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Now that she has all the options available what shud be her decision?

Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

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+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

Now Jyoti has all the options open for her

1. She'll get her Job really soon and be self-dependent enough to take care of her and her baby
2. Kabir is constantly following her like her faithful poodle and keeps reminding her that he'll always wait for her
3. Pankaj has realised his faults and wants her back
4. No one except Poonam is against her staying single at the Sharma residence
5. Pankaj has all the excuses to divorce Neelam, he just needs evidence
6. She can marry Kabir too, once she realises she has love-like feelings for him

So many options available
But she can't have all of them together na
So please suggest guys, what should she do now?

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Vrish

@Vr15h

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Posted: 15 years ago

I picked 2 options - Give Kabir a chance like Brij & Pankaj, and Forgive Pankaj, but marry Kabir. Let me clarify the latter.

I want Jyoti to marry Kabir. Now, given that Pankaj does want his kid, since Jyoti is sooooo forgiving (hey, if you could do that w/ Brij, why not Pankaj), what she should do is allow Pankaj to have either sole or joint custody of their kid, provided

He gives his name to the kid
He stays married to Neelam. Just make it clear to Pankaj that he doesn't have the right to keep ruining the lives of different women. Unless Neelam wants a divorce, he has no right to end her marriage the way he ended Jyoti's
If Neelam is okay w/ it, they can have Jyoti's kid. This makes it easier on Kabir, who doesn't have to make his own family accept another guy's kid as theirs. When the kid grows up, tell her/him the truth about her/his identity. This will be Jyoti's forgiving him, w/o making herself hostage to him again. Essentially, he loses all rights to Jyoti
Keep Bhairavi away from that kid @ all times

If Pankaj accepts these conditions, I don't have a problem w/ Jyoti forgiving him, as long as she marries Kabir

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Vrisha
I picked 2 options - Give Kabir a chance like Brij & Pankaj, and Forgive Pankaj, but marry Kabir. Let me clarify the latter.

I want Jyoti to marry Kabir. Now, given that Pankaj does want his kid, since Jyoti is sooooo forgiving (hey, if you could do that w/ Brij, why not Pankaj), what she should do is allow Pankaj to have either sole or joint custody of their kid, provided
He gives his name to the kid
He stays married to Neelam. Just make it clear to Pankaj that he doesn't have the right to keep ruining the lives of different women. Unless Neelam wants a divorce, he has no right to end her marriage the way he ended Jyoti's
If Neelam is okay w/ it, they can have Jyoti's kid. This makes it easier on Kabir, who doesn't have to make his own family accept another guy's kid as theirs. When the kid grows up, tell her/him the truth about her/his identity. This will be Jyoti's forgiving him, w/o making herself hostage to him again. Essentially, he loses all rights to Jyoti
Keep Bhairavi away from that kid @ all times
If Pankaj accepts these conditions, I don't have a problem w/ Jyoti forgiving him, as long as she marries Kabir

Gr8 points yaar,👏
But I don't think Pankaj-Neelam marriage should persist. 😡
Pankaj can do without that opportunist Neelam even if Jyoti doesn't return to him
And they can jointly support the child with Pankaj having visiting rights and financing the kid 👍🏼
But will this happen????
million dollar question, hmmmm....... 🤔

Well I had voted for Forgiving Pankaj, (By Forgiving I mean allowing him the ownership of her baby) and staying single,
I personally don't approve of her taking the risk of that emotional attyachar all over again, past experiences with Brij and Pankaj were more than enough

Edited by nikkie - 15 years ago

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

Dazzler

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

Still leading:
Forgive Pankaj, but marry Kabir

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Forgive Pankaj but only after he kicks Bhairavi out [10.08%]
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Give Kabir a chance too like she gave Brij or Pankaj [6.72%]

At 2nd and 3rd positions

Edited by nikkie - 15 years ago

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tulipbaby53

@tulipbaby53

Trailblazer

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Posted: 15 years ago

Yeah, I also agree with the majority of you all. She should for give Pankaj, but she doesn't need to go back to that house. She should marry Kabir only because he truly has supported throughout everything. When things were really bad for Jyoti, he was always there, and he TRUSTS her. Pankaj may love Jyoti, but he did not trust her. That's why he believed an outsider like Brij without a second thought.

