Originally posted by: tarantulla_p
Hello All,
To me the character thats is worst off of all in PR is Vandita. She is subjected to inhuman torture everyday and seems to have no respite. There is no love or any promise of it even for her. Looks like the creatives (?????) have not yet found a way to make her better. I thought as viewers apart from the bashing fun, we could provide them some suggestions that they can add to their script. It is horrifying to watch a woman being abused as badly as she is.
Here go mine: Fantastic post Taran..👏
a. Vandita should just leave her hub and Rasika and go home. To that dysfunctioning home 😲 Naaaah NO way...she can do much better all by herself...
b. Go back to school, I am sure Ajit's alimony should pay...Bingo my friend 👏
c. Go to the nearest newspaper and have them document all the torture she was put through. If need be, she can get a doctor's report to corroborate her story..Excellent idea 😃
d. Ensure that Ajit and Rasika are locked up and never come out for atleast 50 years - she should make this the mission of her life. Made my day 👍🏼
Pls feel free to add more
After doing C & D she should move on completely and not worry abt that family...Follow up with B....Next would be as follow...
Vandita should get help in couselling, improve her self worth-esteem, it will take time...When women are in these type of abuse be it physical or emotional usually they dont open up to anyone due to Blame and shame...It is easy for us to blame Vandu...yes I blame her too but I try understanding how isolated she feels...She also worries about going back to her parents as there is already problem with Jimmedari baba and Shakkar woman's marriage turning into divorce, bro's unwed pregnant fiance & financial problems family is going thru.. She just doesn't want to add more..
Blame and Shame usually Victims feel so they cover up and protect the abusers...Reality and bitter truth...😳
Edited by Dabulls23 - 15 years ago