a married women its her duty to save her marriage and what ichcha is doing is right but not once she has confess her love to vansh nor even to herself.....she accepts him wholeheartly because he is her husband and its her duty....because after marriage even if you think about your ex-lover its a sin...he/she can hold a special place in your heart but thinking after marriage is wrong.....and about physical intimacy that gone through between them well it happens in all married lives after some time of their marriage whether its a love...arrange...or even a force marriage.....so it doesn't make a deal...only those who are very very sensitive who are not able to forget their first love might not goes through this physical intimacy but it happens rare.....in this case its going through between veer well for him i am happy he doesn't go through it with that devil.....

when yesterday she was talking to her mother.....i feel she is not in love with vansh but just doing her duties as a wife and also a sympathy too....the sympathy factor is there till now...which what vansh hates and is spilling his venom on her.....

i know love doesn't needs words to confess but should understand even with signs and eyes....but in the case of VanCha....i feel ichcha is doing her duties and also she doesn't want her marriage to break......

if she is just doing her duties as a wife...its better she breaks the relationship and both can lead a seperate lives rather than suffocating in a relationship where there is no love but just bound to do duties as a wife and sympathy because of vansh past.....

in that case i might support vansh breaking her mangalsutra in his drunken state.....those sarcastic comment vansh gives ichcha is normally in his sense so it doesn't make a difference...but now when he is drunk and after looking at ichcha-ammu conversation and flashback....and also the fact those people who are drunk talks only truth and through their soul...i feel vansh is right about the comment he gave to ichcha"on the neck its vansh's name but in her heart is still veer living"....i feel he is right if she is doing her duties as a wife...why farce relationship its better to break off....even if now drunk vansh does a big fiasco in the party which lead a seperation from ichcha.....i don't mind because its better the relationship to break off since there is no love in it except for the factor of doing duties because he is my husband and sympathise because he has gone through alot in his life......its no way to succeed a marriage

Originally posted by: pinkdaisy

yes...i agree wid mages!!!

the basis of her agreeing to marry vansh is on the grounds of pity n feeling bad!!! she was sure she'd get him out of all the depression..etc.,.....😲
now she's also feeeling guilty of spoiling veer's life!!!! tat he's made to go out of the house cos of her!!!😕

yup it spoiled all 3 lives.....well for veer's part it happened earlier before vansh came into the picture and spoiled his life....and now she spoiled vansh life too....because her main motive in the marriage was tapwater and sympathy factor which now become a poison to the relationship...if she have told by words to vansh that she used to love veer rather than writing a letter...this whole marriage would not have happened and both their lives will be not spoiled....look how now vansh is battling within himself...his heart...brains...shadow....everything....this girl never think twice when she does it...all she thinks is tapwater and her happiness...when that witch doesn't even deserve it at all

vansh is right on his part....he's hating the fact that he's been married by her as she pitied him!!! for tat matter she pitied everyone except veer!!!😕

yup i can't blame vansh also...because he is living with the fact that his wife only married him because she pitied him...she never loved him and this marriage is just a compromise....bechara is fighting a battle within himself even being drunk he couldn't forget all those pain and the fact that his wife is doing only duties to him and nothing else.....there is no name of love from her except for acceptance because he is her husband....i feel bad for vansh now even though he is in grey shades....i could feel his pain...no husband should suffer what vansh is suffering and accepting the fact that ichcha married him out of pity and nothing else...

as for veer...i use to pity in the past but now no more because his sacrifices are useless and pointless and i feel now he is stupid....he just overdone his sacrifices that now it irritates him...why can't he go alone to US...why need to bring the devil along....

there's always a saying "its better to marry someone who loves u more than u do!!!"

true...i agree with that motto...whoever wrote it has gone through the experience i guess....its the truth and fact.....but here both V2 boys loves ichcha alot...although vansh is torturing ichcha but its a fact that he loves ichcha alot deep down....he feels the pain too for hurting her but he has no choice because he is battling within himself

in this case veer is/was in love with her....he knew her form the core..her habits, her personality,her behaviour...everything.....he gave her his full support in everythinh even wen she decided to marry his bro....

no comments on this.....its always from veer side but none from ichcha it shows that only veer loved ichcha as for ichcha she is infatuated with veer thats it because not once i see her stand for him its always tapwater for her....but now i care a damn for him...he has ruined himself by accepting tapwater in his life....

vansh...also fell in love wid her...i'd say obsession!!!😕...

his love is not obsession but way too much that he feels frustrated that he never come into ichcha life's first and also the fact ichcha married him because she pitied him....he loves her alot deep down....he never force her in anything even for the physical relationship but one thing he can't digest is her past that connects with her brother and it was kept hidden from him.....well when a normal man cannnot accept this fact how can a addict accept this that fast when he has no confidence in him

and she chose vansh........just for the sake of the villain tappu....she sacrificed veer like a goat...😕

what to do yaar....uttaran revolves around tapwater......it happens on tapwater wishes

today she's feeling guilty.."yeh sab mere wajah se ho raha hai!!!!😕

yup she must....because of her all 3 lives spolied.....and now brothers are seperating and are being enemies to each other

she should walk out of the marriiage...it'll relieve vansh also...he'll be free from the thought that he's not normal...he'll be free from tat bad feeling first.....she should nurse him as a mother or a doctor...but not as a wife...until she accepts him as he is....and definitely not by pitying....relations just dont happen of pity grounds!!!

yup this marriage has become a bandhan to vansh now...he feel suffocated in it because he realising the truth now that ichcha married him because of pity and sympathy factor....and yes i agree if she wants to nurse him as a wife she have to accept him with love and not being in sympathy mode.....relationships is a success when it comes with love and trust and not sympathy and pity....i don't feel ichcha loves vansh even after marriage...she is just pitying him....and also wholeheartly acceptance is not because of love but because vansh is her husband...such relationships is better to break off

Originally posted by: cjs369

mages i agree that this marriage started on the wrong note for ichcha.... trying to save veer n taps marriage..and also to help vansh in starting a new life.....it continued with a sense of duty...

but though she has a soft corner for veer(difficult to forget him as he was her first love)

she has somewhere along the way fallen in love with vansh otherwise she wud have never been ready to consumate her marriage on the HM (which did not happen only because of vansh' warped planning...)

Yes but even i agree that they need a break from each other for a little while only to teach vansh a lesson...as he will realise how his life will be without ichcha....

but in the end i want them together totally in love with each other living happily together

Originally posted by: Mages

even i want them to live happily together again....

yup maybe you are right yaar...she married him with a sense of duty but in the end she have fallen in love with him.....veer can never be forgotten because its her first love but now after reading your words i guess for vansh its deep love....

yup they would have consumated in the room itself when he pulls her towards him if not for that jerk planning...or even consumated in the jungle but damn the jerk ruined it for us and for them too......

yup...its says right distances brings two person even more closer....it might happen and for the time being jogi might seperate them both because his daughter suffering....and we will see how vansh living a life without ichcha......he needs a lesson to be taught...

but yaar already in his battle within himself.... he is half devdas...if ichcha leaves him and go he will become full devdas

Originally posted by: cjs369

seeing vansh in a devdas mode wud also be interesting.....actually i want to see him wooing ichcha all over again . ....that wud be very romantic