Plus he allowed his CM to disgrace Jyoti and her family, and he agree to put all those horrible things about her character in the court.

A relationship without trust is not truly ever going to last. I know people might argue that now Pankaj has learned his lesson, but if he has, then he needs to use this change and apply to his current wife, Neelam.

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jaf21

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Posted: 15 years ago

omg i totally luved today ending the way she stood up for herself n my daRLING KABIR SAYING HE IS HER HUBBY AND THE FATHER OF THE CHILD TOTALLY !!! n pankaj has no right to say that kabir is coming inbetween him n his child actually u darling bas***d u r the one who came inbetween when u wanted the bloddy divorce !!! u can tell i really hate pankaj i want him to suffer in hell!!!! 😈 👏 👍🏼 [EMAIL= ][/EMAIL]

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Star Girl

@Star Girl

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think Jyoti should fall in love with and marry Kabir. And I think she should NOT forgive Pankaj. Yeah, he had a reason to distrust her because she hadn't been open with him, but thanks to him, her character and the legitimacy of her child is still being pointed at and questioned even to this day. Not only that, that jacka** still thinks he's not at fault at all; he completely refuses to take responsibility for ruining Jyoti's reputation and life. So much for being repentant! No, contrary to what he thinks, he does NOT deserve another chance; he still refuses responsibility or sincere apology for his actions.

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

Dazzler

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

Pankaj should only be FORGIVEN if he clears her reputation in public through some media like newspapers or TV, like he did to ruin her reputation
Then Jyoti can think of granting him visiting rights and allow him to give the child his name.
This may lessen Kabir's burden of having to accept someone else's child with his own name and problems created if he has his own children in future
The child shall the be Pankaj's kid living with him only coz Jyoti'd be his wife and if any problems pose in future, the kid can have an option of going back to his biological father Pankaj

And please we don't need another Sant Kabir ki Mahaanta ka lecture
that his mentality is not like that of other men,
coz if Pankaj can change, anyone can.

In Pankaj's case, Brij and Bhairavi had a role, so in Kabir's case, Poonam, who is jealous of Jyoti and does not approve of her marriage with Kabir and Kabir's family (about whom we don't know anything yet) can do the same to manipulate him too.
So its better the kid gets Pankaj's name and he has financing and visiting rights

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449799

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Posted: 15 years ago

y d hell should jyoti marry him/give his kid.he was the one who said that kid is not his its brijs kid.doesnt he have shame to ask 4 that kid and he is saying that he is father of that kid,the guy who cant believe his own wife and believe others people saying abt his wife kya pata kal koi aur kahega ki woh tumhara nahi brij ka kid hain then he will again harass jyoti and call her badchalan and throw her out of home.

he is asking jyoti to come back to get rid of neelam coz neelam showed him his place vuska ego burst huva isliye bahana bana raha hain aur vaise jyoti toh apna muh kolti hin nahi thi san kuch bardash karti hain and pankaj want a girl as his wife who bear all d harassment.

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jaf21

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: strongirl
y d hell should jyoti marry him/give his kid.he was the one who said that kid is not his its brijs kid.doesnt he have shame to ask 4 that kid and he is saying that he is father of that kid,the guy who cant believe his own wife and believe others people saying abt his wife kya pata kal koi aur kahega ki woh tumhara nahi brij ka kid hain then he will again harass jyoti and call her badchalan and throw her out of home.

he is asking jyoti to come back to get rid of neelam coz neelam showed him his place vuska ego burst huva isliye bahana bana raha hain aur vaise jyoti toh apna muh kolti hin nahi thi san kuch bardash karti hain and pankaj want a girl as his wife who bear all d harassment.

agree with u 100% 👏

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