Muskan's VM - Mayank Nupur - New updates on pg 112 - Page 78

Originally posted by: muskan19

Hi sabah.....

Wow i don't even know where to begin.....Normally i start in the middle, race to the end just when the penultimate part approaches remember that I forgot the beginning and rush back, then forget where I left off and just end....lemme just say i'm overwhelmed by your wonderful comments. It really means a lot to me. You should know, i never lie, Honesty is very important to me.
I have been into many debates, discussions, arguments on this forum and over a period of time I have realised that we all have different opinions, we all perceive things differently and no matter how strongly we believe in something we can not convince the other to feel the same way. We all at some point or other get hurt here because we try to do the same. It is hard for us to come around the fact that the other person is free to express their opinion and even if we disagree we should atleast respect it. I have crossed that line many times myself specially with a very dear friend of mine....but in the end I always ended up feeling bad about it myself and even apologised as i do respect her views even though i get carried away sometimes. I see the same thing happening here everyday but most of the times people don't realise that they are hurting someone in the process and are unapologetic about it. Correct👏It is not about I am right and you are wrong, it is about differences in temperaments. We are not all meant fall in love with each other, some will inevitably grate upon others, BUT we are all entitled to dignity and tolerance. Personally I love it when people disagree with me, I love seeing how others view things, for different perspectives that my own eyes and heart would not have been able to conjure or imagine. Life is so full of possibilities!
Yesterday Nandita was deeply hurt by the way people responded to her post. Ironically, she was the only one who was being reasonable and not favoring either one of them. Her opinion was based on a relationship between two people and not two individuals. She neither favored mayank nor nupur....but was actually seeing the grey area in this track which very few people here are seeing. I felt really bad about the fact that she was being questioned right and left over her POV as most of the people here disagreed with it. But I must say she is a strong girl. I liked the way she handled it without anyone's support. I am so glad that my VM made her feel better. I guess that is surely the biggest compliment I can possibly get for this as I know what she was going through yesterday.She has always sided with whom she thought needed defending. Only a few weeks ago she was ardently defending Nupur against her need to make an 'apology'! I Loved this aspect of Nandita, the advocate of the trodden upon.
Coming back to Mayank...."If the human heart is capable of imagining such a character, then it is also possible for it to become such a character?"

This is so true and beautifully said by you.....I find it hard to believe sometimes that a character like Mayank was created. After Darcy and one other, I have not found such a gentleman. They are quite extinct, but as you pointed out, if he was imagined by a heart, then surely somewhere there are other hearts beating to this blue print! I truly believe this to be true! There was a lot about him that was left to ones understanding and perception. You can only appreciate it if you notice subtle details in his relationships with his mom, friends, his attitude and even his sarcasm. Yes! 😆True we are made of so many parts making the whole, remove one and we are the less.You have beautifully highlighted some of those admirable qualities in your post about him and his mom. Sometimes i find it sad that people only appreciate him when he is being nice to Nupur. This is a tangent but I don't really blame Nupur, the wife...Nupur is the reason i fell for MJHT, but that Nupur is just not there anymore. As with most of the characters they have been pruned before verdant growth. Their stars were spent before they had time to light a blaze across the night's sky. I digress...for they live on as they were in my heart. Their beauty inspires me daily, so I am not complaining, just explaining...😆The moment he goes off a little he is on the chopping board. There was a lot more to him then just being in love which got lost somewhere. Wish they cud keep it all. Well, I still am thankful to cvs for giving us such a remarkable character. Exactly, What is the worth of one moment of inspiration?
You are very generous with your comments. Thankyou so much.......Muskaan, last night, i wrote more about me and my heart's woe, I will be back to comment properly upon your vm, with you permission. You may say no, for it will not taint my opinion of you, in fact it might increase it....😉 Love Sabah
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Originally posted by: samratrocks

lovely vm.. luved it to da core!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: muskan19

Thankyou Senny.......I know you always do.....and I always love reading your comments. You are amazing with picking on the details which usually only a creator knows......So thankyou for that.....
😆 about being experts.....well, not really....just a POV. u r right love is beautiful and unconditional but we r always critical about people we love don't u think lol don't know why but we are.......guess I am about him when i feel a need to be.....
😆 see I didn't really disagree......i can be nice too....lol

Originally posted by: a little faith

Originally posted by: myvoice

Hi muskaan,

Loved the awarapan vm on Mayank. I could actually feel how much Mayank was hurting inside...the disappointment in facing failure...the pain in seeing his dreams getting broken right in front of his eyes. How music can do wonders in bringing out human emotions 😊. The choice of song is amazing, I'm hearing this song for the first time, by the ways, and I instantly connected 😊
An ambitious,confident,focused youngster, who wanted to releave his mother of her responsibilities...how circumstances cause a shift in his priorities, his focus and goals...he gets married at the fear of losing the love of his life...works to prove to his father-in-law that yes he can provide for his wife...then one day, when he sees another young man focused on his work, he gets reminded of what he used to be..starts realizing that somewhere along the line not only did his priorities change.. but the once ambitious,confident Mayank sharma is lost somewhere...the scholarship comes as a ray of light at the end of the tunnel...he holds on to it....determined more than ever to succeed this time...however life has different plans for him...his wife wins the scholarship instead.
I love it when Mayank is in the denial mode and that's what he is right now...I have a sincere request to make...please make a vm on Mayank in denial...the time when he was fighting with his feelings for Nupur 😳...Arjun simply rocked during tat time . I have always loved that Mayank even more than the caring husband he became after marriage. 😆

Originally posted by: Senny

Aww thank you so much. Musky don't take away the credit from yourself. Its not me, its you who pays attention to intricate things and makes it much more wonderful!

😆 yes indeed today is a new day, first of its kind where we are agreeing.😆, too dramatic, Nupur style hehe. But I agree at times we are too critical about the people we love, thats true and while doing so we end up hurting the people we love the most. Its human nature I guess and i really have no idea why it is like this, what could be the reason, i don't even know if its a good thing to be so critical, we are so critical because we want that person to improve and become a better person I guess! But then are we better than that person whom we want to improve. I am a little off tangent here. Umm thinking! Musky you are very nice, just because you have a different point of view doesn't make anyone right or wrong, good or bad, just different!

Musky expert you put me in trouble like this😆, i am trying and figure out, you try and do so too na!